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Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 1:19:39 PM   
tmcoste41


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Status: offline 		I need help looking for a mistress/domme. How can i can improved my profile to impress my future mistress
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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 1:21:32 PM   
Madame4a


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From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		being a self starter is something that will impress people.. so... to that end, do a search in this forum on impressing mistress, searching for a domme and profiles... you'll find a LOT of great thinking if you do that..

and this is definitely my own issue.. but NO pictures with Christmas trees, santa... or toys...

< Message edited by Madame4a -- 2/10/2009 1:22:42 PM >

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 1:29:30 PM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		Why don't you ask one of the 25 or so gallery of women attached to your profile?
 
And Im with Madame-ditch the holiday pic---screams married vanilla.

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 1:58:08 PM   
Madame4a


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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

Why don't you ask one of the 25 or so gallery of women attached to your profile?
 
And Im with Madame-ditch the holiday pic---screams married vanilla.


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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 2:00:03 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Your profile pic looks like you are already being attacked with a strapon... I'm with everyone else, swap it out. 

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 3:00:20 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		Writing something in your profile would help.

And what's with the women you have as friends? I'd change the photo...you look as if you're paying all of them alimony.

Taking a photo of yourself whilst looking in a mirror helps you with your facial expression.

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 3:28:43 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Rather empty profile, pic in front of an xmas tree (I can't help but think "family xmas"), you seem to collect friends like stamps - they have to be female and have hot pics...

You tell us what would possibly attract a woman to that?

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 3:53:30 PM   
SimplyIsaac


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tmcoste41

I need help looking for a mistress/domme. How can i can improved my profile to impress my future mistress


I'm calling troll on this one.

In the event this is a serious post, I'd say ditch that photo immediately.

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 4:18:26 PM   
ladynlord


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Status: offline 		Paying them all alimony.

LMAO          That is scary.

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 4:28:31 PM   
MissIsis


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Status: offline 		I am not sure there nearly as many Mistresses seeking submissives as there are submissives seeking Mistresses.  I agree with the others about the photo.  Put something in your profile.  When I am contacted by submissives, I check out their profiles, even if they don't know I do.  I want to see they have something in it, a photo helps, or at least a photo sent with their message to me.  I want to see a description of what they have to offer as well as some kind of sign of a sense of humor. I look to see if they write a journal.  I look at their posts to the forums.  Are they willing to put themselves out there a little in those  mediums?  Will they want to just attend a munch, even if it means they are not the center of attention for the Mistress they are looking at?  Are they able to withstand normal sociability in a group of strangers?  Do they have interests outside of S&M?  What kind of skill set can they bring to a D/s relationship? 

Also, if they have a huge list of women on their friends page here, I usually won't want anything to do with him.  How are they clothed in the photo they have on their profile?  If they are naked or chained, I will pass them by.  If they have another woman or even part of another women on their pic, I will pass them by. 

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 4:33:03 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Well for starters, you could add some text.
 
A big blank spot where the profile text goes, is a huge turnoff.

Also, you look very nice in your photo, except that you look like you're sneering! Can you post a pic where your smile actually looks like a smile?
 


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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 8:35:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac
I'm calling troll on this one.

In the event this is a serious post, I'd say ditch that photo immediately.
Meh, I don't know...   Maybe he doesn't smile much, and didn't realize that he looks awkward/borderline psychotic on this picture.  

What's more remarkable though is the fact that he has a whole lot of mistress friends on his page, and apparently none want him, which ought to be a clue.     M

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 10:06:40 PM   
SimplyIsaac


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac
I'm calling troll on this one.

In the event this is a serious post, I'd say ditch that photo immediately.
Meh, I don't know...   Maybe he doesn't smile much, and didn't realize that he looks awkward/borderline psychotic on this picture.  

What's more remarkable though is the fact that he has a whole lot of mistress friends on his page, and apparently none want him, which ought to be a clue.     M


You're right. Let me upgrade my suspicion...I'm calling spam on this.

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/10/2009 11:54:10 PM   
Usako


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Status: offline 		The picture is horrid. It looks like you ate bad fruitcake and have to poop but were forced to take a holiday picture. A better picture will make a world of difference.

And why do you need help looking for a woman with such a long list of friends? You must be doing something right. Though are they really your friends? It may be just me but, seeing that many female dominant friends would turn me off. It would, in a way, make me question if the guy is really looking and if so, if he's a huge flirt. As for your profile, it's blank. How can people give critique to something that isn't there? Put some info.

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RE: Need help looking a mistress/ domme - 2/11/2009 12:09:48 AM   
azjojoba


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tmcoste41

I need help looking for a mistress/domme. How can i can improved my profile to impress my future mistress


If you have been playing with that friend that's the blonde nurse, you don't need our help.

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