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nid help... - 2/22/2009 10:38:50 AM   
katie1985


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Status: offline 		can u help me how to get the feelings of a slave...and how to train them...i want to learn more...and i want to experience this...
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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 10:57:36 AM   
kinkypuppy2


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Status: offline 		Feelings cannot be learned but experianced..
Do not just post an "ad" and meet some stranger who just wants a fuck.
Get involved with your local community, meet others in person, allow them to meet you.
Go to a bdsm event like Kinkfest and attend seminars by those who are there.
Ask questions.. learn and the path you follow will be the one you fit into best. If it is being a slave then that is what you should follow.
We have met some who wanted to be a slave but when it came right down to it, they found that it was just not their path.. and thats ok.


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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 11:03:00 AM   
VeryNastyDom


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Status: offline 		1.  Learn to spell or use a spell checker
2.  Post correct details in your profile

With a height of 5'8" I strongly doubt your weight is 80 lbs.  Are you writing from Long Beach or Lagos?

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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 11:05:35 AM   
ExKat


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Status: offline 		  I think all slaves want is a few blurry webcam photos and the possibility of getting $9,000,000,000US from a Nigerian prince.

Seriously, though, put some time and effort into learning about BDSM, then craft a profile that shows a little bit more about you. Get involved in the local BDSM community and take CRP courses.

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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 11:05:41 AM   
catize


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quote:

can u help me how to get the feelings of a slave

 
If you believe slaves have different feelings than any other human, you need to re-think that.
Feelings are facts.  You cannot feel what you don’t feel.  No one can teach you how to feel.   No one can make you feel.  Feelings are facts.

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  i want to learn more

It would help to know more specifically what you mean by “learn more.” 
quote:

  .and i want to experience this...

It would help if you clarified what ‘this’ is.

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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 11:08:19 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I was going to suggest a meeting at the Long Beach pier... but I think it might take a very long while to get there.

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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 11:10:16 AM   
CarrieO


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ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

1.  Learn to spell or use a spell checker
2.  Post correct details in your profile

With a height of 5'8" I strongly doubt your weight is 80 lbs.  Are you writing from Long Beach or Lagos?


Bingo!

OP....Before you decide to advertise that you want to train slaves, may I suggest you take the time to learn what that means.

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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 12:51:27 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		And why she wants to know how to feel like a slave when she(?) claims to be a dominant is also odd. Curiouser and curiouser.

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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 3:43:03 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Katie, let me make several suggestions:

1.Spend time doing what you do.  Spell words out.  Use capitalization properly - some people will assume you're a sub with your use of lowercase.

2. Know what you're doing.  You cannot train someone head to toe - training is mental and emotional, not physical. And advertising that you're open for business while you're asking basic questions makes me ask why you want to do this.  Also, what are you - a lifestyle Domme, a Pro Domme, what?  What makes you want to be a Domme?

3. Why are you looking for maledom couples?  Why do you want to know your slave's feelings?


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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 7:36:48 PM   
serisa


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Status: offline 		i am not a Domme but a sub.  i would say however, to read and talk to others in the lifestyle as much as You can.  But dont pretend to be someone You are not.  When You Domme be how You feel amd how You really deep inside want to be (subject to the law).  Only then will You find subs that truly reflect Your needs, wants and desires and You them.

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RE: nid help... - 2/22/2009 7:42:08 PM   
serisa


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Status: offline 		perhaps i should say subjest to SSC or RACK rather than the law!.  look it up if You dont know what its all about that.  after that, show Your own style and try to pick those who meet Your own

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RE: nid help... - 2/23/2009 1:40:08 AM   
SirDarkside357


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Status: offline 		There are no easy ways to do this...... You have to live them to truly feel them.

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