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artglfr -> No Reply (1/20/2006 8:02:04 PM)
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i read over and over from the Dommes how dissatisfied they are by the one line replies, lack of retuning replies and so on. There must be many subbies like this and for them many seem to have to suffer.
BEFORE i ever reply to a Dommes profile, i Always read it in its entirety. take a moment to think about it and many times realize from the profile we will never be compatible...i may not fit Her criteria... which is good and fine...time saved and a Domme not having to read from someone She has stated She does not wish to hear from; too far away, too old, not into the same kinks as She is or any number of reasons.
The few that i do respond to , i always write about where i live, age, divorced, what i liked about Her profile, try to describe my interest and how i feel Her profile has drawn me to Her.
This actually takes time...i do Not send a form reply. i care about this and respect the Domme and feel She deserves my best.
Very very seldom do i get ANY reply at all... not even a "Thanks but No !" The majority of replies i get are something like one or two words often misspelled, unpunctualized and make me glad We are not meeting in person.
While i realize NO Domme has to ever respond to any reply...if You are going to why not be informative, describe what You wish the next step to be... do You wish to meet for coffee, lunch or anywhere in Public, continue to reply here, Im, phone, etc. there are so many options and when i get a reply saying "More" i am gone.
Having ranted i must say there are those who DO take time to thoughtfully respond, one in particular i met on site has been in communication with me for over a week, postings, Im's, phone. She is very busy yet She takes time to reply to me. She describes Her life and asks about mine. We joke and laugh and hope to meet and She is Human as well as humane.
Please Ladies if You do actually get a well written, thoughtful reply; Please, Please, Please take just a moment, if not interested to say "No Thank You". Doing this would actually make Your life easier because then You would not get follow up postings asking if You actually received the first.
Ladies, i promise if i send You a reply to Your profile i will be respectful, informative and respond to YOUR profile and provide You the info You request.
Please i beg...reply
respectfully,
art
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