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servantheart -> RE: ignoring.. just a question (2/28/2009 2:47:19 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MARIEL
what do you say about Doms ignoring their sub when gone wrong/done wrong,and put you in limbo for longer time? Is that abuse or can it be correct?
I had a Master once who banished me for six weeks. He knew I had abandonment issues that were pretty severe back then and he did it anyway. He deliberately chose that which he knew would inflict the greatest and worst damage. I endured it though, and did a whole lot of soul searching during those long weeks. I took a long, hard look at both our behaviors within the dynamic over the course of our history together and didn't like what I saw. Life is too short to ever tolerate that kind of treatment. Imo, it is never correct behavior. It is abuse. Even so, there was a period of grieving on my part when that horrid relationship came to an end. Not for the abusive way he dealt with me, but rather the friendship we had before I allowed him to become my master. Some people are just incapable of good leadership, and their personalities can change drastically when placed in that role.
Those who aren't mature enough to handle the responsibility of owning property show their true colors by running away when faced with the challenges that come with the privilege of ownership. Ultimately, the death of that relationship left me with the freedom to kneel at the feet of my Master. I have chosen wisely this time.
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