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I imagined it - 1/16/2006 7:53:08 PM

Smythe

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In another post, a sub wrote about fulfilling a long held fantasy only to find that it was not that great.

I had a similar experience when I turned a boy into a pony to fulfill my longtime ponyboy fantasy, only to find that it felt really stupid. This lead me to realize that some things are better left to fantasy.

Have you had experiences like this? What did you try that wasn't as fun as you thought?

And what was better than you could ever have imagined?

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RE: I imagined it - 1/16/2006 8:05:20 PM

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I have to say all of my rt experiences have not been what i thought they would be.
But i know its because i wasnt with the right person, in the right relationship, in the right frame of mind.
I know its possible.

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RE: I imagined it - 1/16/2006 8:45:40 PM

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with all due respect..
my answers...
no
nothing
and

nothing

take care --m'Lady

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RE: I imagined it - 1/16/2006 9:43:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Smythe

In another post, a sub wrote about fulfilling a long held fantasy only to find that it was not that great.

I had a similar experience when I turned a boy into a pony to fulfill my longtime ponyboy fantasy, only to find that it felt really stupid. This lead me to realize that some things are better left to fantasy.

Have you had experiences like this? What did you try that wasn't as fun as you thought?

And what was better than you could ever have imagined?

Smythe

I cannot speak concretely here, but I can project. I have a fantasy about wearing a chastity device for my Mistress, so that she could have absolute control over my orgams, but, I suspect I would not like wearing one in practice / RT.

Here's a question back-at-you. Did your RT pony experience ruin your previous ability to fantasize about it? Did RT kill the dream?

As for what was better than I imagined.... I never knew that spanking could bring me so close to a person doing violence to me. I always saw it as a punishment and not as a form of compelling intimacy.

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RE: I imagined it - 1/16/2006 10:40:58 PM

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quote:

Have you had experiences like this? What did you try that wasn't as fun as you thought?

And what was better than you could ever have imagined?

For me, the fantasy's have never been as good as the reality of living out my life as I've chosen. Maybe I'm not that creative. :)

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RE: I imagined it - 1/17/2006 12:18:31 AM

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quote:

In another post, a sub wrote about fulfilling a long held fantasy only to find that it was not that great.

I had a similar experience when I turned a boy into a pony to fulfill my longtime ponyboy fantasy, only to find that it felt really stupid. This lead me to realize that some things are better left to fantasy.

try try again. It's like playing a musical instrument. One does not play flight of the bumblebees on the first attempt (and if one does they should get themselves in contact with the nearest symphony/agent available).

I've done a lot of my things in my life that required thousands of attempts/reanalyzing/reapproaching and I cannot say I have mastered them (which really chaps my arse :-(.

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And what was better than you could ever have imagined?

Finding my first slave (well I suppose she found me but I was ready to be an owner) - even if incompetant, her heart is true (she _wants_ to be she works to be). To be fair I am not a perfect owner (perfection does not exist in humans imho) but thousands of attempts later I am by far a better one).

D (owner of j)

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RE: I imagined it - 1/17/2006 12:47:48 AM

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I have had some bad experiences, that didn't work out to great in the past... Public humiliation left something to be desired, it really felt like I was the one being degraded instead of her. If that makes any sense... But then again I could have been going about it the wrong way as many youngins like moi do...
And though I may be young, every fantasy I had ever invisioned usually worked (I only had a few fantasies and succeeded only after repeated failures; with the exception of the humiliation one). Maybe only because I'm determined to make it succeed because its not good for me to have convinced my partner to go along with it, then fail, and have to admit defeat.

But, then again... who am I to say that admiting defeat in a failed-fantasy realization is an act of cowardance in such a relationship?

Point in case: Usually nothing you invision works out perfectly, nothing. If it did, everyone would be happy with their creations. No... our imperfection reqiures us to look deeper, and to work through the problem several times before being certian that we have failed.

Edison found 2000 ways how not to make a light bulb,
but only needed to find the right one to make it work.

(and don't give me that bullshit that this is totally illrelivent because you know damn well it is exactily the case in point!)

I say you try it again Smythe.

And, I'll probably try PH again with the next submissive I preside over.

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RE: I imagined it - 1/17/2006 2:02:07 AM

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Fantasies are such a turn-on as to be virtually sacred.

Personally, fantasies belong in the mind to tease, tantalise and fire the imagination and I don't think I'd risk the disheartening anticlimax of trying to fulfil mine....

Discovering that there's fem/subs who share my complimenting need to dominate was all the "fantasy" fulfillment I'd ever want or need.

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RE: I imagined it - 1/17/2006 5:02:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Smythe

In another post, a sub wrote about fulfilling a long held fantasy only to find that it was not that great.

I had a similar experience when I turned a boy into a pony to fulfill my longtime ponyboy fantasy, only to find that it felt really stupid. This lead me to realize that some things are better left to fantasy.

Have you had experiences like this? What did you try that wasn't as fun as you thought?

And what was better than you could ever have imagined?

Smythe

Hmmm, well, I can't really say that mine have ever been fantasies. Or at least I would not classify them as such. Alot of my masochistic tendencies come out because of the violence that is within me, it's a way for me to unload it.

In the past it has always been about what he wanted, and never what I dreamed of happening; so, I can't see anything as being a fantasy of mine.

Maybe I am wrong, and just have not analyzed some things hard enough, but that's just my thoughts on myself.

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