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Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 10:40:25 AM

Hallittlelolita

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my Mastrer and i had Our/our first really hardcore scene on Saturday night. Well to make a long story short i was really in ultimate subspace it felt out of this world like i was on cloud nine now i cant get enough of it! i love being owned and under His control, i want to be beaten literally i feel like this has opened a whole new world to me and i love it i want more way more like every day is this normal for some of you too? Master said He gets to decide when it happens and where it happens the thing is i am completly addicted it feels great. i would love to know what others have to say on this

Thanks for your time and reading this

Sincerely His lil cumslut slavegirl andie

< Message edited by Hallittlelolita -- 1/17/2006 10:41:44 AM >

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 11:03:37 AM

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I find it hard to believe you've somehow missed the "sub frenzy" term and concept since you've been posting?

Just be careful of sub drop. Don't want you to have to start another thread in a few days about how to deal with feeling bereft and depressed and all.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 11:06:12 AM

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it must have been sat full moon---i experienced knife play for the first time--totally loved it- i want more!!! being under Masters power and control is awesome----and what a freakin gorgeous blade-OMG-talk about a turn-on...
so its understandable how you feel*smiles big and nods*
much more fun to all of us that love it

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 11:14:18 AM

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quote:

i want more way more like every day is this normal for some of you too? Master said He gets to decide when it happens and where it happens the thing is i am completly addicted it feels great. i would love to know what others have to say on this Thanks for your time and reading this

Is it normal? For some yes. I do know that I get the same high, and the same craving from pain that drug addicts do from drugs. It's such a rush that you just want more and more. Your Master is smart though to keep it under control. Some will say differently, but pain is very addicting and can very quickly become an addiction much in the way that heavy drug use can.

Enjoy the new experiences. They are indeed super super super.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 11:28:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hallittlelolita
...i want to be beaten literally i feel like this has opened a whole new world to me and i love it...

Wait. You want to be beaten literally or you literally feel like this has opened up a new world for you (or both)? Periods and commas are important...

Regardless, from my perspective it is expected of a submissive to feel she fits exactly where she is in this treatment, but I'm not always sure it's "normal", considering the circus of opinion out there. There are many me, me, me "submissives" at play.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 11:44:55 AM

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And undoubtedly an equal number of dominants.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 12:05:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: caitlyn

And undoubtedly an equal number of dominants.

Hence, circus.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 1:17:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hallittlelolita

my Mastrer and i had Our/our first really hardcore scene on Saturday night. Well to make a long story short i was really in ultimate subspace it felt out of this world like i was on cloud nine now i cant get enough of it! i love being owned and under His control, i want to be beaten literally i feel like this has opened a whole new world to me and i love it i want more way more like every day is this normal for some of you too? Master said He gets to decide when it happens and where it happens the thing is i am completly addicted it feels great. i would love to know what others have to say on this Thanks for your time and reading this

Sincerely His lil cumslut slavegirl andie

Yes it is normal. My slave has experenced the same thing. I believe it's important to wait between scenes, otherwise you will become addicted. By that I mean addicted in a bad way.
Good luck to you and your Master.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 2:42:28 PM

Hallittlelolita

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i wanna thank you all who had somthing nice to say about my post thank you for your input and point of view. Have a terrific day

sincerely Master Hal's lil cumslut slavegirl andie

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 4:06:22 PM

sweetpettjenny

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its normal to feel loss and subdrop yes. i hope he did aftercare with you.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 4:25:56 PM

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Funny that your screename is "Lolita." Despite her age, she was THE TOP in that relationship.

"it struck me....that I simply did not know a thing about my darlings mind and that quite possible, behind the awful juvenile clichés, there was in her a garden and a twilight, and a palace gate -- dim and adorable regions which happened to be lucidly and absolutely forbidden to me, in my polluted rags and miserable convulsions; for I often notice that living as we did, she and I, in a world of total evil, we would become strangely embarrassed whenever I tried to discuss something she and an older friend, she and a parent, she and real healthy sweetheart, I and Annabelle, Lolita and a sublime, purified, analyzed, deified Harold Haze, might have discussed -- an abstract idea, a painting, stippled Hopkins or shorn Baudelaire, God or Shakespeare, anything of a genuine kind. Good will! She would mail her vulnerability in tribe brashness and boredom, whereas I, using for my separately detached comments an artificial tone of voice that set my own last teeth on edge, provoked my audience to such outbursts of rudeness as made any further conversation impossible, oh my poor, bruised child.

I loved you. I was a pentagon monster, but I loved you.”

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 4:41:41 PM

Hallittlelolita

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i redid my reply below

Sincerely Master Hal's lil cumslut slavegirl andie

< Message edited by Hallittlelolita -- 1/17/2006 4:47:15 PM >

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 4:44:58 PM

Hallittlelolita

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Master calls me lolita because he thinks i look like the girl on the movie who is played by Dominque Swain. He also thinks that i have her innocence as well, plus He is 13 years older than me and He thinks it fits

Sincerely Master Hal's lil cumslut slavegirl andie

quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Funny that your screename is "Lolita." Despite her age, she was THE TOP in that relationship.

"it struck me....that I simply did not know a thing about my darlings mind and that quite possible, behind the awful juvenile clichés, there was in her a garden and a twilight, and a palace gate -- dim and adorable regions which happened to be lucidly and absolutely forbidden to me, in my polluted rags and miserable convulsions; for I often notice that living as we did, she and I, in a world of total evil, we would become strangely embarrassed whenever I tried to discuss something she and an older friend, she and a parent, she and real healthy sweetheart, I and Annabelle, Lolita and a sublime, purified, analyzed, deified Harold Haze, might have discussed -- an abstract idea, a painting, stippled Hopkins or shorn Baudelaire, God or Shakespeare, anything of a genuine kind. Good will! She would mail her vulnerability in tribe brashness and boredom, whereas I, using for my separately detached comments an artificial tone of voice that set my own last teeth on edge, provoked my audience to such outbursts of rudeness as made any further conversation impossible, oh my poor, bruised child.

I loved you. I was a pentagon monster, but I loved you.”

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 5:46:04 PM

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Are you unsettled about your masochistic tendencies???

dL

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 5:59:33 PM

doubleLeo

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Sweetpettjenny has a good point! :-)

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 8:41:58 PM

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I like heavy duty scenes too. I have come to realize that it takes a lot of energy for a Dom to generate something like that. If you are not demanding of Him and make Him feel energized and appreciated and honored and respected for all He does for you, it may inspire Him to want to do heavier play more often. Look for ways to have him be energized, rested, and stress free. And be grateful and satisfiable when you get it good.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 9:18:02 PM

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classykindasassy

that is really awesome advice!!!

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/17/2006 10:18:30 PM

Petruchio

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I have often thought that subs can become more addicted that doms, and the frenzy mentioned hits upon this.

This is where dom control is most important because if left unchecked, some subs will resort to hi-risk behavior to seek their fix.

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/18/2006 2:56:29 AM

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Thankyou Double leo... i was serious in the aftercare . Did he give you aftercare? you didn't answer. Sometimes without it , it will leave you feeling needy in many ways, or even craving more because there was no closure to the scene. Sub drop does lots to you physically and emotionally, so make sure that you recieve aftercare after any scene, as it is important.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hallittlelolita

my Mastrer and i had Our/our first really hardcore scene on Saturday night. Well to make a long story short i was really in ultimate subspace it felt out of this world like i was on cloud nine now i cant get enough of it! i love being owned and under His control, i want to be beaten literally i feel like this has opened a whole new world to me and i love it i want more way more like every day is this normal for some of you too? Master said He gets to decide when it happens and where it happens the thing is i am completly addicted it feels great. i would love to know what others have to say on this Thanks for your time and reading this

Sincerely His lil cumslut slavegirl andie

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RE: Is this normal? - 1/18/2006 9:17:37 AM

Hallittlelolita

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Yes He did after care as in kissing me after wards and putting me in bed and tucking me in. i was still in after shock though like i was say sore my whole body ached and i fell asleep after laying there for like a ahalf hour thinking abou what just had happened and then i fell asleep.

Sincerely Master Hal's lil cumslut slavegirl andie

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