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AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 7:12:56 AM

rockybaynurse

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AM I SICK?

Today, I received an email from a black Master. He wanted to know if I subbed for whites and, if I did; "didn't our people get enough of slavery?"
When I replied, I told him that Master was exactly what I wanted. Hence, another Email. "I am a sick woman...but good luck."
Is this a mark of a true Master? A man confident in his own skin? My answer is no. What do you say? Thanks

I started this post on another site and, I was curious enough to want to know more of how poeople feel. Thanks.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 7:23:39 AM

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Huh?

If he objects to you being a sub for whites but not for blacks, he's a racist.

Your obligation to yourself is to find a relationship that works for you.

And he lost an argument and resorted to namecalling? The bar for self-calling oneself a Master seems to have slipped some.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 7:38:15 AM

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We're all sick. And proud of it.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 7:42:15 AM

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He was setting up a message set in his head he was waiting for. You were supposed to say no, you only subbed to black masters. To which he responds, he was a black master and looking for a submissive. Then you were supposed to jump at the chance.

You threw him off his game. I lump those guys who call race into it with those who dont believe a woman can be dominant, or those who believe they are all worthless worms in front of the higher femenine power... you ALL need a reality check. Just becasue it might be working for you doesnt mean any of us need to conform.

YOU have your own preferences, they didnt match his and he resorted to sour grapes. Itll happen a lot, be prepared.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 9:30:59 AM

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Maybe it is racist of you to have a white master. Maybe it is racist of me to have a white Sir (well, actually he is half American indian, so maybe that makes me more tolerant). Maybe it is racist of him to want a black sub. Maybe skin colour had little to do with it, and personal compatability had more to do with it than anything else.
Maybe he is a dipwad waiting for a pavement to hit.

We all have our preferences. I wouldn't sub for a man who wore white belts and shoes. Does that make me a clothist? Yes - I can't bear polyester and i'm not afraid to say it in a public forum! even if i get ridiculed for it. (grins) To me leisure suits were the work of the devil, and no-one who wears one shall get near me.

The thing is, we don't have to pay a lot of attention to people who don't matter to us. Or in other words - fugettaboutit!!!!

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 9:38:20 AM

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i sometimes received nasty messages like yours before from a couple of black male dominants. i've been told i'm bringing down the race or i'm not "black enough" because i prefer a Daddy who's white. race/color doesn't matter to me however my preference tends to gravitate towards white men.

Daddy laughs at messages like that because He views Himself as a reverse oreo (He grew up in a black neighborhood and has a fondness for black women).

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 10:15:54 AM

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I do not understand why you even bothered responding to the comments. As for your question, ask professionals.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 11:19:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: rockybaynurse

AM I SICK?

Today, I received an email from a black Master. He wanted to know if I subbed for whites and, if I did; "didn't our people get enough of slavery?"
When I replied, I told him that Master was exactly what I wanted. Hence, another Email. "I am a sick woman...but good luck."
Is this a mark of a true Master? A man confident in his own skin? My answer is no. What do you say? Thanks

I started this post on another site and, I was curious enough to want to know more of how poeople feel. Thanks.

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Imo, he tried to manilulate you to his own ends. Btw, the only "true master" is one who has mastered him or her self. The rest of us (hopefully) are just doing the best that we can.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 1:23:56 PM

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Why even answer the trolls?

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 2:21:43 PM

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Use the block, ignore and delete keys when dealing with trolls.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 6:43:57 PM

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It's the mark of someone upset because he got rejected. If you were in a same race relationship, he would have called you names on some other account like your weight or hairstyle.

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 11:22:40 PM

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what Des said

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RE: AM I SICK? - 2/10/2009 11:44:50 PM

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None of us here can tell whether you're sick or not.

If your only symptom is submitting to a master you enjoy submitting to, I would dare diagnose you as relatively normal. As for the dude who would rather we all sat and waited until he could master us, well, you should simply block him, or tell him to master kissing your ***, and than block him. M

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