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keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 9:46:16 AM

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i am very fortunate to serve a lovely Mistress. She is very good to me. We keep in contact on a daily basis here online, by text and on the phone. Because it is a long distance relationship, we only see each other every other month or so. my question, to any who wish to help, is do you have suggestions of how i can keep Mistress in my thoughts during my time away from her?

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 10:00:31 AM

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keep a photo of her with you?

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 10:08:02 AM

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hello herpreciouspet

i know exactly what you mean about serving a lovely Mistress, i have until very recently had the pleasure and honor of serving a beautiful woman . my suggestion is setting up an online journal to keep in contact, you can express yourself openly and honesty, not only is it your place to express your inner feelings but She can see it and comment on it. it is very helpful and i cannot thank my former Mistress enough for that.

be well and good luck

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 10:12:05 AM

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keep a photo of her with you?

i do presently carry a picture of her and another of myself, in a position that Mistress instructed. i do feel that this brings me closer to her.

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 10:15:04 AM

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jstmi, i am sorry to hear that you are no longer serving your Mistress. i hope that you and she can move forward and find what you wish and need.

Concerning the journal, that is a very good idea. i am not good at keeping up with these type of daily tasks, but it might be something that i shouild strive to be able to do.

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 10:57:19 AM

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IMHO every thought, every moment should be filled with Her-I mean if its a relationship, how hard is it to keep them top of mind?

As busy as I am, as filled as My days are, chezz is as much a consideration, a thought as My UM. I don't force it, it simply is because W/we simply are.

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 10:57:37 AM

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I would think if you really loved and care for someone they would always be in your thoughts with no prompting needed.

I know that Master is always in my thoughts. Even when I'm busy with other tasks he's still in the back of my mind...he never leaves. I'm always wondering how he is, what he's doing, hoping he's alright, etc...

The picture idea is good..maybe have her give you something of her's to hold onto.

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 11:34:28 AM

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i would agree that i do think of Mistress through the day, she is on my mind. i do wonder how her day is going and think about when i might be speaking with her again.

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 11:54:57 AM

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I have a picture of Sir and me when we went on a cruise. It sits near my computer. We both enjoyed that time so much and both cherish it. I have a picture of Sir studying over my desk. It is like when I look up, I know he's looking down at me and saying, "Make me proud".

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 12:58:46 PM

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that is so lovely and nice, i am sure you do make Him very proud

good luck to Y/you both

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RE: keeping Mistress in my thoughts - 2/15/2009 1:45:59 PM

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Get a bottle of the perfume she wears and spray it on your pillow, or something that you hold at night.

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