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RE: Calling all "Weekend Warriors" - 2/11/2009 3:26:03 PM

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Weekend Warriors, I know there is a place for them, I just don't understand them. If you are Doms and subs why only on the weekend?

Right now I am not with my slave we are currently several hundred miles apart. I give her tasks to preform each day. These keep her thinking of me and in her sub state of mind. When we are together and she goes off to work she has tasks to keep her aware of who she is.

These can be very simple things like each time a phone rings she has to suck on a finger and think of my cock. Another would be at certain times she is to go to the bathroom and tease her body in certain way.

These are simple ways that keep us both into the Life on a full time basis.

Because some people don't have time to go play around in the bathroom jacking off.

And that hits the nail on the head...these are relationships, folks, not porn shoots gone awry. i dont care if i am 1600 miles away or in the next room. D/s is a contact sport and those that only focus on one aspect of it...albeit a fun and engrossing aspect...are doomed to failure. im more interested in creating a family than a fantasy. i dont need a sexually oriented task to remind me of who owns me....i need my own mind.

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RE: Calling all "Weekend Warriors" - 2/11/2009 11:51:36 PM

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That is a great term "Weekend Warriors", I see quite a few at BDSM clubs, showboating really badly lol

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RE: Calling all "Weekend Warriors" - 2/12/2009 5:23:26 AM

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Mistress is in constant motion.She is the head of household and runs it accordingly.She is busy during the week sometimes 12-14 hours a day working the phones because that is her job.When the weekend approaches,then it is time to tend to the horses.One may ask where is there time to do anything??Mistress isn't wet behind the ears.We shall have our time for she will make time whenever that may be.But when it comes it will be something of beauty and needless to say intense and loving.That will be our lives and that will be what i have already chosen freely to share.

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RE: Calling all "Weekend Warriors" - 2/12/2009 5:49:15 AM

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RE: Calling all "Weekend Warriors" - 2/12/2009 8:06:12 AM

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I started out thinking that I'd be a once a week play thing if that. All I asked for in the beginning was a little communication between meetings so I wouldn't drop. Fuckkk.....I speak daily to him, phone, text, email, homing pigdeons, smoke signals, morse code. A bad week is one meeting. A good week is five to six days where I'm physically with him. I like the good weeks much more and luckily they are more the norm than not. I can't imagine ever settling for a once a week relationship again. I am forever ruined by this man. He is my craving and he extends his presence to all corners of my life 24 hours a day.

This is one of the coolest posts I've seen around here in a long time. Thanks for the smile, Aileen.

My former owner & I were 2 hours apart and only saw each other a couple of weekends a month...sometimes for a week when I traveled with him, etc. The relationship was not based on what we could physically do with our time together, but on interactions in between, as well. I imagine even with those who live together, while they can't enjoy "BDSM" 24/7, the D/s dynamic remains.

I do see what you're asking, softness. It's not something I've experienced on "weekends only" so other than loving Aileen's post, I'm afraid I don't have much to add. :)

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RE: Calling all "Weekend Warriors" - 2/12/2009 7:12:49 PM

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When I go visit R. I usually drive the 2 hours to his place right after work on Friday. He knows I’m tired and gives me that evening as ‘down time’. He does not want a tired and crabby sub, so we cook dinner together and then watch a movie while cuddling on the couch. With his permission I leave the dinner dishes to wash on Saturday morning. That gets me fully rested so for the remainder of the weekend he gets my energetic service and full attention!
Maybe not a perfect solution, but it is what works for us.

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