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hardbodysub -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 9:36:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

I left catholicism because of all that confessional bullshit, I just could not understand why someone is allowed to do something, confess it and receive a penance, a few hail mary's and one was absolved in the eyes of god. To me, not good enough, as it was giving license to do wrong, a case of here is the rules, we know you can't keep them, but as long as you confess it will be ok. My personal take on it is, here are the rules, don't break them.

Sin, what is sin, is being a natural human sinful.



I am also a recovering Catholic. When I was old enough to think independently, I found a lot of things about the church to be totally ridiculous. I can't stand it now.

Your description of confession, however, appears to be really misguided. You are not absolved in the eyes of God unless you are truly repentant. Confession and penance don't give you license to do wrong. What they are supposed to do is give you a chance for redemption, so that you can "go forth and sin no more." Without that chance, if you've sinned, you're damned, with no chance for forgiveness, so you have no incentive to improve. Might as well sin up a storm, since you're screwed anyway.

I understand your objection, that it appears to give people an easy way out, but if they feel that way, they don't "get" what confession is supposed to be. It's surely true that some people do use the confessional as a quick fix, thinking they can sin this week and easily "have it removed from their permanent record" on Saturday. That's not the way it's supposed to work. Repentance has to be real to receive forgiveness.

My problem with the sacrament of Penance is the Church's pervasive idea that people don't have the capacity to relate to God directly, but have to do it through Church-provided representatives and Church-prescribed methods, down to the tiniest details. I understand that having a priest receive people's confessions and absolve them in person is the Church's way of helping them feel that their petitions are heard, so they can deal with their guilt, and move forward. But anyone who really thinks about it, knows that the priest's presence can't really change anything about the sinner's repentance or absolution. It's just ritual. And the creation and perpetuation of ritual is virtually essential for the survival of organized religion.




NYLass -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 9:37:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SpinnerofTales

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

Hmmmmmm
Lust - check
Gluttony - check
Greed - check
Sloth - check
Wrath - check
Envy - check
Pride - check

I'm so going straight to hell[:(]



Well, just remember the old Russian proverb...."You go to heaven for the weather and hell for the company"



Scoot over, I've never cared for a halo or wings, anyway.  I'm prolly allergic to the feathers, and I'll only use my halo for ring toss.  'Sides, anybody up for some "Fire Play"????

               [sm=evil.gif]                   




hardbodysub -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 9:50:10 AM)

A little off topic, but NYLass's humorous post spurs my curiousity. Where did people get the idea that they become angels when they go to heaven? I don't recall anything at all like this in Catholic theology. Angels are supposed to be a creation of God completely separate from us. In traditional Catholic symbolism, wings are for angels, and halos are for deities and saints. How did the idea of humans acquiring both wings and halos get started?




UPSG -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 11:03:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

So you are basically saying you have to be an expert in theology to get into heaven. Us mere mortals are at a disadvantage because we haven’t read this complex text to see if stamp collecting is an implicit sin or not.


I never stated nor implied one had to be a theologian or "expert in theology to get into heaven." I maintained the quality of that journalistic piece was piss poor and catering to the love of intrigue many Western people have - as it relates to Catholicism in this matter.

If you have ever taken a class in journalism you would know Western journalism - especially in America (I know this was BBC though) has been under due criticism for sometime. Kind of like Fox News which is more often in the business of peddling right-wing propaganda and not necessarily objective journalism. One would have to ask why the editors of BBC find it more news worthy to inform the public about cult customs of confession in Catholicism more than Pope John Paul II's influence on Tony Blair in pushing for debt relief of poor African nations, or strained Vatican-U.S. relations over the use of landmines, or Vatican global diplomatic effort to curtail a British-U.S. led invasion of Iraq?

But then we must take it at face value when the media reports President Obama as "Black" or maps ensure us that the United States in fact sits atop of Latin America and not below it. But then I digress from the specific issue. Of course considering that U.S. military leaders say that 21st century warfare will move to outerspace and through marked increase in asyemtrical warfare through disinformation through all various forms of media, critical thinking and active reading is not needed for a democracy to surive [sarcasim]. I mean something like over 20% of the adult population in Milwaukee are functionally illiterate (meaning they can read but not well enough to comprehened newspapers without trouble or to function in a professional environment).

I had a math professor that's a statician, and supposedly he was banned from the local news paper headquarters for challenging them on the faulty data they were presenting on the housing market, prior to the big housing scandal breaking and the U.S. economy plunging.

But hey! the BBC reports about "mortal sin" and why would a reader need any more knowledge base on what a mortal sin is understood to be, than a reader reading, "A black guy walked into a store and argued with the manager on duty," to determined if the guy in question was Nigerian, Ethiopian, African-American or even "Mulatto"? The again the Russians refer to Turks and Mongolians as "Blacks."

Nota Bene:
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1854
Sins are rightly evaluated according to their gravity. The distinction between mortal and venial sin, already evident in Scripture, became part of the tradition of the Church. It is corroborated by human experience.


1855
Mortal sin destroys charity in the heart of man by a grave violation of God's law; it turns man away from God, who is his ultimate end and his beatitude, by prefering an inferior good to him.

Venial sin allows charity to subsist, even though it offends and wounds it.


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1857
For a sin to be mortal, three conditions must together be met: "Mortal sin is sin whose object is grave matter and which is also committed with full knowledge and deliberate consent."


The highlight in blue my emphasis. Now, in Catholicism a sin is understood to be a lesser good. Sex is good but not everything sexual is regarded as coequal in goodness - rape for instance would be regarded as dilenation downward in goodness and regarded as grave or mortal sin. Blasphemy, adultry, murder, kidnapping and holding a child for ransom would be regarded as mortal sins and mortal sins consequently endanger one's life to eternal damnation (the process of purgation through purgatory is possible as well). However, there are many variables to sin and life so it becomes difficult to say in blunt statements that every single person that does A through B is guilty of mortal sin and will spend eternity in a punishing state of hell. A soldier lossing his state of mind in war may not be the same thing as a malicious serial killer.

Now, there are some Protestants that claim all sin is coequal, that their is no difference from stealing a box of crackers when hungry than from torturing and murdering a four year old for a snuff film. Catholicism would disagree. On the other end there are those that argue all and everything is subjective but ironically push for homosexual marriage but wish to legislatively deny Muslims and Mormons the right to multiple spouses. Some how, the Christian moral of monogamy they adopt as a halmark of civility (in which they assume is not subjective but objective). Few women would seem to suggest the dishonesty inherent - at least often - in adultry of "cheating" (for those that date) is goofy little thing Catholics came up with to wave their finger at.

I have no beef with those that reject Catholic doctrine or dogmas (not the same thing as doctrines can evlove in light of new learning and understanding - but dogmas stay intrinsic to the faith). I'm not even a practicing Catholic. What I take issue with is people and media portraying catholicity in inaccurate light. I take issue with people doing this to Buddhism too.






FullCircle -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 11:07:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub
A little off topic, but NYLass's humorous post spurs my curiousity. Where did people get the idea that they become angels when they go to heaven? I don't recall anything at all like this in Catholic theology. Angels are supposed to be a creation of God completely separate from us. In traditional Catholic symbolism, wings are for angels, and halos are for deities and saints. How did the idea of humans acquiring both wings and halos get started?

 
Cartoons: when a cartoon character gets killed it turns semi transparent and grows wings, floating upwards to the clouds. Similarly in real life when you hit someone on the head with a hammer stubbly pink lumps in the shape of the standard distribution curve don't emerge from their head, a bit disappointing but as is life.




thishereboi -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 11:09:39 AM)

Every time a bell rings, an angel gets his wings.....geesh didn't you ever watch tv as a kid. I thought everyone knew that.




hardbodysub -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 11:17:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub
A little off topic, but NYLass's humorous post spurs my curiousity. Where did people get the idea that they become angels when they go to heaven? I don't recall anything at all like this in Catholic theology. Angels are supposed to be a creation of God completely separate from us. In traditional Catholic symbolism, wings are for angels, and halos are for deities and saints. How did the idea of humans acquiring both wings and halos get started?

 
Cartoons: when a cartoon character gets killed it turns semi transparent and grows wings, floating upwards to the clouds. Similarly in real life when you hit someone on the head with a hammer stubbly pink lumps in the shape of the standard distribution curve don't emerge from their head, a bit disappointing but as is life.


I've seen the cartoons, but assumed that they got the idea from somewhere, and was wondering where.




YoursMistress -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 11:36:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

I've seen the cartoons, but assumed that they got the idea from somewhere, and was wondering where.


Cartoons have always been with us, predating the pharaohs.  The root word "kartoom" comes from the ancient city of Khartoum, where the very first depictions of animated figures on stone tablets were found anachronistically among simple flint tools.  The pictures showed images of prehistoric coyotes chasing roadrunner-like pre-birds, with the losers sprouting wings and ascending upwards. 

yours




FullCircle -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 12:31:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
I never stated nor implied one had to be a theologian or "expert in theology to get into heaven." I maintained the quality of that journalistic piece was piss poor and catering to the love of intrigue many Western people have - as it relates to Catholicism in this matter.

The report reports a survey conducted, it doesn't really offer an opinion on it or sanctify it's accuracy. The quote from the Catechism of the Catholic Church is to give some context not to make judgements about people following it.
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One would have to ask why the editors of BBC find it more news worthy to inform the public about cult customs of confession in Catholicism more than Pope John Paul II's influence on Tony Blair in pushing for debt relief of poor African nations, or strained Vatican-U.S. relations over the use of landmines, or Vatican global diplomatic effort to curtail a British-U.S. led invasion of Iraq?

Catholicism isn't really the mainstream religion in the UK, BBC runs stories to give greater awareness of things people are curious about. The negative spin is entirely your judgement, to me it seems to be a story about how people's relationship to their faith is changing in the modern world. Now you come to mention it though what caught my eye was the revision of the sins to incorporate DNA manipulation, taking and selling of drugs, causing poverty. I'm kind of wondering when they spoke to god about these things and how they come to their conclusions as to god's opinion, I've not seen a second coming of late, did I miss the telephone conference?

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But then we must take it at face value when the media reports President Obama as "Black" or maps ensure us that the United States in fact sits atop of Latin America and not below it. But then I digress from the specific issue. Of course considering that U.S. military leaders say that 21st century warfare will move to outerspace and through marked increase in asyemtrical warfare through disinformation through all various forms of media, critical thinking and active reading is not needed for a democracy to surive [sarcasim]. I mean something like over 20% of the adult population in Milwaukee are functionally illiterate (meaning they can read but not well enough to comprehened newspapers without trouble or to function in a professional environment).


Everyone puts spin on things even the catholic church, especially the catholic church, they even have their own news publication. You speak of the information war so stop a moment and ask yourself who has asked god about the new DNA sin and how that is being bodged into the faith as if it was always a part of it? This religion was envisaged before such things were possible but that doesn't stop their commentary on such things, and it isn't god speaking, it's a few earth bound people huddled in a room afraid of change or becoming irrelevant.
 
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But hey! the BBC reports about "mortal sin" and why would a reader need any more knowledge base on what a mortal sin is understood to be, than a reader reading, "A black guy walked into a store and argued with the manager on duty," to determined if the guy in question was Nigerian, Ethiopian, African-American or even "Mulatto"? The again the Russians refer to Turks and Mongolians as "Blacks."

Nota Bene:
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1854
Sins are rightly evaluated according to their gravity. The distinction between mortal and venial sin, already evident in Scripture, became part of the tradition of the Church.
It is corroborated by human experience.


1855
Mortal sin destroys charity in the heart of man by a grave violation of God's law; it turns man away from God, who is his ultimate end and his beatitude, by prefering an inferior good to him
.

Venial sin allows charity to subsist, even though it offends and wounds it.


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1857
For a sin to be mortal, three conditions must together be met: "Mortal sin is sin whose object is grave matter and which is also committed with full knowledge and deliberate consent."


The highlight in blue my emphasis. Now, in Catholicism a sin is understood to be a lesser good. Sex is good but not everything sexual is regarded as coequal in goodness - rape for instance would be regarded as dilenation downward in goodness and regarded as grave or mortal sin. Blasphemy, adultry, murder, kidnapping and holding a child for ransom would be regarded as mortal sins and mortal sins consequently endanger one's life to eternal damnation

So what is your problem with the report, that it used the term mortal sin? Maybe if I were wiser I would understand your annoyance but to me the report does not seem to need to distinguish between your two varieties of sin. This is a report about a survey conducted and various quotes from religious figures saying people are losing the notion of sin. If people want more information they can find it, perhaps people will read this report and think to themselves 'interesting I agree with the philosophy, I'll find out more' rather than 'crazy catholic church at it again'. The BBC does not seem to be turning the debate one way or another in my mind.
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there are many variables to sin and life so it becomes difficult to say in blunt statements that every single person that does A through B is guilty of mortal sin and will spend eternity in a punishing state of hell. A soldier lossing his state of mind in war may not be the same thing as a malicious serial killer.

If it weren't for the 'ignorance is no excuse law' I could argue as I previously did that you are better placed to follow the rules if you know them, the rules though seem to change every so often according to pressure e.g. I'm so glad all those unborn babies are no longer floating about in limbo, all the pope had to do was open his mouth and he freed them all from that pointlessness, who said he can't perform miracles? I bet he could prevent the spread of HIV too if only he legitimised condoms.
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Now, there are some Protestants that claim all sin is coequal, that their is no difference from stealing a box of crackers when hungry than from torturing and murdering a four year old for a snuff film. Catholicism would disagree.


I find that hard to believe but I'm not expert, maybe it's just the case that Protestants don't try to define every combination of possible sin but leave the interpretation up to individual conscience.
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On the other end there are those that argue all and everything is subjective but ironically push for homosexual marriage but wish to legislatively deny Muslims and Mormons the right to multiple spouses. Some how, the Christian moral of monogamy they adopt as a halmark of civility (in which they assume is not subjective but objective). Few women would seem to suggest the dishonesty inherent - at least often - in adultry of "cheating" (for those that date) is goofy little thing Catholics came up with to wave their finger at.

Public pressure causes change, religion is supposed to be set in stone no? I mean we are all supposed to know where we stand with it but the problem is pressure or scientific advancement causes it to change. I could half respect a religion that never changed but not one that bowed to public pressure, that isn't word of god that is word of popularity. Therein lies the problem; people want to be part of something that rejects them so they interpret texts in a new way to accommodate change. What I say to them is “why do you want to fit into a society that originally viewed you as immoral?” I say “be secular and let people be what they like (within reason) without judging them, at all ever.” I can only judge another human being by the standards I set myself based on my morality. The only difference with religion is people try to define common morality to the most pedantic level.

 
 




hardbodysub -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 12:56:00 PM)

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I am also a recovering Catholic.


Just realized that I should have said "Cathoholic" - a much "funner" word.




UPSG -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 1:34:24 PM)

Full Circle,

I'm not going to argue with you over this. You know little to nothing about the Catholic Church. One of my primary issues with that article - as I stated before - was asking were in the catechism the journalist got that bit about mortal sin immediately sending persons to hell? I've never read through the entire catechism so I'm not saying it isn't in the catechism, however, I have a catechism that is copyrighted 1994 and I read nothing like that under the section for mortal sin.

Part of the "4th estate" which provides information to the public and consequently shapes public opinion is that journalists are suppose to check their sources. So, I have to wonder was this journalism that figured going to secondary sources was adequate and never double checked by going to the primary source (the catechism) or was this journalism that utilized dated material (old catechism)?

It is possible that the comment in question is in another section of the catechism or I suppose it is even possible I made a mistake in reading and overlooked the comment. But I would prefer to see that comment - being that I know Catholic culture very well - and I know the measure purgatory holds within the "Catholic instinct" for purging and tempering. Confession requires a contrite heart and performance of penance, and not just the Priest holding his hand above your head absolving you of sin. The entire process is extremely difficult if in fact one is both shamed and contrite - depending on the magnitude of the sin or vice of course. It's certainly a tougher process than kneeling at your bed and asking God to forgive with all those secrets kept before you and him. Confession is a matter of faith and if one believes in Catholic teaching they consequently hold the faith that being absolved of sin through the confessional ensures them that if they die they will be spared damnation in hell.

Potential of going to hell and fact of going to hell are two different things. Kind of like potential to become President of the United States and the fact of becoming President of the United States are two different things.






Aneirin -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 5:16:02 PM)

Words taken as Gospel truth, but written by men, always dodgy !




domiguy -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 5:22:18 PM)

I read it too quickly and I initially thought the survey had been completed by Judas Priest.

I was surprised, but then again they are probably about as relevant today as a bunch of Jesuit priests.




DesFIP -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 7:35:49 PM)

I don't believe that gluttony doesn't make it high on the list for women. Okay we may not want large amounts of food, but we sure do crave our chocolate!




kittinSol -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 7:36:57 PM)

I don't like chocolate, but I'm gluttonous for punishment, so help me whatever's up there [8|] .




Gwynvyd -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 7:46:46 PM)

My... arent we some vengeful biotches?

Mean, angry... vengeful...just wow...

At least men's main concern is just getting their rocks off, eating some summer suasage, and cheese wiz... and taking a good nap.


Gwyn




Vendaval -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/22/2009 8:56:51 PM)

Fast Reply - Stolen from an old cartoon series, "Let those who were never stoned cast the first sin".




FullCircle -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (2/25/2009 4:08:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
I'm not going to argue with you over this. You know little to nothing about the Catholic Church.

 
You've got that right, there is only so much crap that can fit in a person’s mind and we all need an effective filter which excludes such illogical nonsense.
 
Similarly I don't know much about vampires, witches or werewolfs.




DarkSteven -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (3/1/2009 5:33:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SpinnerofTales

Well, just remember the old Russian proverb...."You go to heaven for the weather and hell for the company"



Twain was Russian?  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/000523.html





cjan -> RE: Men and woman "sin" in different ways.. a survey by a Jesuit Priest (3/1/2009 6:44:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

I left catholicism because of all that confessional bullshit, I just could not understand why someone is allowed to do something, confess it and receive a penance, a few hail mary's and one was absolved in the eyes of god. To me, not good enough, as it was giving license to do wrong, a case of here is the rules, we know you can't keep them, but as long as you confess it will be ok. My personal take on it is, here are the rules, don't break them.

Sin, what is sin, is being a natural human sinful.



I am also a recovering Catholic. When I was old enough to think independently, I found a lot of things about the church to be totally ridiculous. I can't stand it now.

Your description of confession, however, appears to be really misguided. You are not absolved in the eyes of God unless you are truly repentant. Confession and penance don't give you license to do wrong. What they are supposed to do is give you a chance for redemption, so that you can "go forth and sin no more." Without that chance, if you've sinned, you're damned, with no chance for forgiveness, so you have no incentive to improve. Might as well sin up a storm, since you're screwed anyway.

I understand your objection, that it appears to give people an easy way out, but if they feel that way, they don't "get" what confession is supposed to be. It's surely true that some people do use the confessional as a quick fix, thinking they can sin this week and easily "have it removed from their permanent record" on Saturday. That's not the way it's supposed to work. Repentance has to be real to receive forgiveness.

My problem with the sacrament of Penance is the Church's pervasive idea that people don't have the capacity to relate to God directly, but have to do it through Church-provided representatives and Church-prescribed methods, down to the tiniest details. I understand that having a priest receive people's confessions and absolve them in person is the Church's way of helping them feel that their petitions are heard, so they can deal with their guilt, and move forward. But anyone who really thinks about it, knows that the priest's presence can't really change anything about the sinner's repentance or absolution. It's just ritual. And the creation and perpetuation of ritual is virtually essential for the survival of organized religion.


And then, of course, there is the plenary indulgence which is a kind of Catholic "get out of purgatory free " card granted, under certain conditions. by the pope and bishops.

You see, according to the Catholic church, even though you confess your sins, do penance, resolve to sin no more and receive absolution, God still requires you to suffer in purgatory for your transgressions. The good news is, your suffering is not eternal .

In the middle ages, the Catholic church sold plenary indulgences for cash . It was one of the major things that pissed off Martin Luther and began the Reformation. These days, the Pope offers plenary indulgences in the hope that "fallen away" Catholics will return to the church and put cash into the collection basket on Sunday. They need the money to pay lawyers and multi-million dollar settlements against pervert priests that the church continues to harbor.




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