RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but?

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meridia -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/20/2006 2:43:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you She doesn't wantt anybody else to touch Him. So other play by other people would be out of the question. They shall see what other avenues are available? having a dom/me top both of you doesn't have to be done in a sexual manner. if the dom/me is willing, the idea would be for both of you to submit to his/her orders as to what to do to the other. i can't see why some dom/me out there, somewhere, wouldn't be open to that idea... and they may even be willing to help both of you switch from time to time.

cloudboy -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/20/2006 5:08:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig [: If she is your perfect match, why do you care what name she calls herself? M LOL. Good point. As for the OP, I think Dan Savage would say, "if you need a domination fix and can't get it from her, then at some point you'll look to get it elsewhere." The same goes for her. Do the math. IMO this is a straighline equation (long term) to either: 1) poly; 2) cheating or; 3) repression.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/20/2006 6:21:34 PM)
quote: IMO this is a straighline equation (long term) to either: 1) poly; 2) cheating or; 3) repression. It's all about choices we alleged civilized humans have to make in order to coexist (understanding sometimes the choice is avoid that with which we cannot live in relative comfort/peace); some days the choice sucks, and some days it's fun as hell. I know I'm never satisfied, so I try for contentment in a relatively good match, never perfect. [;)] M

mnottertail -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/20/2006 6:27:55 PM)
Put a tree between you and her and submit and dominate in perfect silence........ That way no one sees the immolation. Billions of people in the world and so hard to find the One. Let me say what some will never say domination and submission is a desire, not a life. It is no more than convienient and pleasant, but many survive in less than optimal circumstance........... What is in you? Therein is the answer. Ron

foxglove716 -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/20/2006 10:01:23 PM)
When you say she "turns out" to be a submissive it leads me to believe that either she initially claimed otherwise(in which case RUN) or that you never knew of her orientation to begin with and gradually came to the conclusion, in which case I can sympathize. Many believe that when they meet someone so like themselves, a kindred spirit, that it must be right. But now I envoke the old cliche... opposites attract

ehlovindom -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/21/2006 9:09:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sub4hire quote: When You have met your Perfect match, but She turns out to be a Submissive just like You. What is a Submissive to do? I mean the first thing he thought of doing was running? But She is everything he was looking for. Except being Submissive. How can she be your perfect match if she clearly has a flaw? SHE has a FLAW? Sorry sub4hire, you better rethink that question.

ehlovindom -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/21/2006 9:14:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you I was hoping there was a cure for this, apparently not? Sincerely, Ant.[;)] Definitely no cure for this. As a few wise people have suggested, since claim that you are so compatible in every way except both primarily are submissive, you can't change yourself completely and stay true to yourself and to her. But you can explore with her and perhaps find some "switchable" avenues that work for both of you. Best of luck

TexasMaam -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/21/2006 9:49:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: Where does he start? If you are interested in obtaining your "Dom" title, bring $100,000.00 in small bills to Redondo Beach and put them in the garbage container on the corner of Avenue I and the Esplanade. In it will be your Grand Master Ritual Handbook and "Guide to Good Dom-ing". Go next to the end of the Redondo Pier wearing a red rose in your lapel and I'll have my page and courrier, arriving on white horseback, bring you your Dom Certificate. EMPEROR MERC <stops laughing just long enough to print out the map and head for the corner of Ave 1 and the Esplanade, hoping to bag that booty before Merc does..... lolololololololol[:D]

knees2you -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/21/2006 6:06:15 PM)
quote: If you are interested in obtaining your "Dom" title, bring $100,000.00 in small bills to Redondo Beach and put them in the garbage container on the corner of Avenue I and the Esplanade. In it will be your Grand Master Ritual Handbook and "Guide to Good Dom-ing". Go next to the end of the Redondo Pier wearing a red rose in your lapel and I'll have my page and courrier, arriving on white horseback, bring you your Dom Certificate. quote: stops laughing just long enough to print out the map and head for the corner of Ave 1 and the Esplanade, hoping to bag that booty before Merc does..... Wonders Who he will meet at the corner? Sincerely, Ant[;)]

Petruchio -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/22/2006 12:01:13 AM)
Some good answers here. I've witnessed this happening from the side of the submissive-F in which she looked to her man for strength and guidance only to find he's submissive too. This might be a case for you to consider counseling; otherwise, I suspect the long-term prognosis is not bright.

knees2you -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/22/2006 7:29:24 AM)
quote: Some good answers here. I've witnessed this happening from the side of the submissive-F in which she looked to her man for strength and guidance only to find he's submissive too. This might be a case for you to consider counseling; otherwise, I suspect the long-term prognosis is not bright. I've Decided to take the Bull by the Horns Wrestle it down, and make it submitt. I've watched enough Doms in my life time to know what is right and what is wrong. If I need Guidance I'll know not to be affraid to ask. Sincerely, Ant

Proprietrix -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/22/2006 9:30:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you When You have met your Perfect match, but She turns out to be a Submissive just like You. What is a Submissive to do? I mean the first thing he thought of doing was running? But She is everything he was looking for. Except being Submissive. Without saying Goodbye to her, What can he seriously do to make a change? Maybe the submissive couple could both belong to a Dominant or Dominant couple. The first thing that comes to mind is the submissive couple sharing "servant's quarters" in the home of their Dominant(s). If you truly believe it's a perfect match, I'm sure there are ways to work it out. It might just mean looking outside the box. :)

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/22/2006 10:28:48 AM)
quote: I've Decided to take the Bull by the Horns Wrestle it down, and make it submitt. I've watched enough Doms in my life time to know what is right and what is wrong. If I need Guidance I'll know not to be affraid to ask. Sincerely, Ant Very courageous of you, and of course you should give it your best shot since you two seem to be so into one another. Do let us know how it goes. [8\|] M

knees2you -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/25/2006 12:31:38 AM)
We are getting Married. June10th~[:)] Wish us Well please. "If the dom has left the room, it doesn't mean that the quote: PAIN has stopped."

Mercnbeth -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/26/2006 8:32:54 AM)
quote: We are getting Married. June10th~ Wish us Well please. WOW!!!! Best wishes!!!

RavenMuse -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/26/2006 10:18:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you We are getting Married. June10th~[:)] Wish us Well please. Hope it goes well and that you can get over the difficultys ahead, but as you say you know where to come for advice. a lot of good folks hereabouts[:)]

champagnewishes -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/29/2006 4:09:01 AM)
quote: I was hoping there was a cure for this, apparently not? Finding a cure was to no avail....marriage appears to have provided a solution. My best wishes for the two of you.

knees2you -> RE: When you have met your Perfect match, but? (1/29/2006 5:45:34 PM)
Yes I Felt Marriage was not an issue. It was what seemed right. Thank You all for the Support! Sincerely, Ant[;)]

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