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MasterRaid -> RE: I'm not sure (3/4/2009 3:41:06 PM)
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If I told you what you should feel, would you feel differently? How about you focus on what you do feel. You're hurt and pissed off. I don't know all the context here, but if you were having "long discussions" about it, I'm guessing that his sexual interest in this other woman was fairly clear. So, you managed to extract an assertion from him that he wasn't going to act upon that interest (after a "long discussion") that he went back on. Your first step out of your predicament is to recognize that your strategy of having a "long discussion" until he gives in ain't going to work. Pretend for a moment that he just handed you a note that reads:
I MIGHT SAY WHAT I HAVE TO SAY TO SHUT YOU UP SOMETIMES, BUT I'M GOING TO DO AS I DAMN WELL PLEASE.
Read it, and believe it. Now, do you still want to be there? If so, how will you behave differently in the future, as not to waste your time and his, and set yourself up to be disappointed and pissed off again? Notice I'm asking what you're going to do, not what he ought to do, or what you should try to get him to do. In your situation, young Miss, that is all you can bank on.
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Take care of yourself
Leonidas
I like this Man.
Listen littleone, you are a submissive. As a submissive you have the right to choice and power. If the man you are with says he will not do something then he should not. (( How can you expect to Control or Master others if you cannot Control or Master yourself )) But I agree with Leonidas as I believe that the legnthy discussions you had with him about it were actually his attempts to get you to drop it, and your attempts to get him to say he loves you and only you. All the while you both already knew he was going to do it anyway. So the real question here should be do you stay (if you do I would suck it up and realize it will most likely happen again as he has a wanderlust as many men do) or do you go (in which case I would make sure that your next Dominant understands you like to be his only one as there are quite a few Dominants out there that believe in this concept. I am sure that a girl of your love would have little trouble finding one. Either way I wish you well.
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