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Mauigurrlxxx -> demented? (1/17/2006 11:46:58 PM)
Why I am so aroused by socially demented acts of violence? What is the connection between eroticism and violence?

wolffeathers -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 12:01:18 AM)
what do you mean, specifically? I don't think anyone can give you a good answer from the little bit that you have given.

Mauigurrlxxx -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 12:43:13 AM)
Well to shield my self from incrimination I would rather not divludge my sexual deviancies in exact explanations of the kinds of acts of violence that arouse me but I will explain that I am uncontrollably sexually aroused by hearing about or experience acts of violence, especially against women (hint) which leads me to believe I may be demented. Disclaimer: acts of violence against women for the most part I do not support and absolutely no acts of violence against children

xxblushesxx -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 1:41:24 AM)
Some things that are hot as a fantasy or even for 'play' lose their appeal in real life. Enjoy your fantasies, but know, in real life it's a totally different mind-set and not hot at all....(I'm assuming a few things, but, it seems a fairly common fantasy)

FelinePersuasion -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 2:19:30 AM)
Rape play is extreamly common fetish.

devanite -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 2:35:24 AM)
I wouldnt worry about it you have grasped the difference between real life and fantasy and thats the inportant thing as long as your play partner is willing then theres no real problem to explore your fantasies as far as the two of you want to go!

slaverubyred -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 2:39:41 AM)
LOL Feline, i was just thinking the same thing, its very common is the Rape Fantasy, have had it myself for years and its nothing to do with violence (for me anyway) more to do with being Overpowered by someone much stronger then me. :o)

FelinePersuasion -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 2:50:21 AM)
slaveruby I love in movies when the women are being raped. I root for the actor portraying the rape. There's a book wages of sin and there's a part she was about to be raped and I was littlerally saying yes get her chase her down lol

slaverubyred -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 2:57:59 AM)
LOL Feline, what are you like!! but i know what you mean :o)

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 5:59:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Some things that are hot as a fantasy or even for 'play' lose their appeal in real life. Enjoy your fantasies, but know, in real life it's a totally different mind-set and not hot at all....(I'm assuming a few things, but, it seems a fairly common fantasy) I agree with blushes. Everybody has fantasies but when they act them out they find that real-life is not as good as the fantasy was. Hell, some of my fantasies would be disgusting to have done in real-life, thats why they remain a fantasy.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 6:00:30 AM)
Primal energy is intense. Masochists like the endorphins. Fear junkies like the adrenalines. We feel our mortality and that sort of ultimate control. WHY you have those triggers that work in those ways, I don't know any more than I know why I myself do. But that's an explanantion of the path.

seaturtle50 -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 12:28:05 PM)
i think i missed where the OP seperated fantasy from reality? One of me favorite movie scenes was in a clint eastwood movie (one of the Dirty Harry's?) where some men rape a woman, and a female companion of the rapists is encouraging them to do it the entire time. For some reason that really got to me. <no hijack intended> seaturtle

amayos -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 1:04:27 PM)
Creation and destruction, in biological expression, equals mating and killing, birth and death. Creation and destruction is a consistant catalyst of the Universe, stretching through everything within it. Braided within even the simplest of creatures is a visceral understanding of this reality; flesh will yield to the laws of its world as any other material. And so being forms of life wielding great comprehension and awareness of their nature, humans often revel in this process with fascination and curiosity.

anopheles -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 1:08:50 PM)
I think it relates to the the rush that is felt when you witness, or are part of a situation where you have no control. Also, it could be related to liking something that goes against accepted social mores. These fetishes are all very common. I think it's healthy to fantasy, or to encorporate this into safe, sane, and consensual play, as long as you have a good grasp on reality, and the implications of such edge play, which from your posts, sounds like you probably do. Good luck --Anopheles

veronicaofML -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 2:22:56 PM)
is this anything resembling... "i gotta have a hero"...as ya watch a fireman doin his job...commercial? or maybe?????? one of those...old cowboy shoot em ups..........the good guy saves the ladies' reputation.... just guessing for ya

Misstoyou -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 4:20:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx Why I am so aroused by socially demented acts of violence? What is the connection between eroticism and violence? It's a classic connection. My Myth students totally get why the Greeks had Aphrodite, the Goddess of Sexual Desire hook up with Ares, the God of War, over her nice but boring husband Hephaestus, no matter what kind of jewelry he made her. [:)] Edited because the English teacher can't spell...no, wait, it was a typo! Yeah, that's it!

xxblushesxx -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 4:23:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seaturtle50 i think i missed where the OP seperated fantasy from reality? One of me favorite movie scenes was in a clint eastwood movie (one of the Dirty Harry's?) where some men rape a woman, and a female companion of the rapists is encouraging them to do it the entire time. For some reason that really got to me. <no hijack intended> seaturtle yah...I was kinda wondering that myself....

brightspot -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 5:49:05 PM)
quote: Why I am so aroused by socially demented acts of violence? What is the connection between eroticism and violence? I really am adverse to acts of violence. Especially towards women, but extends to the human race and all living creatures. For me it is so much so that I live amoungst spiders and capture a fly and let it back out side instead of smashing it against the wall. I don't find a connection with "demented" violence that is perpetrated against someone's will and eroticism even in my minds fantasies. For myself there is so many other ways to get turned on outside of that realm and I am not talking about consensual infliction of pain here, what little you said in your post I am assuming you arent either. I wouldn't necessarily think you are "demented" but somewhere in my gut I hope you have a handle on reality and have someone trustworthy if you live out these fantasies in "play" so you don't get hurt in reality. *Brightspot

EvilGeoff -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 9:08:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx Why I am so aroused by socially demented acts of violence? What is the connection between eroticism and violence? Please explain what you mean by "socially demented acts of violence?". Do you mean gang drive bys? Acts of terrorism? Wrestling matches? YIK, - Geoff

cloudboy -> RE: demented? (1/18/2006 9:17:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx Well to shield my self from incrimination I would rather not divludge my sexual deviancies in exact explanations of the kinds of acts of violence that arouse me but I will explain that I am uncontrollably sexually aroused by hearing about or experience acts of violence, especially against women (hint) which leads me to believe I may be demented. Disclaimer: acts of violence against women for the most part I do not support and absolutely no acts of violence against children This is not healthy.

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