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OTKkindaGirl -> RE: Is your submission priceless??? (2/6/2009 9:21:15 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight
I have read some posts here on collar me written by some subbies or slaves, where as it made me wonder, if this person made their dom or mistresses earn their submission. To me my submission is a gift, which I make my dom earn everyday. My submission will not be taken for granted, so the question is Do YOU MAKE your prospective meaning the dom or mistress you the subbie/slave is thinking about allowing the dom/mistress to own you work for your submission?
It was the title of the thread that brought me here; my initial thought was depends on who you ask. My submission is priceless to me and my submission is treasured immensley and for the first time in my life i truly feel valued. To others outside of our relationship... my submission to him is meaningless. i've always been a natural and good natured doormat of a person, (easy target for the manipulative but my eyes are always open, i am not blind or ignorant of the facts that present themselves) that is able to stand up for everyone but myself... strange as that is.
i have always been submissive, my whole life. i almost always give folks the benefit of the doubt entrusting them with my respect and trust until they have lost it or trampled on it, then... not so much of my submission is given, more often than not, it is lost.
Do i make my man work (or "earn" rather) for my loyalty, love, devotion, submission.... that would be a resounding No. If he has all that from me it is because he was able to capture my mind, heart, and soul. How? By simply being himself and allowing me the freedom to be myself in which we are capable of accepting one another completely and unconditionally. That is what makes it priceless to me. It is a true rarity and so very difficult to find.
Never have i wondered.... "well.... whats in it for me if i do this or that", not even with prospective Doms in the past. Seems to me that would be the mindset of a player or a swinger, not somebody looking for a LTR. Some people put hoops out there to see what they can get, to see who will jump through them, that is probably more of what you are trying to say and again... just being honest about what you want and what you are looking for, up front, without any games or drama, should be more than sufficient in finding what you seek.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1993886/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1993886
this was a thread where i had posed pretty much the same question in the Ask a Master forum.
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