hizgeorgiapeach
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It's one of the reasons that I may very well end up Not selling this house and moving after dad dies. It's paid for, it's free and clear - if I sell it and move someplace else, that would no longer be the case - and in this houseing market (not to mention financial state these days) that's not a particularly intelligent decision to make. The last two times I've had a family member foisted on me (other than dad) it has gone Really Badly. It's been my brother the moron. When it was at my old place (11 years ago), before our grandmother the bat signed it over to me, I was already living there when he suddenly needed a place to live because he and his gf at the time broke up. He was already a drug addict, and I didn't want him living there - I simply wasn't given much choice by The Bat, since the house was still in her name - though I was assured that it would be up to me if things weren't working and he had to move out. (HA!) I went into the garage one afternoon to find nearly a dozen used hypodermic needles left lying around from him shooting up out there. I demanded that he leave, he refused, our grandmother the delusional twat backed him and refused to let me kick him out - despite the fact that he was putting the property at risk of being confiscated on drug charges, putting my handicapped spawn at risk of being taken by the state, and putting me at risk for potential jail time even though I wasn't using drugs and I was desperately attempting to get him out. This time, he was already living here with dad when I moved back in state at dad's request. He simply came out of the closet about his continued drug use, and his alcoholism, as soon as dad's stroke happened - and started threatening my life daily until I moved out. I didn't move back in until I had him evicted by the court because he was tearing the place apart around him. Situations like that, and various crap I've had to put up with in the past from live-ins when the relationship ended and I told them to get out of my house - are a large part of the reason that I detest having a roommate of any sort. It has Always been My place - not theirs - with live-ins, and that's been part of my safety valve for myself - my personal "out" if things weren't working - that they had to go, rather than me having to find a new place to escape to. As it is, I'd probably trust a complete stranger who asked to rent a room before I would anyone in my family, or most of my aquaintances - and trusting strangers isn't something I'm likely to accomplish.
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