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RE: do you obey more when your out - 1/20/2006 4:47:33 AM

1wildwolf

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i find i tend to behave better in public yes...for reason commonly given above....i dont want to show my Domme up or make Her look like She can't control me as we are in a place that we have agreed that She won't punish me...

In private I am more likely to play up...basically because i'm a brat...i wouldn't call it being absolutely disobediant but hey, a sub likes to get punished once in a while

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RE: do you obey more when your out - 1/20/2006 3:23:26 PM

meridia

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wow... well, without double-checking this with my Master, i'd seriously have to say i'm in the minority here.

i am FAR more likely to obey him at home than i am to do so in public. to some extent, it's partially because a lot of our friends aren't into the lifestyle and know me as an independent, caring, sarcastic brat and know that he and i love each other very much and put a lot of work into the relationship. if i start to balk at something he wants, i get a look... but he also knows that i have my own ideas that deserve to be discussed. while i am sub to him, i am sub ONLY to him. he's made it clear he doesn't want me as pure slave, he likes me the way i am

. at home is another story... while we're playing, his word is law and only death could make me do something to disobey him.

there's another aspect to why i'm probably more likely to assert myself in public, and that's because for so long, so many decisions were made for me without anyone having enough respect to get my input first. i do have a brain, and i enjoy using it. if someone blatantly makes decisions for me without first finding out what i like, or at the very least letting me know "this is what i'm thinking/planning", i take it as an insult. if you're going to do things that affect me directly, have the common courtesy to let me know what's going on so that i can readjust my own life accordingly. he knows me well enough to know how i'll react to most things, and the few times i've reacted differently (usually negatively), then the situation has been fixed.

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RE: do you obey more when your out - 1/20/2006 3:46:08 PM

Hallittlelolita

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i totally agree with meridia, i do behave better at home than when We/we are out because when we are out with friends i tend to misbehave a little, well alot. The reason for this is because Master doesnt take His slave out of the house much and i tend to go a little wild. All reguards if i am acting the way He doesnt want me to be, He will give me the look or He will whisper in my ear to calm down and then if i dont well, then thwack with the cain later