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RE: What Have You Done... - 2/28/2009 1:45:12 PM

SteelofUtah

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There are times in which I have to remind myself to the degree the girl at times must alter her life to accomodate me. However, one of the most important things for us is that we take a few moments every day or every other day to just talk about how the other is feeling.

If I feel that the alternating schedules we have (She works Grave and I work Days and our days off are not the same days) are starting to take thier toll then we make plans to have a date night where the focus is us no matter what. I usually get midget care for the day and let her sleep in while I go to work and when I get off I take her on a Super Date (See Greg Beherant sp?) I make a date as special as possible.

I think many people take advantage of the idea of a relationship and things just slowly disapate into common activities. The Romance and Reward of Romance are forgotten.

As this does not always relate to D/s I appologise if this does not apply. I care for and LOVE my slave and our relationship is one of mutual love not just Order and Discipline, the order and discipline is there but it is not the Foundation of what we have created it is just as important but not all there is. Because of this there are times in which we look nothing like a D/s Couple. There are times we look like Fred and Wilma and there are times we look like Ward and June, There are times that she needs more attention than usual and she gets it, there are times I need more attention and as long as her needs are met I get it.

The most amazing thing that has been learned by our relationship is that all we need to do is let the other know and they will understand.

No one can read minds. If you are being "Used Up" Speak up and if nothing is done then you have a fairly good idea of where you fit in your partners life.

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RE: What Have You Done... - 2/28/2009 1:49:25 PM

servantheart

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

My property always gets exactly what she needs. It may not be what she wants, what others feel is right, but it keeps her secure and at my feet.

This is exactly what Sir does for me daily.

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