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Lockit -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:20:16 PM)
Ohhhh that was bad... I am a dominant woman and I am here... you will find many here post anywhere they wish to. Calling someone names is well... childish. You sir... wish to discuss things only with submissive women... you will just have to find a more private place to do it. Now me... I claim to be a bitch... so don't bother.

RedMagic1 -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:23:41 PM)
I am asking a question, not making a statement. sirsholly does not speak for me. However, she -- and CalifChick and girlygurl -- are submissive females, and they speak for themselves, and seem to be concluding that you are insulting them. I am simply requesting clarification. What was the noninsulting way in which you intended your remarks?

rastermanblu -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:25:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: girlygurl quote: Look if I were'nt fucked up, anyways I would not be here on CM to begin with I am in no way "fucked up" and it's really unfortunate that you think this of those that are here on CM. I personally have made wonderful friends and wouldn't trade it for the world. girly Perhaps I should have quoted the song Hotel California instead-"we are all just prisoners here of our own device". I don't know about you-but for me, my association with BDSM if known by say the people I work or am friends with, would be considered fucked-up. That's what I alluding to I am most gleefully a little fucked up...A little bent, twisted and perverse. I like that in the people I meet.

sirsholly -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:29:31 PM)
quote: Is this this thread not "Ask a sub..." If I wanted your opinion, I would have certainly gone to the "ask a dom..." thread. But here you getting into a conversation that I wish to have with submissive women, therein lies my interest Sir, their point of view and insights into the quandry I presented. I have no interest in your thoughts on this subject and consider it a bit queer that you would take such interest in my life. Are you the defender of the realm here? Don't make me laugh. Perhaps I think you are a bitch and need to shut your trap where my life is concerned. Any CollarMe member is able to answer on any thread as long as the TOS are honored. If you wish to converse strictly with sub females then might i suggest you get your ass off the boards and begin to send personal c-mails? And dude...you have no right to tell Red, or anyone else here, to "shut your trap" where your life is concerned when you are the one that started this thread.

rastermanblu -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:38:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Ohhhh that was bad... I am a dominant woman and I am here... you will find many here post anywhere they wish to. Calling someone names is well... childish. You sir... wish to discuss things only with submissive women... you will just have to find a more private place to do it. Now me... I claim to be a bitch... so don't bother. Dude has been a thorn in my ass. I have done everything to defuse him but crawl into a fetal ball. I don't find his tone very helpful. And how else do I express it? He's a bitch, he's in my face, he deserves it.

IrishMist -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:38:50 PM)
DAYUM You mean someone insulted RM and it was not ME????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well fiddlefuck...I am losing my touch [:o][:'(]

SassySarijane -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:43:47 PM)
To the OP: You are coming across as very childish and immature with your name calling and insults here. It is very much a turn off. RM1 never insulted you. He asked you to clarify something as did a number of others because of the way it read to us. just shakes head sadly at the cluelessness and immaturity evident

Lockit -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:44:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rastermanblu quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Ohhhh that was bad... I am a dominant woman and I am here... you will find many here post anywhere they wish to. Calling someone names is well... childish. You sir... wish to discuss things only with submissive women... you will just have to find a more private place to do it. Now me... I claim to be a bitch... so don't bother. Dude has been a thorn in my ass. I have done everything to defuse him but crawl into a fetal ball. I don't find his tone very helpful. And how else do I express it? He's a bitch, he's in my face, he deserves it. Okay let's get very elementary here. First off you broke the rules to this site by calling another person a name. Secondly, as long as his post are within the rules of this site, he can be in your face if he want's to be. Thirdly, dude if this is how you act when you feel someone is in your face... you will surely impress the submissive women with that and when they won't come a runnin to you... will you start another thread about that? As I saw it and read it... he was asking you a question in what could be seen as a challenge becasue of your own words. If you didn't mean what you said and meant something else, you should make that clear... another thing the submissive women will be impressed with. Name calling and getting mad and stomping your feet becasue someone challenges you for something you say.. and said clearly by those who read it, whether that is what you meant or not is not the reader's fault, but your own. Now.. grow up or expect to be treated just as you have been. I wouldn't allow a submissive of mine to act that way! Much less a man who claims to be dominant!

lusciouslips19 -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 4:50:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rastermanblu quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 What is the noninsulting way to read the words you typed, and I quoted? And so fair sir you have deemed that I have insulted you. Sir I have not but now I shall. Why is it that you a dominant male, feel that you should be concerned with my problems with a woman. Is this this thread not "Ask a sub..." If I wanted your opinion, I would have certainly gone to the "ask a dom..." thread. But here you getting into a conversation that I wish to have with submissive women, therein lies my interest Sir, their point of view and insights into the quandry I presented. I have no interest in your thoughts on this subject and consider it a bit queer that you would take such interest in my life. Are you the defender of the realm here? Don't make me laugh. Perhaps I think you are a bitch and need to shut your trap where my life is concerned. Stop insulting our freind and yourself. You are loosing the possibility of ever achieving respect from any submissive reading what you are saying to RedMAgic who has earned our love and respect and has given you more respect than you deserve.

DrkJourney -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:05:48 PM)
My question is, if Red is so insulting, why didn't you just ignore his post? You sure had no trouble ignoring mine and I was on your side....lol Not picking at you, just thought maybe that would be a better solution that the path you've taken

rastermanblu -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:10:06 PM)
Wow. Everyone thinks she was in the wrong, even though we got only one side of the story. Maybe she was interested in him until she agreed to meet in real, and then he started acting like a controlling whackjob. The posts of Akasha and littlewonder are worth reading a few times, I have to say. I just don't see any grand show of disrespect here. I see a man with little dating experience getting too invested in a woman he doesn't know, and the woman saying, "Holy shit! This guy needs to back off, but I don't know how to tell him, so I won't say anything." _____________________________________________________________________________________________ Okay above is RM's first post to me. I don't know why but I found it to be insulting. Something about being called a "controlling whack job" in the first post from someone who knows nothing about me. I don't like being insulted either and do think his involvement in this thread is because he cares about my situation or how I can learn from what happened.

Lockit -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:12:37 PM)
Well the way I see it is RedMagic called it right... you even tried to control him.

rastermanblu -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:14:45 PM)
Okay above is RM's first post to me. I don't know why but I found it to be insulting. Something about being called a "controlling whack job" in the first post from someone who knows nothing about me. I don't like being insulted either and do not think his involvement in this thread is because he cares about my situation or how I can learn from what happened.

Lockit -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:17:55 PM)
Not all of us here are here to be teachers of elementary facts of online and life play. No one has to care about your situation or about you and teach you anything. The fact is... I am pretty sure RedMagic was trying to make a point, not point a finger at you. You took it to a whole different place... And now we are maybe seeing why the lil chicky flew the coop?

IrishMist -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:18:02 PM)
Hmmm RM is being nice YOU ARE NOW acting like a whack job Hmmm....whos the Dominant and who's the bitch here? Does not take much to figure that one out

rastermanblu -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:18:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Well the way I see it is RedMagic called it right... you even tried to control him. And that is crazy. If not being liked being called a "controlling whack job' is being the same. Which is what you are saying, then I am speechless.

Lockit -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:20:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rastermanblu quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Well the way I see it is RedMagic called it right... you even tried to control him. And that is crazy. If not being liked being called a "controlling whack job' is being the same. Which is what you are saying, then I am speechless. Speechless is good... a corner even better. Shall I be insulted? Fine... insult I shall take.. you called me crazy... lol Now that is a better way to handle insults... now since we all know the domina's around here are all about money... you owe me.

Kalista07 -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:21:07 PM)
i've resisted posting in this thread because i have a great deal more common sense.......However, just as it grows uncomfortable watching a train wreck repeatedly happen.......this has been the feeling that has developed every time this thread runs by...Dude, take it from not only a sub or slave but THE SLAVE....Let it go...... The only thing You are doing now is ensuring that anyone that reads the boards never respects, trusts or values you..... Just sayin' Kali

rastermanblu -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:21:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist Hmmm RM is being nice YOU ARE NOW acting like a whack job Hmmm....whos the Dominant and who's the bitch here? Does not take much to figure that one out Nice?????how is anything he has said to me been nice?

rastermanblu -> RE: online gone wrong (2/11/2009 5:25:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalista07 i've resisted posting in this thread because i have a great deal more common sense.......However, just as it grows uncomfortable watching a train wreck repeatedly happen.......this has been the feeling that has developed every time this thread runs by...Dude, take it from not only a sub or slave but THE SLAVE....Let it go...... The only thing You are doing now is ensuring that anyone that reads the boards never respects, trusts or values you..... Just sayin' Kali If that's the case I guess I'll have to live with that.

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