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stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 2:29:01 AM   
InTonguesslave


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you know how birds develop brighter plummage when theyre in the mating season and female baboons bottoms get bigger and dogs vulvas enlarge and well, so on and so forth....

well, stupid question coming up...,

ive recently stepped into an Ms relationship with a man whose runing rings round me (a first for me let me tell you!) he's got my submissive psyche tied up in knots and ive recently noticed that my bum is bigger! - its sticking out more than usual - i work out and i ride my horse regularly, so my normal shape is average really, but i keep catching a reflection of it in my bathroom mirror and its definitely bigger.

has anyone else noticed this phenomena - i just find it amusing and curious - is it possible that submissives alter shape to accentuate their sexuality in areas of the body that are of particular interest to their partner.

or am i just overworking my ass in the gym!!

i told you it was a stupid question.
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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 2:54:20 AM   
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Does this Dom make my ass look big???
Sorry Lally, it's late here and I just couldn't resist 


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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 2:56:07 AM   
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Perhaps this isn't a stupid question at all, maybe you understand the Ms relationship better than you think and as the saying goes"your ass is now his".  Perhaps this symbolism of giving your ass so to speak has imprinted right into brain and you honestly think your ass is bigger because you are thinking about it. 

I often put my submissives into thick diapers, not because I am into AB play, or because they are wanting to be put into diapers, but because while they are discoving what it is like after they have submitted their ass to me, they are also dealing with the visual problem of having a very large ass.  They can't help but feel this new largeness with every move they make and so their ass is constantly on their mind and I have found this to be a very good thing during their training.

So as I said at first, this may not be the stupid question you thought it was, but instead a very aware thought of what you have given to your Master.  

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 2:59:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Does this Dom make my ass look big???
Sorry Lally, it's late here and I just couldn't resist 



oh sweet!!! -

... and i just spat coffee all over the cat!! 

thats going to make me giggle all day now.

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 3:00:16 AM   
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lally??.....erm, yeah, theres a study on ass-expansion and the modern submissive in Dominant Monthly. Mine like tits...we are doomed.

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 3:03:41 AM   
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quote:

... and i just spat coffee all over the cat!! 
thats going to make me giggle all day now.

Apologize to the kitteh for me, but ROFL!
You're very welcome for the giggle


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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 3:07:20 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Imakemensquirm

Perhaps this isn't a stupid question at all, maybe you understand the Ms relationship better than you think and as the saying goes"your ass is now his".  Perhaps this symbolism of giving your ass so to speak has imprinted right into brain and you honestly think your ass is bigger because you are thinking about it. 

I often put my submissives into thick diapers, not because I am into AB play, or because they are wanting to be put into diapers, but because while they are discoving what it is like after they have submitted their ass to me, they are also dealing with the visual problem of having a very large ass.  They can't help but feel this new largeness with every move they make and so their ass is constantly on their mind and I have found this to be a very good thing during their training.

So as I said at first, this may not be the stupid question you thought it was, but instead a very aware thought of what you have given to your Master.  


thank you - youre probably right - i havent ever really paid much attention to my bum, anymore than any other part of me anyway - yes, i guess i am more aware of it now.

thank god! - i was getting a little worried there -

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 3:08:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: persephonee

lally??.....erm, yeah, theres a study on ass-expansion and the modern submissive in Dominant Monthly. Mine like tits...we are doomed.


oh shit!! - and yes percy, its lally - so, according to this study, if a D has a fetish for feet you should run while you still can.

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 5:28:56 AM   
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Isn't it amazing to see yourself with someone else's eyes, or try to see what they see at least. It does totally change your body image (hopefully in a positive way) when you have a new reference point for what body parts are your *ahem* assets.

(does this dom make my butt look fat is going to take me DAYS to get over)


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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 6:06:46 AM   
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He's feeding you ice cream?

Seriously, I expect that when you're eating with someone else, you eat more regularly and might be gaining a few pounds as a result.  Or maybe his cum is high-cal?


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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 6:22:57 AM   
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quote:

you know how birds develop brighter plummage


Especially the Norweigan Blue


Seriously, I don't know that human organs, and certainly not the buttocks which are composes of muscle and adipose tissue, react this way.  However, YOU might be looking at your butt with more scrutiny and interpreting what has been there all along in a different way.  The brain will play tricks on you like that.

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 6:30:27 AM   
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Ya know - if scrutiny and obsession made body bits bigger, women would need wheelbarrows to carry our boobs around.



just a thought

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 6:33:34 AM   
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LOLOLOLOLOLOL...kiwisub12....Now your have her out to the hardware looking for that wheelbarrell

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 8:19:48 AM   
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hahahahahaha  ROTFL  
Does this Dom make my butt look fat?  
Now your have her out to the hardware looking for that wheelbarrell 
hahaha  too funny

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 8:28:53 AM   
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the man i adore likes huge boobs to tie and beat, and in the two years we've been together, mine haven't grown a bit; as a matter of fact, i think they've shrunk!  so no, i don't think one thing has to do with another.

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 8:38:42 AM   
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Have your pants size changed? If it hasn't, then no, your ass hasn't grown. If it has, I would think the spankings are at fault :P

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 9:30:13 AM   
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Is it possible that with your working out that your waist is smaller, thus making your ass just look bigger?

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 11:21:58 AM   
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I would say its a combination of psychosomatism and subconsciously sticking your bum out a bit when you walk past a mirror and your attention is drawn to it.  Regular hard floggings/canings won't make your bum bigger, but they can make it leathery.

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 11:37:25 AM   
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If you figure it out Lally, please let me know how. I have zero butt but make up in the boob area. Sir has hard time grabbing my butt, since is is flat. My stomach is almost flat too. Just too torpedos sticking out but wanting to head south for some reason..hmmm..gravity:)

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RE: stupid stupid stupid stuped question - 2/15/2009 12:51:25 PM   
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i am having difficulty getting into my jeans, i really need to wiggle my bum in and kinda jump into them holding onto the waistband and then push my legs in deep a few times till my bum settles where it can and once im in, i dunno but they seem to be creeping up my crack a bit! - maybe im just getting fat!

owl, honest, go to the gym babe - it works, those leg presses really cook!!

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