RadiantS
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Hello, all.
I'm Radiant (No, that isn't my legal name, but it is the name I go by, since I hate my legal name). I'm 40 and married, in an open relationship. My husband is a wonderful, considerate man, husband, father, and friend, but not particularly interested in sex, vanilla or otherwise. I have always dealt with this by having male friends with whom I also have sex.
I've always dominated the men in my life, although not in a direct, overt way. I am very confident and strong-willed, from a family of confident, strong-willed women, and it would never occur to me to tolerate less than respect and courtesy from a man in my life. This has always led naturally to the men in my life spoiling me and acquiescing to my wishes simply because they love me and want to make me happy. I really had never even thought before about how much my relationships revolve around my whim of steel or how often I seem to attract men who are at least latently submissive. And I never really considered the idea of overt female dominance until recently.
Let's just say that I lost the man I was most recently having an outside relationship - we'll call him D - to a woman who was better able to appeal to his submissive, masochistic tendencies than I was. In my defense, he didn't exactly tell me that was what he wanted, and it didn't occur to me because it's just never come up before. I'm very competitive by nature, and dislike being outdone at anything (the woman who did the man-stealing was also supposed to be one of my closest friends, and don't think THAT isn't going to be paid back in spades). I also found a lot of new and previously unexplored areas and ideas that were very arousing and exciting to me.
So here I am, hoping to learn more about this uncharted (to me) territory.
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