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AAkasha -> NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:02:52 PM)



When I see a femdom/fem switch profile of a super attractive lesbian that is so vehemently, adamantly, almost psychotically anti MEN contacting them, I have to think this must be a profile of a guy looking to get his rocks off be talking to female subs.  I can understand a lesbian not really caring for mail from guys, but to be so passionately disgusted and openly hostile about it right up front makes me think they are utterly creeped out by the idea that men may write them - wouldn't most lesbians just shrug and ignore it?  But a guy looking for hot emails from femsubs -- he's so worried that his email might be filled with (gasp) other dudes, he has to just go on a tirade?



RedMagic1 -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:10:12 PM)

I had an online friend on Alt who was bi.  She was convinced that "there are only six lesbian profiles on Alt that are really women," because of the number of pichunters operating female profiles that she had to fight off.



lovingpet -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:12:15 PM)

LOL!!!  I can't decide between your theory or the one that says that some people just can't read and don't get what lesbian means.  It's the same as the submissives that are begged to domme some poor sop.  Or the dominant that is approached with the attitude of being sure that the writer can put this person in his/her place.  Sometimes clear and explicit just doesn't cut it.  I dunno.....

lovingpet



Vendaval -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:21:36 PM)

It could well be a made-up profile by a guy who has a photo of woman pulled off the Net. 



SpinnerofTales -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:26:24 PM)

Ok....I have to use this forum to air two pet peeves:

First, I hate seeing on any personals venue and ad like this:

"Beautiful, rich, nude model. Totally submissive. Seeks Dominant to serve, care for and spoil in every way possible. No men."

Now, I have no problem with lesbians. Hell, I wouldn't sleep with men either. But why can't they put the "No men." in front???????? I HATE going "yeah, yeah, yeah, YEAH....OH SHIT!"

My second is a rather personal problem but I still cringe a bit when I see an ad saying "Deep, Hardcore submissive into (add fifteen lines of kinky b/d, s/m desires here), k9...no men"

Ok....again, it's personal preference but it is a bit of a slap in the face. It's really going out of one's way to say "It's not the dicks I mind. It's the guy attached to the dick. It's already hard enough to keep one's ego intact in this realm. Knowing you are considered by some to be less attractive sexually than a shcnauzer is just plain mean.

Thank you for letting me vent.




Lucylastic -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:26:57 PM)

quick story.... in a chat room long long ago, we had a lesbian domme regular, got talking to a lesbian sub, both of them mysogynistic to the point of nastyness. They fell madly in love and arranged to meet... then it turned out that the sub was really a guy, to which the domme absolutely freaked out, only to turn up the next day announcing that he was too a guy.
twits
Lucy



camille65 -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:30:25 PM)

I've a sister who fits that description, she is a lesbian who literally detests men. She sees no use for them and has nothing but disdain and disgust for those of us that have 'sexual relations' with 'them'.

It saddens me and exhausts my patience. There is no trauma in her life that would lead her on this path, she simply sees men as um, well I'm not really sure aside from hating them. Its plain weird to me how someone can lump half the population into the 'useless' category.



DrkJourney -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:34:14 PM)

I never understood that either.  I mean first line I would just say looking for women only, so as not to waste anyone's time, then go on about my profile.   All they have to do is set their mail controls to not receive any emails from males, they go straight to the bulk bin and she never has to lay eyes on them.



slaveboy291 -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:36:49 PM)

More than likely they are guys behind the profile.   I laugh everytime I read these profiles.  They are so over the top, but then again I read alot of over the top profiles so maybe some are.

And even if you've had bad experiences with men, that still doesen't fully justify going the other way since not all guys are bad and if any woman who turns lesbian  thinking that another woman won't screw them around are in for one brutal reality check.



DrkJourney -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:40:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

I've a sister who fits that description, she is a lesbian who literally detests men. She sees no use for them and has nothing but disdain and disgust for those of us that have 'sexual relations' with 'them'.

It saddens me and exhausts my patience. There is no trauma in her life that would lead her on this path, she simply sees men as um, well I'm not really sure aside from hating them. Its plain weird to me how someone can lump half the population into the 'useless' category.




lol....I have a sister who is a lesbian that feels the same way....although she came to her "revelation" after two ex husbands and two kids...lol



celess -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:40:26 PM)

I don't detest men. I am bisexual...however I prefer female submissives. I don't want a male submissive unless he of course is a Switchy too. Males  or men period love doing the opposite of what is asked of them to test your boundaries. If they can get you talking to them then they know that you will break other rules too...basically you're a doormat. So when some male subs messages me. I respond sometimes with NO or simply delete the message. My time is precious and I don't wish to waste it- I would prefer a beautiful female submissive girl...to waste my time on.



SassySarijane -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:43:15 PM)

If I see those profiles, they usually just make me laugh and think GUY posing as Lesbian and I go on with my life lol.



OneMoreWaste -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:51:08 PM)

I just figure everyone on the Internet is actually male. Saves a *lot* of time

Really, though, the best are when they say that prospectives must go on cam for them right away in order to prove that they're female, but that they will not do that themselves, because "I'm the Domme" [:D]

I even PM'd one of those to say "Dude, have you *ever* gotten a chick to fall for that???", but I didn't get a response. Go fig



NYLass -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 4:52:29 PM)

Thanks for the laughs tonight.  I have to agree when I see the ads I think: men posing for wank fodder material.



CuddlyCreative -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 5:02:45 PM)

"I wouldn't sleep with men either. But why can't they put the "No men." in front?"

Ummm... so, in this forum post, you say you won't sleep with men.  And you say that you object to people who have a preference of gender that they don't state right at the beginning of their profile.  Yet you don't state "no men" right in the beginning of your profile. In fact, you don't mention it in your profile text at all.

You are listed as seeking "submissive women" though, so one can assume that you aren't seeking men.  And I strongly suspect that so it is with the women whose profiles you are complaining about. They almost certainly have indicated that they are seeking women.  So if you simply heed that, there's no problem.  



Vendaval -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 5:12:39 PM)

Wow!  Talk about misrepresenting themselves.  [sm=wtf.gif]
 
quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucylastic
quick story.... in a chat room long long ago, we had a lesbian domme regular, got talking to a lesbian sub, both of them mysogynistic to the point of nastyness. They fell madly in love and arranged to meet... then it turned out that the sub was really a guy, to which the domme absolutely freaked out, only to turn up the next day announcing that he was too a guy.
twits
Lucy




Evility -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 5:34:13 PM)

I've known lesbians who were passionately disgusted and openly hostile about men. That didn't puzzle me as much as the fact that their partners were more masculine than I am. I've never known any gay men who have such total disdain for women. Shrug.



DomKen -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 5:42:52 PM)

The number of drop dead gorgeous women with lesbian profiles on CM with clearly professional taken pictures is astounding. I'd be really worried about the future of man if not for the gact I'm not dumb and know all those profiles are from guys. For some real laughs check out the height and weights compared to the pics and claimed measurements. How many 100lb. 5'11" 36D women do you know?

As to actual lebians that truly hate men, I've met a couple over the years and they and their partners have pretty uniformly been way more masculine than I am. I gave up trying to understand any and all women a very long time ago.



BoiJen -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 6:26:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SpinnerofTales

Ok....I have to use this forum to air two pet peeves:

First, I hate seeing on any personals venue and ad like this:

"Beautiful, rich, nude model. Totally submissive. Seeks Dominant to serve, care for and spoil in every way possible. No men."

Now, I have no problem with lesbians. Hell, I wouldn't sleep with men either. But why can't they put the "No men." in front???????? I HATE going "yeah, yeah, yeah, YEAH....OH SHIT!"

My second is a rather personal problem but I still cringe a bit when I see an ad saying "Deep, Hardcore submissive into (add fifteen lines of kinky b/d, s/m desires here), k9...no men"

Ok....again, it's personal preference but it is a bit of a slap in the face. It's really going out of one's way to say "It's not the dicks I mind. It's the guy attached to the dick. It's already hard enough to keep one's ego intact in this realm. Knowing you are considered by some to be less attractive sexually than a shcnauzer is just plain mean.

Thank you for letting me vent.




Ok...while I kinda agree about the crazy psychotic dykes out there...what do you think "lesbian" means when it's attached to a profile? I mean do you understand that these women are STILL harassed and get floods of emails and crap from guys who just don't get what "lesbian" means...or that for some reason they should be the exception to the rule.

If it reads "lesbian" at the top of the profile...what's it matter where it says "no men" in the profile?



BoiJen -> RE: NO men! Men will be ignored! Men will be SHOT! Did you hear me, NO MEN! (2/20/2009 6:36:03 PM)

Okay..I have to put it out there as I "boi"...

Just cuz I'm masculine doesn't make a man. The energy of men and women are totally different no matter how femme the guy is and no matter how butch the chick is. Just sayin...

Now I do believe that there are men out there posing as women. They crack me up. I have fun and poke at them and laugh because I can. I also, for the most part, until proven WAY wrong, assume most "women" on the internet are men. General rule nothing personal.

finally...lesbianism isn't just about sexuality, though for some crazy lipstick chickies (it may be but they don't get toaster and they don't recruit) it's politics, it's morality and ethics, it's about being something more than who you fuck. Plenty of straight men feel this way whenever a lesbian wants to hang out. Check out how many "submissive male only" groups there are and how adamantly they refuse to think that their experience has anything in common with a butch s-type dyke's experience.

Now I don't hate men...and I'm not even ruling out the posibility that there's one guy out there with enough sense for me to consider him attractive enough to fuck around with...I just don't think that any guy approaching me thinking he's that guy is gonna be it. But I'll drink with you fuckers all day long lol



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