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have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 8:49:19 AM   
joyouspolygamous


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i have been here around two weeks and have meet mostly phony or short tempered men and bitchy women. were is the trust? this is a free site and that should be respected not abused. as far as the men go there have been mostly wannabees. my god what kind of sucessful attractive dominate man does not have pics and a few subs in tow. as far as the woman go, have you all been kicked around so badly by fakes, fools, and married men that you feel better when you dump on others. my profile has not changed since day one. i will treat all with respect and expect the same in return. if you are petty, emotional weak, or have an ugly inner self please go else where. as for me i will continue to be who i am, a happy, loving, and giving woman. please share you comments. would love to hear if others have had similar experences.

lisa
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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 8:54:27 AM   
TeeGO


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Status: offline 		I've not been on here long myself but have found most of the people to be very interesting and wonderful. No doubt there are some bad apples. Have seen that actually. But the vast majority are friendly and true. Don't let a few bad experiences cloud your judgement.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 8:56:04 AM   
sub4hire


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Try out the board's.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 9:02:23 AM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: joyouspolygamous


i have been here around two weeks and have meet mostly phony or short tempered men and bitchy women. were is the trust? this is a free site and that should be respected not abused. as far as the men go there have been mostly wannabees. my god what kind of sucessful attractive dominate man does not have pics and a few subs in tow. as far as the woman go, have you all been kicked around so badly by fakes, fools, and married men that you feel better when you dump on others. my profile has not changed since day one. i will treat all with respect and expect the same in return. if you are petty, emotional weak, or have an ugly inner self please go else where. as for me i will continue to be who i am, a happy, loving, and giving woman. please share you comments. would love to hear if others have had similar experences.

lisa


G’day lisa,

On any very large site with public forums, you are likely to have a fair number of obnoxious people jus as you’ll find a good many great people too. It just takes time to sort the names out and figure out who you want to talk to. The block button is always there of course. As far as genuine Masters having pictures up and having several subs in tow,(my god what kind of sucessful attractive dominate man does not have pics and a few subs in tow.) some people for what ever reason (including personal security) will share pictures at a later date when they have got to know you. Some Masters don’t have subs but may or may not be looking at this time. I know I am not the only Master who has empty collars which will remain so until a suitable sub/slave is found, particularly those of us who identify as Gorean. Such slave material is as scarce as hen’s teeth. Just bare with us and you should settle in ok. It just takes time.


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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 9:04:57 AM   
BeingChewsie


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Status: offline 		I haven't run into what you are talking about. It could be because I'm not here looking though. I have found people here very friendly and met lots of people who live as I do.

Good luck.


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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 9:07:00 AM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		lisa,
First I would like to say welcome to the boards. I have been here for over a year now and while I of course, get some of what you are referring to, it is certainly not the norm. This is the internet, so some of that is to be expected. I checked out your profile and you may want to look at it from a different perspective to see what types of people you are attracting with it. Your profile is entirely sexual. It is my understanding that most profiles of that type seem to draw exactly the type of people you are referring to. Maybe you may want to take the approach of having people get to know who you are as a human being before they view you as "fresh meat". This is just my opinion but I honestly think that the style you have chosen is one that will attract those of the "player" variety who are here in order to live out a fantasy. The folks who are here to make long term friendships and relationships will be turned off.

Beyond that, I don't think that this post is going to get you any further in your desire to meet positive people. Most here on the boards react kind of strongly to first posts that are of the "complaining" nature.



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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 9:11:03 AM   
Slipstreme


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Status: offline 		I agree with the last two posters.

Most of the people Ive met here have been courteous, interesting and especially of those who have been active in the lifestyle longer, very helpful.

Sure there are people who have become disillusioned and bitter through their experiences, but such people are everywhere in all walks of life.

And I absolutely love the intelligent discourse that frequently happens here, probably why I already love this place so much. I can share, and philosophize at my leisure with many great and thinking minds, and I've only been active since the 4th.

Stick around a while and really get to know the place. Trust me, it seems the way people post tell you a lot about who they are. Sometimes, more so than their profiles.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 9:38:02 AM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		First welcome to the boards... I haven't had a problem with this site, but then again I am not looking either.


quote:

ORIGINAL: joyouspolygamous

as far as the men go there have been mostly wannabees. my god what kind of sucessful attractive dominate man does not have pics and a few subs in tow.



Are you saying that if a dominant is not into poly then they are a wannabe? Seems to be a rather narrow criteria for who is a dominant.


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as far as the woman go, have you all been kicked around so badly by fakes, fools, and married men that you feel better when you dump on others.



And with this post you are doing what? Dumping on others? Calling people fakes, fools and wannabees because they do not meet your expectations?

I'm not trying to give you a hard time, just a different perspective. Your first post to the boards and all you do is complain. Gives the impression of the pot calling the kettle black to me.

Good luck in your search.

Knight's kyra

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 9:51:55 AM   
happypervert


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Status: offline 		heh . . . so after two weeks you decide to share a rant about short tempered and bitchy people. Those of us with good temperaments and senses of humor really appreciate such delicious irony. Thanks!

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 9:59:57 AM   
fergus


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Status: offline 		Well,

I think there are fakes and angry people here. But I have met with/talked with blessed FEW of them.

In my opinion, the more real you are, the more real people you attract.

And patience :)

fergus

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:01:56 AM   
joyouspolygamous


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Status: offline 		good stirred a few pots didn`t I. seems each reply is getting nastier, and more mean spirited. i actually thought this would be a good place to dump my woes. Please by all means share openly, i did like a few of the comments and will tone down the sexual nature of my profile. maybe i have lead a wonderful life and been lucky enough to avoid petty people. or maybe they just seem draw to such places.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:12:47 AM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: joyouspolygamous

good stirred a few pots didn`t I. seems each reply is getting nastier, and more mean spirited. i actually thought this would be a good place to dump my woes. Please by all means share openly, i did like a few of the comments and will tone down the sexual nature of my profile. maybe i have lead a wonderful life and been lucky enough to avoid petty people. or maybe they just seem draw to such places.


Actually... I am Thinking people have been rather straigthforward and direct about the hypocrisy of your post. Now... but, then this has been only the very pleasant people on this site. If you want Nasty... well.. Assholes like Me can actually show you what really Nasty spirited comments are. But, if you really want to avoid those types of people (like Myself) you might want to reconsider your approach. Like fergus implies... that type of behavior from a person usually gets the same type of people responding to them.



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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:18:31 AM   
veronicaofML


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From: from iowa..now in wisconsin
Status: offline 		i have been here around two weeks and have meet mostly phony or short tempered men and bitchy women. were is the trust? this is a free site and that should be respected not abused. as far as the men go there have been mostly wannabees. my god what kind of sucessful attractive dominate man does not have pics and a few subs in tow. as far as the woman go, have you all been kicked around so badly by fakes, fools, and married men that you feel better when you dump on others. my profile has not changed since day one. i will treat all with respect and expect the same in return. if you are petty, emotional weak, or have an ugly inner self please go else where. as for me i will continue to be who i am, a happy, loving, and giving woman. please share you comments. would love to hear if others have had similar experences.

lisa
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miss lisa...
i apologize for BEING a mean ole man...
my ONLY defense is that "i" am constantly harrassed by those that will not accept someone that thinks on their own. they all want me to conform to THEIR way...just because they have a male Dom backing em up..or they are a Domme and feel they are ENTITLED to everything..handed-to-em-on-a-platter.
if "i" upset YOU..
i DO apologize to you...
i am SO used to..ALL my life..for 52 yrs of having to fight and scrape for everything...and this is supposed-to-be...an accepting...lifestyle..

yeah----------------------------right!

take care lil ma'am.


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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:23:17 AM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		It's been my experience that ones view of any large group representing widely different viewpoints often tells more about the viewer than the individuals in the group viewed. It's a kind of Rorschach test.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:26:35 AM   
Aileen68


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I'm grabbing a six pack and pulling up a chair.
This is going to be better than the playoffs.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:31:05 AM   
ehlovindom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: joyouspolygamous

my god what kind of sucessful attractive dominate man does not have pics and a few subs in tow.
lisa


I guess you will have to put me into the category of unsuccessful, unattractive and non-dominant man. I haven't posted a pic publicly but will always share and I don't have any subs in tow or plan to. Silly me, I am only interested in being with ONE sub.

BTW, it is DOMINANT, not dominate.

Hope you don't take this response as phony, short tempered or mean spirited, I think I am pretty nice guy, once you take the time to get to know me!

As for the kinds of responses I have received since being here. Pretty well the same as any other on-line community. You got the good, the bad and the ugly. I delete and ignore the bad and the ugly and appreciate the good.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:41:12 AM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

D'oh
I'm grabbing a six pack and pulling up a chair.
This is going to be better than the playoffs.


Gonna bring the hotdogs and chips..... unless panthers play today... LOL

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:46:52 AM   
BeingChewsie


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quote:

Actually... I am Thinking people have been rather straigthforward and direct about the hypocrisy of your post. Now... but, then this has been only the very pleasant people on this site. If you want Nasty... well.. Assholes like Me can actually show you what really Nasty spirited comments are. But, if you really want to avoid those types of people (like Myself) you might want to reconsider your approach. Like fergus implies... that type of behavior from a person usually gets the same type of people responding to them.


::chuckles:: I just got all kinds of excited..there is something very hot about a man who is willing to show you what *asshole* really means..:)

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:47:09 AM   
yourMissTress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: joyouspolygamous

good stirred a few pots didn`t I. seems each reply is getting nastier, and more mean spirited. i actually thought this would be a good place to dump my woes. Please by all means share openly, i did like a few of the comments and will tone down the sexual nature of my profile. maybe i have lead a wonderful life and been lucky enough to avoid petty people. or maybe they just seem draw to such places.


You gloat that you have created a stir...you get a little nastier yourself...you want to dump your woes on people you haven't taken any time to get to know and not take any responses from them...and then you attempt to brag about having avoided petty people all of your life...

Seems to me you would have recognized the one in the mirror.

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RE: have never meet so many short tempered & bitchy people - 1/14/2006 10:49:37 AM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie

::chuckles:: I just got all kinds of excited..there is something very hot about a man who is willing to show you what *asshole* really means..:)



LMAO.... oh so your one of those? *w*

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