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FelineFae -> loving in sickness and in health... (2/27/2009 5:09:29 AM)
How do male subs and slaves feel about service during their Lady's moon time? i sort of imagine one handing off an "i love you" basket filled with bath salt, mydol, chocolate, various hygene devices, and a hot water bottle they promise to never let cool down. He would think nothing of running to the store for pads, and he would know his lady's prefered brand and size. My Master is so kind to me during mine. i have endometriosis and have lots of complications. i swear Master knows more about the female reproductive tract than most females His age. Anyother females subs and slaves have "No PE" note for one week of the month? i was just curious if this was big part of others' relationships. i'd love it if it wasn't a part of mine but i'm not giving up my womb yet. This question can go for any illness i sappose... migranes, mental issues, a sprained ankle. Just the oppertunity we get to show its there's more than just kink between the two of you.

slaveluci -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (2/27/2009 5:27:51 AM)
I don't have severe issues during my "moon time," as you put it ( I like that term, btw[:)]). PMS involves crabbiness but I'm able to curtail it well and I have moderate cramps during those few days but nothing that over the counter pain reliever doesn't help. I know it's cliche but I really DO crave chocolate and it's nearly medicinal at that time. Master knows and understands and often brings me some pre-emptively[:D]. He knows I'm just not at my happiest and best during those days and it's not an issue. He's a grown man whose lived with other women in His life (and ones who were actual raging bitches during PMS, including daughters and ex's). He says after living with three females all cramping and bitching at once that I'm a piece of cake.[8D] luci

FelineFae -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (2/27/2009 5:39:38 AM)
lol, moons can cause weird bonds. it's not a new term, i can't take credit for it. but i think does sound better too.[:)] 28 to a moon cycle, and theoretically 28 days to a womans cycle. if you've ever heard of the bio-rhythem means of BC, they will get you to try and reconize where you're at, menstral cycle wise by, the phase of the moon. not really effective for everyone... but yeah, the bonds. us women folk will sync to one another and men bonded with us just know when stuff is going to happen. weirdness.

kuriouswitch -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (2/27/2009 1:42:34 PM)
Master tends to be a bit more lenient during my cycle. I'm on birth control so i now know when i'm going to start and end and so i can give him a heads up. in fact he's taught me more about my own body than i ever thought a man would know. he checks in with me more and makes sure i'm okay emotionally and i tend to get tired more during this time. he teases me though about being able to renew his "red wings" which sometimes i'm honestly not in the mood but which does help with the cramps.

Sandyshores29718 -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (2/27/2009 6:03:49 PM)
I use to have the WORST monthlys! I have PCOS and without being on birth control I don't have my monthly..well the type I was on was making it worse and worse for me. All I wanted to do was curl in a ball and die! I didn't even want sex cause of the cramps it hurt me worse. Sir does not mind about that time of the month...I know if I needed him to run to the store he would. He is wonderful! Once even brought me chocolate cake..now that spells love! Now that Im on YAZ I dont have these issues though and I really dont have a monthly anymore. Mostly spotting here and there. Never bothered Sir and as long as my flow wasnt heavy we went on like normal. Though even then it was me that cared not Sir.

daddysliloneds -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (2/27/2009 6:47:10 PM)
'when the moon is in the seventh house, and jupiter aligns with mars.....' the moon effects all of us somehow or another, so if he is understanding when i'm a bitch, then i'll be understanding when he's an asshole; i don't expect or give special service under these conditions... when we're sick, we tend to both like to be left alone and not to be catered to or pampered, just left to rest and heal in our own time.

littleone35 -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/1/2009 8:13:57 PM)
I lost my womb:( need surgery. Before that happened durng that "time of the month" Master knew i really did not want to do anything sexual down there. he understood. Matt's littleone

FelineFae -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/1/2009 8:20:02 PM)
my Lady is being so kind too. She hasn't had to see me like this yet, but she talks me through the mood swings and is so understanding of me having to sleep out the pain meds. edited typo i found.

PommeDeMonSang -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/1/2009 8:39:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelineFae my Lady is being so kind too. She hasn't had to see me like this yet, but she talks me through the mood swings and is so understanding of me having to sleep out the pain meds. edited typo i found. i wouldnt have it any other way pet. you need someone to talk to that understands you or well understands women things because i will need you too when it comes to my time.

FelineFae -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/1/2009 8:42:40 PM)
you know i will be there, love.

DavanKael -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/1/2009 9:04:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelineFae lol, moons can cause weird bonds. it's not a new term, i can't take credit for it. but i think does sound better too.[:)] 28 to a moon cycle, and theoretically 28 days to a womans cycle. if you've ever heard of the bio-rhythem means of BC, they will get you to try and reconize where you're at, menstral cycle wise by, the phase of the moon. not really effective for everyone... but yeah, the bonds. us women folk will sync to one another and men bonded with us just know when stuff is going to happen. weirdness. The reasons women who spend substantive time together often sync up in their cycles are pheromones. I'd think it kind of a partner on any side of the kneel assisting their significant other through discomforts and also think it's something that 'just ought to be' in a relationship. Davan

Lashra -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/1/2009 9:18:55 PM)
My male sub takes excellent care of me during that "time". Warm oil massages, pedicures..whatever I want I get, so that does not really make it different from any other time. With one exception, he will bring me one chocolate because he knows when its that "time" I crave chocolate like there is no tomorrow.[:D] ~Lashra

Maya2001 -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/2/2009 2:06:45 AM)
When I opened this thread I had expected a considerably different health issue and in the big scheme of things I view it more as a discomfort and inconvenience rather than an illness..and yes I do understand ..I have had a whole host of gynecological issues which spanned 26 years that finally ended last year with a hysterectomy. And I will count my blessing that I had that attitude now that I am in a battle for my life a second time around this one being far more serious and I will need every bit of toughness and ounce of fight I can muster to get through it.

v15u4l3rr0r -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/2/2009 7:01:10 AM)
Sir has never had to deal with my red tide but He knows that sex does not happen that week but that doesn't mean He can't do other things to me lol. However He is so wonderful and amazing when I'm having a minor breakdown or my mental health is particularly bad that day. He takes such good care of my mind.

ThundersCry -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/2/2009 7:26:59 AM)
Fooking her made her feel better... I was happy to be of service...=L=

CatdeMedici -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/2/2009 11:31:54 AM)
I'm the crone, so the only moon time I have is outside under it... [;)]

kristileigh -> RE: loving in sickness and in health... (3/2/2009 6:49:22 PM)
my Master is very understanding and supportive. i have very painful cramps due to uterine fibroid tumors. So i cramp bad. And i also get very bitchy. He just smiles, hands me some chocolate and tells me He loves me. For the cramps W/we are going to try the muscle stim unit and see if the pads will help if place on my lower abdomen and on my lower back. slave kristi

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