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Hands-off CBT? - 2/24/2009 10:01:51 PM   
StellaSupreme


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Status: offline 		I'm a Pro Domme trying to expand my CBT horizons. State law says I can't actually touch anyone's genitals with my hands (gloved or otherwise), and I've gotten as creative as I can with clothespins, clamps, and other squeezy pokey things that can be found in grocery/hardware stores and allow me to torture a cock without actually touching it with my fingers. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to do CBT and still stay on the legal side of things? I know there's devices and things I can buy/order, however, which (if any) would I be able to implement with my own hands? I realize I can always direct a sub to put say, a chastity device on himself, but I'd rather not if I don't have to. 
Any ideas? Anyone?
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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 2/25/2009 7:32:34 AM   
ShaktiSama


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Status: offline 		Lol...there's always the wonderful world of making men do torturous things to their own bodies for your amusement?

Not sure I would worry too much about the law about touching the genitals once you get into the heavier CBT, though--unless you videotape or photograph your sessions, you should be fine. I seriously doubt the average undercover vice cop is going to make it past the first few clothespins!

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 2/25/2009 11:22:31 AM   
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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/1/2009 12:17:05 AM   
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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/1/2009 5:45:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Curved Hair Clips? Another neat thing (I've Done)....a Gates of Hell, and tie a Shoelace on the Metal "Leash" Ring on the end, Then attach the other end of the Shoelace, to a Leather Ankle Strap, while said sub is squatting. Now have Him walk around, and everytime he straightens up, YANKY on his THINGY ! And you don't have to touch his Little Boy, to get enjoyment of it being PULLED, for YOUR PLEASURE !

Missing it a lot, sub balletbob

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/1/2009 8:59:29 PM   
HeavansKeeper


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Status: offline 		I watched a video which included rubber bands being shot at/snapped on the bottom.

Any projectile would work... marbles (dangerous to leave lying around), dice, jacks. Some of those have a loli component which I'm not aware if you want.

Or you can get Air Soft Pistols which sting... A lot.

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/2/2009 1:56:31 AM   
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HeavansKeeper wrote: Or you can get Air Soft Pistols which sting... A lot.

You can take an eye out with those things so it's not clear to me they can be used safely in this way.  Also, if you do any damage, my money says that shooting at somebody's genitals, even with an air pistol, is probably a more serious crime than touching them with your hand.

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/2/2009 4:02:26 PM   
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HeavansKeeper wrote: Or you can get Air Soft Pistols which sting... A lot.

You can take an eye out with those things so it's not clear to me they can be used safely in this way.  Also, if you do any damage, my money says that shooting at somebody's genitals, even with an air pistol, is probably a more serious crime than touching them with your hand.

beeble.



Just because he's a worthless, pathetic, disgusting cum dispenser doesn't mean he can't have protective goggles. While I admit they're dangerous, and may cause serious injury, I doubt they would. I've fired many little pellets from mine. They're spring loaded light weight plastic balls the size of a pea. Their speed and mass are low enough not to cause impact damage or pierce most parts skin (I've been hit in the back of the hand with one, and all I got was a red spot) but they could cause some damage. It's CBT: Cock/Ball Torture, not CBTLC.

If you wanted to isolate the penis, make a glory-hole style board of wood to shield everything but the fella. It would be kind of fun for a bottom to know BB's are being shot at them, but unsure of when a hit will land...

Concerning "serious crime" lifting his junk to place it on a board is apparently prostitution in New York, where Stella is. Assuming a bottom doesn't press charges for assault, getting shot with a "toy" is no crime.

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/2/2009 4:32:22 PM   
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HeavansKeeper wrote: Or you can get Air Soft Pistols which sting... A lot.
beeble wrote: You can take an eye out with those things so it's not clear to me they can be used safely in this way.
HeavansKeeper wrote: Just because he's a worthless, pathetic, disgusting cum dispenser doesn't mean he can't have protective goggles.

*laugh*  I was assuming she'd be able to miss his eyes but I guess goggles couldn't hurt.  Or a gasmask if the goggles can't be made kinky enough.

But I more meant that something that can cause serious damage to eyes might also do quite a bit of harm to the genitals, especially the testicles.  Though your protective board would solve that.

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/2/2009 5:45:48 PM   
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3. Show him a pair of needlenose pliers, put his member in them and squeeze lightly a few times until he is good and freaked.  Then blindfold him and put two chopsticks on either side of his member and squeeze as hard as you can.


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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/2/2009 7:03:54 PM   
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Medical pinwheels are fun
Violet Wands are a blast
Bouncing his balls on a wooden spoon is fun and can be fear invoking

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/4/2009 11:33:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love electricity too, but prefer e-stim toys as they can usually go longer with them. I can either blow their minds with pleasure or pain at the turn of a dial.

To the already great suggestions I'd add: canes, crops, single tail whips, and my favorite - sounds.

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Dripping hot wax on it is always fun
Medical pinwheels are fun
Violet Wands are a blast
Bouncing his balls on a wooden spoon is fun and can be fear invoking


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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/4/2009 2:30:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would agree with the Empress that electro would be a great way to go.  There are loads of toys and possibilites with this.

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/4/2009 4:47:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: boundupone

I would agree with the Empress that electro would be a great way to go.  There are loads of toys and possibilites with this.


Just got done reading Stephen King's In The Deathroom...

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RE: Hands-off CBT? - 3/5/2009 6:59:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: StellaSupreme

I'm a Pro Domme trying to expand my CBT horizons. State law says I can't actually touch anyone's genitals with my hands (gloved or otherwise)


When the day comes and the people march on Washington, I will break away from the angry mob to throw stones at the Supreme Court for I feel the justice system is just as whacked as the other branches of government.  Moreover, I would rather fight 9 justices than 500+ Congressmen.  Me ain't dumb.

No touching.  That's quite incredible.  So that means there is no bondage either for how would you "put the bow on the package" without actually touching it.  I guess it would be something like Steve Irwin catching a snake, you know, using the long metal bar with the curved hook on the end in one hand and a slip noose in the other hand.  You could use an Australian accent, "Aw, he's a beaut, but gotta watch out, could be a spitter.  Hmmm, wonder if we could put this on the barbie?"

So if you can't use sandpaper, then how about sanding blocks?  If that's too close, I guess you could jump to the power sander.

How about trying a small dab of Icy Hot on a disposable foam paint brush?  Please remember, a little dab will do ya.   

A few more laws like this and you'll have to throw things at him from the next room....and use a tape recorder to verbally abuse him, but only he can hit the play button.

Best of luck!

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