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LadyJC -> Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 3:27:53 PM)
I figure a light fun discussion is needed there have been so many serious threads lately. I have many friends who are vanilla and they all know about my lifestyle. Some think it's gross and we don't talk about it others think it's interesting and always asks me questions. One day one of my friends informed me she's interested in the lifestyle. When I first met her she was the most laid back person I ever met. Now she's totally different. When she told me I was kind of surprised, but then looking back I don't think I should've been. She's always been interested in my life and asking me questions about the lifestyle. I should've seen it coming. I love curropting people it's really quite fun. I shouldn't take all the credit her bf had a hand in this as well, she's now trying to figure out how to tell him that she's interested. Just wondering if anyone has gotten anyone else interested in the lifestyle? Or has someone found the lifestyle through a friend? LadyJC

Slipstreme -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 3:36:57 PM)
Actually Ive found I have this gift/ curse of being able to bring out the BDSM in everyone. Take for example a couple of friends of mine. One now wants to get into flogging and making things. One likes the psychology behind what I do. My flogging buddy and one of my play partners had a joke I made up and my other play partner finished that now does not apply: A gay, a bisexual and a sadomasochist (me) walk into a bar...... and the sadomasochist walks into it again, because he liked it. Turns out they were also a sadomasochist (the gay) and the other into bondage and play specific D/s (the bisexual). My NJ friend blames me for his having gotten into BDSM (which he was at first, not seemingly into), and subsequently, him and his slave blame me for helping them become a Master/ slave couple. And yes, it is working out beautifully for them. And they did it through me, because Im such a flaming BDSMer when with the right kind of people. I tend to wear who I am: a bisexual, genderqueer, sadomasochistic furry, right on my sleeves, especially with friends.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 3:52:48 PM)
I agree corrupting people is fun...but you can only corrupt the ones who want to be corrupted. You know the kind act all innocent,when underneath there is a person who would make the devil blush...lol

thetammyjo -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 4:03:40 PM)
To a degree this is why I like younger partners -- I can show them things and give them a taste of things. That could also be true of anyone inexperienced but there still is that stereotype that younger people will have less experience and now that I'm 36 its fairly easy to find younger people who know enough to know which roles they prefer and who still are likely to have not experienced everything I could show them. But then there's Fox who was fairly well corrupted before I got him, I just rounded off the edges and pushed him in a more (what I'd like to think of as) positive directions.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 4:05:01 PM)
To answer that question better,I told a friend I thought her hubby was subby,gave her some info and away she went,couple days later I get a call,shes saying how the hell did you know?? Since then she gets some new info now and then. Its a good feeling.[:D]

ChainedExistence -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 4:07:06 PM)
Actually there are very few people who know about my propensity to D/s ..The few who do are close friends, but I rarely go into details. In my early days I could wax on about BDSM topics with anyone that engaged me in conversation. I rather think I was trying to convince myself that my choices didn't make me such an anomaly. Now, I don't feel the need to justify myself or my choices...I am just being me and no explanation is all that necessary. I am however, a talker by nature...but most of that talk tends to limit itself to Master and the more open forum of the boards. Besides there's something very appealing to me about some things remaining for Master's ears only....

truesub4u -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 4:31:52 PM)
I had the joyous.... or what I thought would be the joyous occasion to corrupt a friend. He knew me to be into submission due to a screen name and questioned me about it. After about a year, he informed me he was interrested in learning more. So I sent him to a few sites I knew of and told him to have fun. About a month or so later. He comes at me like a full fledge Dom. I had to laugh. I told him he apparently didn't learn enough. But also lacked experianced. So upon his asking, I allowed myself to be his first experiment. Now I have to say, for a first timer, he did damn good. As far as scenes go. He stayed in total control the whole time. Never allowing me for one minute to want to or need to question anything he was doing, or attempting. I was very impressed and figured he learned more than I thought he had. Unfortunately there's have been little scenes with him. One mainly because of Master. But prior to that. He just simply told me he can't get into the aspects of BDSM like he thought he would want to. He prefers the occassional kinky sex. Some are ok with this. I for one was not. By this time I had already learn to love pain to much and needed it all the time. So sometimes we corrupt a few... sometimes we don't... but it's fun learning who we can and when can... LOL

LadyJC -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 4:59:06 PM)
The other day my mom said something to me that made me laugh my ass off. She informed me that she's a bad influence on me. My parents are actually in the lifestyle and my mother's the one that curropted me. I totally see my friend as a submissive. Before I entered the lifestyle I always had a bitch so to speak it was quite funny. I'd go over to my one friend's house and be like Get me a blanket and drink or whatever she'd get it. Although she took it away from me. She said she's no one's bitch anymore. cries It was fun while it lasted though. I really don't feel the need to justify, however I do feel my friends have the right know all the big stuff about me if they don't want to hear details fine. The friend I'm actually talking about will ask me questions and sit really close paying so much attention to what I'm saying. It's quite cute actually. I like to do things for shock value as well. While I was in college I was still learning about BDSM, and happened to take a human sexuality course and wrote an essay about it. Titled...Whips and chains and floggers! Oh My! Being able to actually pick a thesis, in one of the smaller computer labs I went on a few bdsm sites that I knew of and the looks I got from some of the other students when they saw it was pretty funny. I even got comments I just looked all innocent and said What? It's for my essay in Human Sexuality. They didn't seem to believe me though...hmm I wonder. LadyJC

KatyLied -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 5:06:30 PM)
Corruption. Such a yummy topic. I think when people corrupt others it can be a special thing. I was ripe for some bondage/spanking corruption a few years ago. I found (much to my surprise, and in the most unlikely of places) the person to lead me down the road. It was a great experience for me. And I know he enjoyed giving me those things. Now it's onward to new and better corruptions, and I hope my corruptor is enjoying.... [;)]

wolffeathers -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 5:10:06 PM)
I have only brought one person into the lifestyle. However, it was fun as all hell. So, I will agree, corruption is fun. Now, if it could only turn a profit.....[;)]

LadyJC -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 5:56:25 PM)
I coudn't argue with you on that wolffeathers LMAO ... well my one friend today informed me he wants to get a pair of hand cuffs...so then of course I have to give him my expert advice...handcuffs are bad what you want are handmade leather cuffs. My mom's boy makes them, they're really nice and quite comfortable since they're made out of leather and they disconnect so you can tie each wrist seperately cost me 20 bucks but was well worth it for the product...now if I could only find someone to use them on I'd be even happier. Eyes around for a victim LadyJC

Notanaddict -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 6:20:30 PM)
i found out after 2 months with my lover (i started out very vanilla, now , NOT so much..) that her fetish is innocence..and corrupting it... so thats how i got a first date... and i thought it was because i was cute... lol

LadyJC -> RE: Curropting people is so fun... (1/15/2006 8:14:04 PM)
Ya but innocence = cute. My friend is so cute, she's adorable, and innocent looking. However now adays she's not so innocent. hehehe LadyJC

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