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warlock1935 -> RE: being a submissive (2/22/2009 4:22:15 AM)
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If you're new to anything, you'll have at least a few problems and things to figure out. A lot of female Dommes I know actually started out as submissives, then later realized they were happier as a Dom. A lot of submissives I know started out just doing a little kinky play in the bedroom, then realized as they got deeper into things that they needed to be Dominated.
If you stay involved in the Scene, all this will sort itself out before long. I'd suggest doing some research here; look for submissive women close to you, and see what discussion groups and munches are within driving distance. If you make friends with other submissives, things will get clear faster.
Regarding this particular relationship, realize that having trouble giving up control can be caused by several different things, ranging from simply not being to give up control to this particular Dom to simply being a bottom rather than a submissive. This is where talking to other, more experienced submissives can really help.
Best of luck :-)
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