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Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 2:03:43 PM   
feydeplume


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Status: offline 		Call it a ritual, protocol, rule, responsibility, duty or happy place, there is often some act that we, the s side of things do that makes us feel connected and valuable, something that makes the dynamic more intense or emotional, if only for a moment.  In my experience it is often something small that practically goes unnoticed, unless you don't do it.

Any one want to share what their "guilty pleasure service" is?


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 2:05:43 PM   
T1981


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Status: offline 		Getting the towel to "clean up with" afterwards. It sounds strange, but doing that always makes me feel like I'm bringing things full circle.

Also, kissing him before I go to bed every night. Another tiny ritual, and quite vanilla, but I would feel lost without it.


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 2:10:21 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I actually put my guilty pleasures in my profile :)

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 2:11:39 PM   
T1981


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Status: offline 		Buffy isn't a guilty pleasure, she's an outright "Stand up proud and holler it to the heaven's!" pleasure!


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 2:13:44 PM   
feydeplume


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Status: offline 		especially the musical episode...

"i died so many years ago..."

*swoon*


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 2:14:36 PM   
T1981


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Status: offline 		*puddles* So agreed! Except on the odd day when I get "Where Do We Go From Here?" stuck in my head and it drives me mad....but at least it's a catchy pop-tune kind of madness!


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 3:18:17 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Giving him a massage after a few drinks. For some reason, it's heavenly. ^_^

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/4/2009 6:24:02 PM   
aravain


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Status: offline 		In my last relationship it was copious amounts of 'I love yous' (once we got to that point), and kisses (on the lips, cheek, or forehead) when we had to go different places.

I'd get 'is everything ok?' if I missed my usual quota

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 7:25:39 AM   
MasterTslave


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Status: offline 		like another said...just little things that if they aren't there, are noticed...like kisses when we see each other after work, kisses at bed, getting his things out for him in the morning, making his coffee, him calling me to say he loves me, spending time together for no reason other than to be together...sorry, turning into a mush-fest.

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 9:29:26 AM   
Nikitaa


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ORIGINAL: T1981

Buffy isn't a guilty pleasure, she's an outright "Stand up proud and holler it to the heaven's!" pleasure!



Do you refer to Buffy Vampire Slayer? I watch the show early in the morning on television and I love her. Her show is on 6am when I am getting prepared for 7:15am class. I want to buy the dvd set.
If you not talk Buffy then ...oooops

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 9:35:06 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Mine has to be kissing my Master when i leave his side and when i return to it.  Also never going a day without telling( and showing) him how much i love him,

Matt's littleone

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 9:36:04 AM   
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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 9:46:24 AM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		Mostly, for me, any change or absence, however small, leaps at me like a neon sign. I'm ridiculously sensitive to patterns and structure in our life and interaction.

I think that having to make sure my bottom is cleaned out and greased before he arrives is one that certainly makes me very aware of the type of relationship we have. It's not something I like doing at all, in fact I actively dislike doing it but it's the first thing he checks when he arrives. It's something and nothing really....but it's a ritual that still, after a fair few years, affects me.

There are loads of things, to be honest, though I wouldn't describe a lot of them as *pleasures*....lol

agirl


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 4:28:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		The alarm clock is on Sir's side of the bed, so when it goes off in the morning, he turns it off and before i get up we snuggle for a few minutes.
I was a bit worried that we would have to stop, because Sir got his infusaport for his chemo today and if they put it in on the left side, i wouldn't have been able to lay my head on his shoulder.   Luckily, the right side is the prefered site, so i get to keep my cuddles in the morning

I love our morning snuggles!!!!!!!

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 4:44:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Kiwisub12 is my girl and if everyone hasn't figured it out yet she is a real prize. She came to me after our meeting on this site. She had no experience in the lifestyle had never even been spanked so you might say she just jumped in over her head because I am known in our local community as being a tough but fair master that cuts subs no slack at all. We have been together 3 years now and they have been the best 3 years of my life she is a natural slave and serves me 24/7 and believe it or not have never had a disagreement. I do keep the alarm clock on my side of the bed because I certainly don't want to miss that few minutes before she has to get up to cuddle as sappy as that sounds. I am a fortunate Master to have such a great slave.

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 4:45:27 PM   
aravain


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 5:45:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: coyotedancer

Kiwisub12 is my girl and if everyone hasn't figured it out yet she is a real prize. She came to me after our meeting on this site. She had no experience in the lifestyle had never even been spanked so you might say she just jumped in over her head because I am known in our local community as being a tough but fair master that cuts subs no slack at all. We have been together 3 years now and they have been the best 3 years of my life she is a natural slave and serves me 24/7 and believe it or not have never had a disagreement. I do keep the alarm clock on my side of the bed because I certainly don't want to miss that few minutes before she has to get up to cuddle as sappy as that sounds. I am a fortunate Master to have such a great slave.


Sniffle, that's lovely! She is very lucky to be so adored. It sounds from her post that the feeling is quite mutual.

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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 6:13:18 PM   
Zechriel


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Status: offline 		Good evening!
  Drinking water...every day! I hate water, much rather drink sodas and was drinking about 4-5 a day. Master bought me a beautiful blue and silver water bottle with a d type ring on it(to clip onto a belt but also remind me of our realtionship) and every day I have to drink one full bottle or suffer a punishment. Some days I feel good drinking it-like when I am sick-but most times I do not like it at all. But for only for Master....::smiles::
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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 6:21:17 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Us too. A few minutes before he has to leave for work he kisses me hugs me and then as he's going towards the door, we say good byes, and love you's and have good days.

If on the rare occasion I am leaving and going somewhere with out him, who does the hugging and kissing is reversed, I get up and give HIM hugs and kisses and he says bye bye bye and have good days.
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ORIGINAL: aravain

In my last relationship it was copious amounts of 'I love yous' (once we got to that point), and kisses (on the lips, cheek, or forehead) when we had to go different places.

I'd get 'is everything ok?' if I missed my usual quota


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RE: Guilty Pleasures that are oh so good - 2/5/2009 6:24:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like to help clean him up too sometimes. Specially if he's got cum all over his hands and tummy and cock from masturbating,and personally going to get a towel would be messy, I'll get a towl and wipe him down.

Baby wipes are also handy for clean up and there's no residue from play.

It doesn't qualify as a guilty pleasure though, just something I do to show I appreciated the play.

We also try to say good night to each other before one or the other goes to sleep.
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ORIGINAL: T1981

Getting the towel to "clean up with" afterwards. It sounds strange, but doing that always makes me feel like I'm bringing things full circle.

Also, kissing him before I go to bed every night. Another tiny ritual, and quite vanilla, but I would feel lost without it.



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