Feeling Down (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid



Message

susie -> Feeling Down (2/6/2009 11:54:20 AM)

I am generally not a moody person and I tend to be cheerful through most things. The staff at the hospital were surprised that I was so up beat following my operationa and radiotherapy. So why is that today for no apparent reason I feel the most down I have felt in a long long time. Its been made worse by the fact that Master has been called away on a family emergency and will be gone overnight and much of tomorrow.

How do you get over feeling miserable like this. I am just not used to it.



JustDarkness -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 12:00:42 PM)

uhmmm.....  that is hard to answerit happens...it will pass...spoil yourself some and think of your MAsterbut stay busy.....no sad music.....



cjan -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 12:30:36 PM)

susie, what goes up must come down and, thankfully, what goes down must come up. That's life. It will change and blow over. In the meantime, be your own best friend and take good care of yourself. Pamper yourself as you would a good friend who is feeling as you do.



LaTigresse -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 12:37:43 PM)

Indulge yourself. Let yourself cry if you have to, then have your favourite dinner and dessert. Watch your favourite movie or tv programme, or read something you love. Take a nice long hot bubble bath if that is your thing. Just spoil yourself rotten and make sure you get a good night of sleep.



slaveboyforyou -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 12:40:20 PM)

You know what I do when I feel like that?  I act like a kid again, I go do something fun.  Remember when you were a kid?  You could have fun anywhere.  I have a secret....*whispers*...you still can.  I can have a grand ol' time anywhere. 



susie -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 12:45:32 PM)

Thanks all. I have just spoken to Master which made me feel a bit better. Just typical that he has to be away on a night that I am feeling like this. Still thats life.

I think the idea of a hot bath with a good book sounds like a good way to go.

hugs all



Vendaval -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 2:04:14 PM)

Spoil yourself, susie.  You deserve it after all those medical experiences.  [sm=flowers.gif]




Lucylastic -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 3:00:38 PM)

Feel better soon Susie, I usually have a long hot bath, some trancy music, some candles burning and a glass of red wine when I feel down.
Take care of yourself and hopefully it will hep somewhat
Lucy




popeye1250 -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 6:22:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou

You know what I do when I feel like that?  I act like a kid again, I go do something fun.  Remember when you were a kid?  You could have fun anywhere.  I have a secret....*whispers*...you still can.  I can have a grand ol' time anywhere. 


Slaveboy, good advice!
You know what I've been thinking about doing that I havn't done in eons, Bowling!



chiaThePet -> RE: Feeling Down (2/6/2009 6:31:43 PM)


Picture me naked.

Go ahead sweetie.

I don't mind.

chia* (the pet)



corysub -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 5:55:48 AM)

All great suggestions here.  I've tried them all..particularly the "red wine" and it does help a bit. The main thing hon is that you are out
of the hospital and can look forward to your Masters return.  Maybe thinking about some way to surprise him might cheer you up..."wink"
Maybe some people here might have some ideas in that regard..betcha!



scarlethiney -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 6:06:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: susie

I am generally not a moody person and I tend to be cheerful through most things. The staff at the hospital were surprised that I was so up beat following my operationa and radiotherapy. So why is that today for no apparent reason I feel the most down I have felt in a long long time. Its been made worse by the fact that Master has been called away on a family emergency and will be gone overnight and much of tomorrow.

How do you get over feeling miserable like this. I am just not used to it.


Susie, your body has been through  a shock. Surgery effects your system not just physically but emotionally.  You may need extra vitamins and minerals.  Call  a friend  to come over and have them give you a foot massage with some wonderful aromatherapy lotion that has peppermint in it. The physical touch and the peppermint scent are very uplifting. Aromatherapy is a wonderful tool for altering your mood.
Above all else be patient with yourself your body is going through a healing process. It's ok to feel down trust me it will pass.
Sending good thoughts and wishes you way!

scarlet



simpleplan2 -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 6:08:35 AM)

When I picture you naked, I see cousin Itt.



susie -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 6:20:33 AM)

Thanks for all the advice and lovely pm's. It did help. Shows what a lot of nice people there are on the forums.



DarkSteven -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 6:26:46 AM)

susie, sounds to me like you're having the natural reaction to what you went through.  The hospital staff expected it and it came, just delayed.  It's natural, and was to be expected.



CatdeMedici -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 6:45:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: simpleplan2

When I picture you naked, I see cousin Itt.



spews coffee at the screen--priceless.



chiaThePet -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 8:05:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

quote:

ORIGINAL: simpleplan2

When I picture you naked, I see cousin Itt.



spews coffee at the screen--priceless.


Licks coffee off the screen.

Hmmm, Kopi Luwak, Indonesian Gold, $600 a pound, $50 a cup actually.

chia* (the pet)



NuevaVida -> RE: Feeling Down (2/7/2009 8:05:46 AM)

Pampering.  Hot bath, a movie (go out to the movies, if you can - it's better then being secluded at home), get a pedicure.  If the weather is bearable, take a walk, even a short one.  It gets the blood circulating and your lungs oxygenated.

And, cliche as it sounds, know that this too shall pass.

Best wishes for you, Susie.



Page: [1]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125