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TPEowners2serve -> non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:26:12 AM)
Ok, so here's my rant... and I just can't figure out wtf this means, so I'm totally hoping ya'll can fill me in on why this might happen. So last week we get an unsolicited CM message from a slave. And... we're in the market so I pay attention... This first message seems very honest & straighforward enough so we open chat discussions for a few days and start getting to know situations, conditions, details. Over the same few days my wife and I continue talking it through, and it seems to us like she'd be a particularly good fit for our home. I communicate this to the slave and schedule introductions between wife and slave and... and... and... NOTHING? nada... Apparently she goes online, and reads our messages so we know she's alive... presumably get's our Messenger offline notes... Now we're sort of excited, worked up and gearing our plans to bring a new slave into our home &... nothing??? What does that mean? I don't get it. Any hints? [Mod Note: email deleted]

GreedyTop -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:27:24 AM)
no response IS a response.

IrishMist -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:30:09 AM)
I am not the most intelligent person here but...It just might mean... well... she is playing you and not really interested in anything other than the fantasy in her own mind. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:30:23 AM)
Dude...you don't need to be a rocket scientist to figure out what a "no response" means. GreedyTop nailed it.

KatyLied -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:31:58 AM)
quote: I don't get it. Any hints? Taking about bringing her into your home before you've met her may have her thinking that you are desperate.

Simpleslave101 -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:33:08 AM)
I thought that was standard on CM. Ha

RedMagic1 -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:35:15 AM)
How do you know this person is female?

IrishMist -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:37:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 How do you know this person is female? /snicker

CatdeMedici -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:37:48 AM)
she's just not that into you.[;)]

KatyLied -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 11:39:01 AM)
You may feel free to adjust the pronouns to suit the story. I confess that I did not peek at the profiles.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 12:20:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop no response IS a response. What she said!

SassySarijane -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 12:33:41 PM)
If the letter you posted was the first contact from her, that would have been a huge red flag for me straight off just by what it said. It screamed interested in the fantasy not the people or the reality to me and I wouldn't have likely even responded to something like that unless I was bored and wanted to see how far they'd go in the fantasy, I wouldn't believe them to be serious about it or that they'd carry through for long. No response IS a response. Move on.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 12:41:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici she's just not that into you.[;)] omg seen the movie?? it's fkin AWESOME[:D]

windchymes -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 2:44:27 PM)
She was killed in a tragic accident and her sister is reading her emails? [8\|]

came4U -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 2:57:22 PM)
She sent you a copy/paste mass email then regretted it later, she likely barely read your profile for all we know. If you and the wife get that excited over a copy paste, hate to see the disappointment when you actually speak to a few people a couple of times and they bail. No response means simply she changed her mind. Get over it. Writing more than once in reply to her is just creepy.

DrkJourney -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 3:44:48 PM)
um..hate to break it to you dude, but I got this email not too long ago, it's a copy and paste, but in my case he was a guy, or at least that's what his nik said. If someone copies and paste to me I give them the standard "no thanks" and move to the next email. Usually, in a week or two I'll get the same cut and paste, usually from the same nik...they obviously don't keep track of who they spam. just plain old collarme players....

DarkSteven -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 5:13:37 PM)
The problem is that you went and had the room painted and got the welcome banners ready for her and everything, and she was only an email at that point. There are many emails out there. Move on.

trueshadow -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 6:36:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici she's just not that into you.[;)] DAMN! Ya got that in before I did! My first thought when I read the post. Anyway, there are many more missed connections that hook-ups in the real world...

natasha66 -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/15/2009 7:57:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici she's just not that into you.[;)] Yup. Exactly what I was thinking.

happypervert -> RE: non-responsiveness (2/16/2009 7:55:24 AM)
To get a response you need to promise to send the airfare so she can fly in from Nigeria

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