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Help the “unenlightened” understand foot fetishes - 1/17/2006 8:27:18 PM

DelRey

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So I have this casual dating,,,,,, errrrrrr ahhh friend with bennies situation. She tries to put on the roll of my cum slut and in return I attempt to play up the whole foot fetish thing. It’s a friendly type of, “your alone and horny, I’m alone and horny so lets help each other out” sort of thing…. And we do. So the question is really simple, aside from just toe sucking while I’m giving it to her or some over the top foot massages, help a guy out with his understanding of this whole “foot erogenous zone” thing cuz I just don’t get it and I want to at least have more than the boring repwatwa that I have now.

I got exactly 2 maneuvers that get her there and I know if you ask even the dumbest question on this board you still some how get great answers so how about some new techniques I can work in to the show?

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RE: Help the “unenlightened” understand foot fetishes - 1/17/2006 8:35:09 PM

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True fetishes tend to be highly individualized. Foot fetishes can cover paint, dirt, trampling, shoes, angles, what the foot is wearing, what the foot is on, the perspective of the worshipper and more.

Just get to know what makes her mind tick and expand on it.

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RE: Help the “unenlightened” understand foot fetishes - 1/17/2006 10:47:37 PM

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I personally enjoy the idea of using my feet to get someone else off. That I find very cool. Although I would suggest using ultimate clenliness before sticking toes in a vagina. I did it to a guy and through pants, so clenliness was not an issue.

Trampling and threatening with the feet though, could probably be done with less care. My experience with this has been limited at best.

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RE: Help the “unenlightened” understand foot fetishes - 1/18/2006 3:01:31 AM

devanite

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lol (raises hand) yup womens feet are usually the most beautiful thing to me, y I dunno but I have accepted it at least try remembering that as long as you are not bothering her and she is not bothering you then there is no problem with what you two are doing! Understanding it takes time and you will not find the answer for your own personal fetish and what it means to you on this or any other message board

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RE: Help the “unenlightened” understand foot fetishes - 1/18/2006 4:10:53 AM

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it's just cause it feels so good, Hun...

some ideas...

use a warm damp wash clothe to 'bathe' her feet...
give her a massage with warm skin so soft (from avon) or baby oil...
don't just use your whole hand when giving these massages...take one finger and glide it over usually 'ticklish' spots
paint her nails
put her in some sexy shoes..
and of course, my favorite...kissing her feet and sucking on those cute lil toes!

mmmm (almost better than chocolate!!)

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RE: Help the “unenlightened” understand foot fetishes - 1/18/2006 1:00:50 PM

seaturtle50

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Although i can easily label myself a leg fanatic, and this has been a lifelong condition - i have never been expressly turned on by a woman’s feet. Even though i find them often to be extremely attractive in heels, etc.

Until now!

I am currently under consideration by a Woman who can quite easily fit my ideal of my "Dream Domme," with respect to Her physical beauty and strict and obvious superiority over me.

Needless to say, She has an amazing set of "wheels." All that i have of Her so far, is a photo of Her in a long skirt (i am at the first step in Her process of consideration). In my photo, She is wearing a rather long skirt, and heels. As i look at (study

) Her picture each day (often, each day ... very often

) i am naturally drawn to Her perfect feet in Her stunning heels.

i will admit (i told Her last evening) that i am already falling under the spell of the beauty of Her feet. At the same time, i can see that She is "sexualizing" Her feet, in Her gracious communications to me.

She is mentioning certain things that involve Her feet, and the use/denial of them within my potential new lifestyle, in terms of punishments and rewards.

i will confess, the combination of Her obvious beauty, Her capable manipulation of my thoughts, and the sensuality of my "sub frenzy" towards Her, <read that as desire, which i have under control at the moment> have all combined to plant the seeds of a bona- fide foot fetish within me.

i do feel myself succumbing even as i write this, and look, and think, and .... ummmm .. oh.

That said, I am really pretty certain that I could not feel this way about just anyone’s feet. My fledgling craving to make love to the Feet of my Goddess, is exclusive to Her. (Although i will also admit that i am probably a bit different than "most" men, in the sense that i also can not just have sex with just any woman. Sex for sex sake does not do it for me. i want/need feelings

).

While I can easily imagine providing for the needs (wants, desires) of any lover of mine, and indulging them in their “fetish,” the desire and longing that I feel growing within myself now would not be my norm. So I guess it is specific to the partner I am with. Just like even though I am an avid legman, not all Woman’s legs turn me on.

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