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AAkasha -> RE: My new profile is it good (2/8/2009 5:14:56 PM)
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ORIGINAL: nobleslave
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
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ORIGINAL: nobleslave
Hello
With all the great advise i have been given i have updated my profile i am just wondering is it any good please.
Thank you
noble slave
Very cute. Can you dance to that music you play?
Akasha
Thank you so much :D. Yeah i dance like a mad man lol
In other threads I have commented about how "male capability" is a HUGE turn on for me, and I think to some degree for many women and femdoms. Capability can come in all forms - it's just really the ability to "do" something, enjoy it, and do it well - and/or just do it with some level of confidence.
When I was single in my 20s it was a well known fact that I absolutely would NOT date or consider a relationship with a man who did not dance, and enjoy dancing. And have hair long enough to pull. Fast forward a few years and in reality I did hook up with a guy who does not, will not dance (however, he will play ice hockey, so it was a good compromise) and does not have hair long enough to pull most of the time. But he has capability in other areas.
Dancing is a way of expression. In my heaviest "prowling" days, I found most of my "prey" in dance clubs. Alternative, goth, industrial type clubs that had a darker, semi fetishy vibe, but were mostly just dance clubs. I'd develop a physical attraction to a man based on the way he danced. It didn't have to be that he danced *well*, just that he had a relationship between his body and music, and would express it. I found that guys who were visually captivating, to me, on a dance floor, almost always made better prey.
Outside of the general ramble here, I guess my point is this - court women who can see you in your element. Or somehow, show them your element - where you have confidence, style and personality. For me, I like to observe that kind of "capability" then turn around and use, degrade, torture and torment the man - it makes me want to own him on some level. It makes me feel predatory, and I like that. So this means - make music mixes for women that convey who you are (personally, not generically), have them go with you to clubs where you do your music-thing, show them how you dance. Even do a little dance for them. Make them want to peel the onion.
And, you're cute, too. Don't underestimate the power of cuteness.
Akasha
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