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asking for advice for a beginner slave - 2/9/2009 11:25:32 AM

boyneedzGodess

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I was telling about my story when GoddezzT ordered me to put a message on here.

Well... I am 21 and new to this lifestyle. A few month ago I "met" a Mistress on a website, we spoke really soon after the meeting on phone. She told me that She always start realtionships with virtual and so I became her virtual slave. After 15 days of this relationship she asked me to buy a collar and she told me she'd come to see me buying it without me seeing her. That's what she did because she wrote me text messages while I was buying it.
Now I think that I could go meeting her in real soon but, she didn't tell me nothing about it and I am scared that she could be a fake one... I have never met her in real...

When I told it in the chat, GoddezzT asked me to put a message here to tell you the story and to learn from the answers. What do You think about it?

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RE: asking for advice for a beginner slave - 2/9/2009 11:27:48 AM

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...wondering why you always do what strangers tell you to.

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RE: asking for advice for a beginner slave - 2/9/2009 11:34:56 AM

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Go to the bank and withdraw ALL your money. Then send it to my offshore account, and I'll tell you exactly what I think.

*giggles*

Dude, you've been played. Scammers can smell desperation from thousands of miles away. "She" could be a guy, or woman... who is fixin' to swindle you out of some cash, or whatever else he/she can get out of you.

Take this as a cheap lesson, and learn to be more careful in the future.

< Message edited by dreamerdreaming -- 2/9/2009 11:37:42 AM >

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RE: asking for advice for a beginner slave - 2/9/2009 11:47:00 AM

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Collecting online submissive's in large numbers and sending them here to validate anything is something I find questionable. I don't care who it is. Why not ask her many other online slaves dedicated unto life to her? What do we have to do with any of it?

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RE: asking for advice for a beginner slave - 2/9/2009 11:55:07 AM

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Wow, i dont see anything fake here at all....she is being cautious, but some people are. You are scared she is fake, what is your definition of fake?

Not really a Mistress? To my mind she is, because she has already had you do her bidding
Not looking like her pic? That does not make her a fake persay, it only makes her actions dubious
Not wanting to play with you? She is playing with you, this thing you are doing online and on phone is play....its up to you to decide if it is the kind of play you want.

I have not seen anything that would give me pause, however if you dont meet in person with in a month of meeting on line I would leave.

I personally thought it was hot that she watched you buy yourself a collar and texted you while she did it....

What makes you think she is fake?

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RE: asking for advice for a beginner slave - 2/9/2009 12:03:17 PM

E2Sweet

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How does virtual slavery work? How do you do whatever it is she needs you to get done if its 'virtual' ?

I would only suggest you stop jumping through these sorts of hoops until you and she have a face to face, sit-down meeting and talk. How do you know if there is any sort of personal chemistry between you two at all? What's wrong with having at least one dinner in a face-to-face scenario before you go strapping on a collar and buffing her floor (virtual or otherwise) with your bottom?

It's my view that there are only so many times you are going to get away with meeting someone the way you and she are approaching this and not get a very real and sad awakening to the tune of "people are sometimes not who they say they are online"...

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RE: asking for advice for a beginner slave - 2/9/2009 12:16:37 PM

Lockit

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You might want to check out your dominant's last post on the thread asking if anyone has dealt with a submissive with emotional problems. She basically states that you should go on your own gut feelings and other people's opinions mean... #!&*%!

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