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aravain -> RE: Comedic BDSM (2/25/2009 12:41:54 AM)
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~FR~
Light and whipped to stiff peaks, please!
More seriously:
I want to have fun! I'm not looking for serious time or serious-face. To me relationships (in general) are meant to be *fun* and *enjoyed* between the two parties. I honestly can't even imagine being happy or enjoying a situation where it was 'serious business' for too long. I likely wouldn't be interested for too long in a relationship where I must always address my partner as 'sir' and follow a strict set of guidelines and rituals every day. I want to feel the freedom to laugh, to curse, as well as feel a dominant hit me till I'm raw and need to rest. I want to hear him laughing, praising me, and scolding me (playfully) for things that don't necessarily matter in the scheme of things. I want to be able to tease (playfully) anyone I'm hitting and feel free to giggle and laugh and not ruin it for them.
It's not worth it if it's not *fun* to me. The one thing I can't take is crying. I don't *WANT* to make someone cry for any reason, likewise I don't want to cry (usually. There are some times when I really do feel a need to be beaten till I cry, though that's a different thing altogether, not to be confused with something I would be looking for at all frequently... and usually at those times it DOESN'T take a ton of pain or activity to do it)
That's my brand of BDSM. Some purists would say it's 'bedroom BDSM' but I really don't agree (I mean, I don't find beds particularly conducive to most pain activities... maybe it should be 'living room BDSM' instead?), but then again, who DOES agree about *anything* when it comes to BDSM?
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