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wanting - 2/19/2009 7:36:18 PM

garden64747

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I have made bad decisions on my own and feel that under some ones control that i would learn to be the person i desire to be.I have some hang ups i would like to get over.I believe this is the way to go in life

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 7:52:08 PM

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Join the military.

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 7:59:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: iSyllogism

Join the military.

LOL!

OP: The above is some very good advice. Think about it.

Edited to add: OMG your profile lists your age as 49! Well, the military is out. Too bad. How did you manage to survive, if you've been making bad choices all this time?

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 8:09:16 PM

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Lesson 1. A grown man making bad choices, wouldn't be a good choice for a dominant.

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 8:10:35 PM

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I don't think I would want to do a human makeover...

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 8:48:18 PM

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I have survived because i have a strong mind.I feel that my choice of life style is one that i needed to take up along time ago.I know that i have alot to give some oneand know that right one is out there.Garden64747

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 8:52:03 PM

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What kind of bad decissions do you make? And what hang up's do you have?

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 9:57:06 PM

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women that want montery values and the hang ups i have have to do with what i might be drawn into do that I dont agree with.Garden64747

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 10:01:47 PM

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So are you saying you let women take you for your money in the past? As for being drawn into something you don't want to do... that is up to you. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Someone orders you to give them money or asks you for money, don't do it... walk away. You are an adult; you have choice.

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 10:21:55 PM

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women that want montery values and the hang ups i have have to do with what i might be drawn into do that I dont agree with.Garden64747

So what you're saying is- you don't have a job.

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 11:33:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

quote:

ORIGINAL: iSyllogism

Join the military.

LOL!

OP: The above is some very good advice. Think about it.

Edited to add: OMG your profile lists your age as 49! Well, the military is out. Too bad. How did you manage to survive, if you've been making bad choices all this time?

lol at both of u...!
whew...i needed this night time laugh!

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RE: wanting - 2/19/2009 11:47:02 PM

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Hmm. I've been making some bad choices too. Thank god I'm only 48 and a half. I've still got 6 good months to get this stuff out of my system.

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RE: wanting - 2/20/2009 3:59:01 AM

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First of all this post and your profile screams desparation and smells like "married with issues".

Like Lockit said--not a good match for most Dominants out of the gate, I doubt any D would walk in to that scenario knowing they will be blamed when it fails, and it will fail.

No matter how good a Dominant is, they are only as good as the will of the submissive. A D/s relationship should not be used as a means for someone to be "forced" to make the smart life decisions they cannot make otherwise.

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RE: wanting - 2/20/2009 4:14:25 AM

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Dude...you are 49, married (i assume) and want to give control of yourself, with the exception of money (wife would miss it?) to a Mistress. Gee...that's special. What do you offer to her?
Perhaps i am reading too much into this, but i get the impression you are tired of lifes responsibilities.

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RE: wanting - 2/20/2009 4:20:55 PM

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Hello A/all,

I have made a few bad choices in my life too (there... my dark truth is out). The question is, what do you do about it? I don't think that bad choices have broken me. On occasion, I have even learned something from them!

Placing your self in a situation where somebody else makes your choices for you is not the answer. It is unfair to burden somebodt else with responsibility for yourself. I see submissiom as a gift, or better yet, a token of respect to a woman who merits a place above me. The point here is that you must have something of value in yourself to give.

Oh yeah... one more thing... Military... Bad idea! Yes, there is discipline and obedience, but it is usually geared toward being give a task and expected to perform. On the other hand, you do get to go to work in your hunting clothes.

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Mike
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RE: wanting - 2/21/2009 11:09:41 PM

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Oh yeah... one more thing... Military... Bad idea! Yes, there is discipline and obedience, but it is usually geared toward being give a task and expected to perform. On the other hand, you do get to go to work in your hunting clothes.

Discipline? Yes. "Fun" discipline? Noooooooo. ;)

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