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Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/19/2006 9:27:51 PM

knees2you

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Was just reading a profile of a Dom I was
in contact with last year and
noticed She was still looking.

Does a Dom ask for to much when writting out
a profile?

Samething for Slaves/Submissives I suppose?

Sincerely, Ant

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RE: Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/19/2006 9:40:32 PM

BitaTruble

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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Was just reading a profile of a Dom I was
in contact with last year and
noticed She was still looking.

Does a Dom ask for to much when writting out
a profile?

Samething for Slaves/Submissives I suppose?

There's a big difference between asking and 'getting'.

It doesn't hurt to ask!

Celeste

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RE: Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/19/2006 9:54:15 PM

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I only need 4 kinds of Animals in My life, ♥ A Jaguar in My garage, ♥ A Mink on My back, ♥ A few Lions in My bed, and ♥ A Jackass to pay for it all. ~smiles evily~♥

♥ Remembering that Great Loves and Great Achievements involve Great Risk,♥ and sometimes One has to jump at both Blind. ♥

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RE: Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/20/2006 3:57:18 AM

MasterRobert1

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It's a good negotiation tactic to start off asking for more than you'll settle for. It's a good, effective tactic as long as you don't ask for TOO much more and scare away viable prospects. Have to find that balance.

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RE: Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/20/2006 4:59:47 AM

sub4hire

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quote:

Does a Dom ask for to much when writting out
a profile?

Samething for Slaves/Submissives I suppose?

I think everyone sets their expectations too high. Would'nt it be great if we all found the perfect person for us? There would be no divorce.
It is after we live life a while we realize just how unrealistic those expectations are and start to compromise.

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RE: Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/20/2006 7:39:43 AM

truesub4u

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

quote:

I only need 4 kinds of Animals in My life, ♥ A Jaguar in My garage, ♥ A Mink on My back, ♥ A few Lions in My bed, and ♥ A Jackass to pay for it all. ~smiles evily~♥

♥ Remembering that Great Loves and Great Achievements involve Great Risk,♥ and sometimes One has to jump at both Blind. ♥

Great quote by Zaza Gabor there. Not an exact, but close enough for goverment work. LOL But one I aways agreed with. Besides, more than 4 wild animals, and you need a small zoo liscence.

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RE: Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/20/2006 2:12:20 PM

ExistentialSteel

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I don’t ask for too much. All I want when I visit my slave is to discover her cute friend who she has been talking to online is there and wants to learn about D/s. Of course they are both naked and obviously my slave has been cheating on me with her before I arrive. I motion for my slave to get in the slave waiting position and the cute friend, ready to obey, copies her precisely.

The NFC playoff game is on the big TV behind them. They have been working nude diligently to fix me fried bratwurst sausage and have the grease burns on their bare skins to prove it. The bratwurst is laid out on a tray with all kinds of cheese slices. The champagne ice bucket contains no champagne, but only beautiful brown bottles of Bud Light. I will grab a beer, inhale a bratwurst, belch and get down to business around half-time. The conversation will never once center on recipes, but only on football. Not asking much at all.

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RE: Does a Dom ask for to much? - 1/20/2006 3:37:03 PM

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i think its good to be honest. when looking for an owner, its good to know how they will treat you. if they are of the slaves have no rights and deserve no respect mold, then you have to be alright with that to apply. if thats not for you then having it up front lets you know right away. i too have noticed that many of the Masters on here have been searching for years. The same goes for subs i suppose. i recently read an ad where the Master stated that the slave would be cock caged and permanently denied orgasm, that he would be isolated and possessionless, his basic duties to be housekeeping and blowjobs. No off time not caged. i don't know many that would reply to that, but if it rocks someones world, then have at it. It's good to know up front.

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