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Can i truely be a slave, or am i a sub? - 1/16/2006 1:35:33 AM

kitia1

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First i will admit that this question was sparked by reading another thread, but this was dealing with acceptance of others, so cannot really be hijacking it, i hope!

Ok my question for you is simple, it is mainly directed to other submissives/slaves, but am more than happy to get Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme input here also.

i know that i am submissive, as far back as i can remember this has been my nature. It is in me to want to serve a Mistress, to give to Them all i can in return for Their Dominance and care.

Ideally, i know, this would be in a formal 24/7 relationship. There are various reasons for this, no need to list them here.

So the question? Well because of stuff that happened as a child, i have one very HARD rule. Psychologically i simple cannot go with a man. Even having one around when with a Mistress makes me uneasy, thus spoiling the scene.

Yes i would therefore classify myself as lesbian.

So what do you think, bearing the above in mind, can i ever hope to satisfy my Mistress, when W/we find each other, in a Mistress/slave relationship or would this one unbreakable limit mean i am a submissive?

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RE: Can i truely be a slave, or am i a sub? - 1/16/2006 3:27:21 AM

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Kitia1 all slaves come with their limitations. Any mistress who takes you on as their submissive OR slave would do so knowing full well you have a 'no male' policy... if they aren't respectful of that then they are not the dominant for you. It is that simple and it is that black and white.

Good luck on your search... and no having limits is NOT the difference between submissive & slave.

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RE: Can i truely be a slave, or am i a sub? - 1/16/2006 8:34:36 AM

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i would add that you (or you and your future mistress) might wish to consider dealing with this trauma about men. Not because you will ever be with a man, but because if you can move beyond the fear, the past trauma will no longer have such power over you; it's not about being able to remove the limit, it's about being a stronger healthier you.

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