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LadyPact -> RE: Advice needed (4/15/2009 5:05:14 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Madame4a
How do you find the bull and how do you keep it from all going terribly wrong.. its a charged situation...
This is easier for Me to answer while I'm waking up. Please understand that the caffeine hasn't hit yet.
In a cuckhold scenario, it isn't always necessarily true that the cuck is the primary male in the relationship. It actually can work out just as well if the female is married to the bull. While part of the turn on for some is the meeting up with the 'strange man' aspect, not everyone conducts their affairs this way.
It can be a charged situation, but I treat it like any other form of humiliation or form of mind fuck. Those things have the potential to go wrong as well. Most don't. The reason for that is putting in the groundwork ahead of time. Lots of communication prior to entering this type of play, and even more afterward. You start small and work your way up. With each step in escalation, you see how your cuck is acting and reacting. Does he get turned on when laying out your lingerie when you're dressing to go "out?" How does he respond when you're talking about being turned on by someone else? Is he faithful about doing the chores he's given while you're gone so he can be rewarded by hearing about your 'date?' Does he have that little extra bit of enthusiasm while he's sexually servicing you because he's turned on by the fact that you were in someone else's company? Like many other forms of play, instead of diving in the deep end, you start by dipping your toe in the pool.
I hope that made sense. As I've said, it's early. Usually when I write about My experiences on this subject, it has a tendency to come out sounding like porn if I don't restrain My expressions. The draw back to that is that the answers may not come out very clear.
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