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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/17/2006 1:44:38 PM   
Slipstreme


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Status: offline 		Nope. I like who I am.

The only thing I wish I could change is my appearance and to get rid of my body pains (probably due to malnutrition on this vegetarian diet).

Although I do wish I were a bit more organized and less obsessive. Would make life a lot easier if I could concentrate on what I need to get done.

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/17/2006 1:47:35 PM   
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IF you could change your basic nature and or what you've become through nurture.. would ya?



NOPE.... I love me... trying to be the BEST ME I can be!!!

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/17/2006 5:05:00 PM   
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IF you could change your basic nature and or what you've become through nurture.. would ya?


Yes, I would stop being so trusting of others. But, since I can not change that within myself, I guess I'll just have to learn to accept it and keep going.

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/17/2006 7:59:58 PM   
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Yes, I would stop being so trusting of others. But, since I can not change that within myself, I guess I'll just have to learn to accept it and keep going.

Why not try just improving your judgement so you can trust your sense of trusting more?

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/18/2006 12:49:36 AM   
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IF you could change your basic nature and or what you've become through nurture.. would ya?

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No, I wouldn't.

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/18/2006 2:58:10 AM   
devanite


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Status: offline 		Well if you are talking about my bdsm wishes then the answer is no that will never change but if you are talking about dom/sub changes that a dom has made to the suib over the years ( and quite possibly an effect the sub has had on the dom too!) then you ony have to ask one question, is it better than it was before you two met (the answer is porbably and hopefully yes) but if it is no and you are the sub then you do not have a choice about trying to change, you can bring it up with your dom if you like but its their choice about what you become for as long as you are owned by them!

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/18/2006 3:13:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		could i try and be who i am not...yes. Would it work ...never.

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/18/2006 4:11:25 AM   
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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/20/2006 8:32:29 PM   
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I would change certain choices I have made in the past. I strive to remember some of those as I make choices in the future.


and yet you keep repeting the same mistakes.

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/20/2006 8:54:54 PM   
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I would change certain choices I have made in the past. I strive to remember some of those as I make choices in the future.


and yet you keep repeting the same mistakes.


mmmmmm well maybe some she has... but I am sure there are some that she hasn't! OF course she didn't say they were mistakes in the first place. Maybe they are just learning experiences and because of them she has changed and as result would make different choices..... That is not a Mistake... That is Growth!

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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/21/2006 6:54:38 AM   
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IF you could change your basic nature and or what you've become through nurture.. would ya?


Yes.


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RE: Coming to terms with yourself... - 1/21/2006 8:04:33 AM   
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IF you could change your basic nature and or what you've become through nurture.. would ya?


Doing things the easy way has never ben my forte - not ever from my youngest years. For many years, i did not know the words dominance and submission, i just knew there was something wrong with the way relationships worked forme - which for me translated into there is something wrong with me. There's no need to belabour this story - so many of us have a similar tale.

As a result of much hard work and reflection and trail and error and time, i am a joyful person. i like myself, i understand myself, i accept myself.

Go back "not for all the tea leaves in your china tea pot."

newflowers

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