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Being loaned out by the Mistress - 2/27/2009 4:06:04 PM

servant49

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Have any of you submissives ever been loaned out by your Mistresses for domestic duties? Did the Mistress come along to supervise your work or did she just drop you off and rely on feedback from the person she loaned you out to? Did you enjoy serving another? How were you dressed?

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 2/27/2009 4:58:58 PM

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You should ask your Mistress how you should dress. If domestic service means cleaning the house than casual wear might be appropriate unless the two of you have an understanding that you are to dress as a serving person. There are times when you might be asked to do the job naked. That should all go through your Mistress. My guess is that she won't attend. That doesn't mean that she doesn't care whether you do a good job. It is a good idea to ask the person you are doing the service for to please give their honest opinion of your work to your Mistress. That will leave a good taste both in their mouth and that of your Mistress.

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 2/27/2009 5:47:20 PM

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are you kidding?? If I loaned chezz out for his wedding soup and meatball recipe, I lose My edge--no way--well yeah ok, he has other talents women would fall over--so NO.

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 2/27/2009 6:05:04 PM

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Technically if you want to address the submissives you should be asking in the ask a submissive forrum, not the ask a Mistress forrum.

And not all submissives have mistresses, some have Master's or Doms, so, unless you want only those who have Mistresses to reply, you should say so if that's what you want, and if all submissives replies are wanted, then I'd recomend saying has your Dominant male or female ever loaned you out.

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Have any of you submissives ever been loaned out by your Mistresses for domestic duties? Did the Mistress come along to supervise your work or did she just drop you off and rely on feedback from the person she loaned you out to? Did you enjoy serving another? How were you dressed?

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 2/27/2009 8:06:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss
Technically if you want to address the submissives you should be asking in the ask a submissive forrum, not the ask a Mistress forrum.
And not all submissives have mistresses, some have Master's or Doms, so, unless you want only those who have Mistresses to reply, you should say so if that's what you want, and if all submissives replies are wanted, then I'd recomend saying has your Dominant male or female ever loaned you out.

I think most of us understood his question. You know we are smart enough to know that if we are in a male dominated relationship, we can reply from our point of view. I think we can just naturally figure that out. It was an fairly open question, it is easy (for most of us anyways) to transfer from Mistress to Master or... to Grand PhooBah or what ever you call you dominant partner. There is no need to have to incert EVERY possiblilty to request an anwer to a simple question.

Now on to my reply to the question presented....

I am often loaned out for domestic services, and my Master has never gone with me. My services were once loaned to an elderly gay male submissive who needed help cleaning out his house for moving and the Dom who sent me, did go with me since it was a lot of heavy lifting and hard work, we ended up going two days to help him. Recently my Master sent me to do a house cleaning for another Master's slave since she was busy taking care of him while he was sick.

I have been "sold" at auctions as fund raisers for domestic services also. I usually wear casual clothes since i am providing a service, not play. However, I have cleaned naked as part of the service to fullfill their fantasy, and once in a maid outfit. Usually the naked or uniforms cleaning means it is more of a fantasy fullfillment service rather then just a cleaning service.

I have been given for other services also, and the outfit depends on the service. When i do chauffeur service I wear that outfit, dinner serice is usually in a maid's uniform or tux. Party service is usally a simple black dress.

Most service is a few hours, sometimes a cleaning witll be an all day project. Party and chauffeur usuall for an evening or night. I have also been sent on a leather family vacation to be in service for 3 days to them.

Very seldom is there play or sex as part of the service. It has been sometimes, and that is planned out with the person and my Master ahead of time, including my limits for service.

My Master has never asked for anything in return for my services, but he does enjoy getting a thank you and a report on my efforts and service.
I love doing the service for other since i feel that is an extenstion of service to my Master. He gets a good feeling helping in a special way. I enjoy getting to know and spend time with others and i find it an overall enriching experince.

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 2/28/2009 6:46:13 AM

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I have loaned out anne for non-sexual service. she wore whatever was appropriate for the job and protocol. Under one set of circumstances that meant she was naked, but being the nudist she is, that didn't phase her. I've never gone with her...it was her help the needed, not mine.

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 2/28/2009 2:50:57 PM

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If you're being lent to her elderly mother to mow the lawn, you ought to be dressed appropriately for that meaning clothes and hard shoes for a power mower. If being lent to a friend as a stunt bottom for a needle scene in a dungeon, then mainly nude would be appropriate.

I would doubt she would be out supervising you cutting the grass, instead she would be inside helping in other ways. If a needle scene, then you might ask her if she would come to provide aftercare and drive you home when you were floaty.

What you should wear, what you should do, all of these depends on what is happening. Ask about it.

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 4/4/2009 4:03:35 AM

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Mistress Taryn has lent me out as punishment once before.
my Mistress lent me out to Her girlfriends as a slave waiter. The guests included mostly lifestyle Dommes, but also a few vanilla friends not in the lifestyle. As a humiliating twist, one of the vanilla women is a co-worker of mine whom now knows my secret lifestyle thanks to this experience. (They are certainly open minded, which is why they came over) i had to serve all of them for an evening while only wearing my collar, cb-device, and butt-plug harness. A ball gag head harness was also secured on for the night, except for eating of course.
my Mistress demonstrated how to properly use the paddle and flogger and proceeded to punish me while bent over in front of the audience. Then, my butt plug was removed and i was treated to Mistress' large strap-on. When She finished, my butt was filled with a remote controlled vibrating plug and harnessed in place. The remote was given to the guests as a buzzer for my service whenever it was needed. Afterwards, Mistress Taryn handed me over to Her guests as She left for a meeting that evening. For almost five hours, i was at the hands of five Dommes to serve in any way. The woman i worked with seemed to really enjoy playing with the remote control and had her fair share of paddling my ass all night... :/
The guests gave Mistress Taryn a positive report of my behavior. It was a very humiliating and humbling experience and i would like to avoid being lent out again, but would if ordered to again.

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RE: Being loaned out by the Mistress - 4/4/2009 8:27:47 PM

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i get loaned out by my wife and my mistress to help and to raise money. the job is what denotes the dress so it will be different. i cook and clean and am very helpful sometimes overly so. i try to do the best job i can so i don't mind if i get checked up on. i enjoy making others happy. for me being loaned out is a honor and i must represent my wife/M'Lady in the best way i can.

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