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chezzy71 -> March Roll Call (3/1/2009 2:38:01 AM)

Happy March 1st to one and all.The shortest month now behind us,it is time to look forward to March and what it may bring.I have a Docor's appointment coming up on the 11th and hopefully the subsequent blood tests will bring the news all good that we have been waiting to hear.The rest of the month will be more like a prepartion for my trip back home which i am very excited about come April.As all of you know,my heart has been touched and will continue to be touched by the greatest blessing in my life..Mistress Cat.I do adore her so and chezz is a very fortunate submissive.I apologize to no one for my gushing..i only wish you (all of you) can share the happiness i have only begun to sup on.Be safe and well and be blessed.




MissMorrigan -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 3:03:01 AM)

Good morning Chezzy, Happy 1st March to you too. It was on this day in 1964 I was born. Reality ensured my start to the day was very special.

May the 11th bring the news you hope for and that April sees a continuance of connection in person and enjoy your shameless gushing, it's deserved and makes a refreshing change from the bitterness and turf-pissing that sometimes mar these insightful boards.

On 24th I get to have the operation I've needed for the last couple of years. I am hoping the result will see me wearing trainers and working towards regaining the fitness I once took for granted. I adore the month of March, for all that it brings and signifies. Already the trees are showing their darling buds, the sun has been shining for two days in a row and as with you, I have one of the best reasons in the world to be happy - my Reality1234, with whom I celebrate my vulnerability, without whom my world would be colourless.




CatdeMedici -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 3:23:48 AM)

good chezz, since you are up, walk the dog would you?[8D]
 
March--whew--starting out with a winter storm warning--uh helloooo its supposed to be the sunny south here--survived massive layoffs at work, with a promotion--more work but a job, so not complaining. The weather has been so damn unpredictable, My time with the horses has been very limited and I'm a tad grumpy in that department ( thank you chezz for being one of the few who gets that).
 
Mid month sees a sweet bonus and of course the house smells the money so things are starting to break--oy.
 
I have one of the 36 tulips I planted peaking its head up, I think the squirrels got the rest.[:o]
 
The chezz man is coming along nicely.
 
For the little trials, life is good, no, better than good---its stellar
 
edited to add the Happy Birthday that I forgot for MM and blessings for a good surgery and a speedy recovery! and do I see a note about someone special???
 
[8D]


 
 
 




MissMorrigan -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 3:34:51 AM)

Hopefully we're over any likelihood of storms here. I'm sure the horses are as frustrated as you are, Cat.

Yesterday I had some friends (met via CM originally) visit for lunch and they brought me a lovely aloe vera plant wink wink.

Thank you for the good wishes re. birthday and my operation for later this month. My someone special is of course my submissive partner, Reality, with whom I live. April and May we will celebrate three years together, each day brings its own rewards and our relationship improves beyond all expectations. I'm a cantankerous mare at times, I had to learn how to share my personal living/emotional space with another person, which is something I am not used to doing. Now I cannot see myself not sharing it with Reality.




Madame4a -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 4:58:50 AM)

Oh my gosh.. I have been waiting eagerly for this thread.  I have not posted in ages, as I have had nothing nice to say about my life.  Things just never seemed worth reporting and I had a rough summer and then fall.  Well, life has changed a bit.

My relationship with Distraction, as I refered to him, ended sometime around Christmas, although he came over in January as he wanted to talk.  Really he wanted to try to talk me back into it, but I declined.  He just wasn't consistent enough and had way too many issues.  Unfortunately, we love one another a great deal but its not enough.

My primary went to hell a couple of times over the summer and then in September/October we took a month off.  When we got together after that, it really didn't seem like we were going to stay together.  During the apart time I did a few really good things like quit drinking (all my friends say, you didn't have a drinking problem) -- maybe not, but I think I did and so I stopped before it was really bad.  I also started some therapy with the world's greatest kink therapist.  I saw her at the last leather event I went to *grin*.  So, with a lot of soul searching and work, my primary (darling female lesbian boi) and I started a new path -- VERY rough at first through the end of 2008 and now.. its great.  I have settled into a space I thought wouldn't work for me.  We have our rules and its working really well.

And then suddenly, someone I've known for a long time on a casual basis, who had been trying to have lunch with me since December -- I put her off until late January... and when I had not more excuses I met her for lunch.  Uhmmm.. I think our worlds collided that day.  Its been fun ever since and the beautiful part is, both my primary and this new darling have been great friends for a long time.  We fit well together.  I keep the relationships separate, but there is some great time that the three of us spend together.  Oh, that poly dance is dizzying -- but fun and so worthwhile when you get the steps right.  Its very hard to describe how I feel right now, as I've been wondering if I'd ever do poly again, and yet, when it feels like its all right -- I can't help but smile.

Everything else is great, we spent last night planning our long summer motorcycle trip and the secondary new one is going to meet us for the last week on the way back.  Sorry Lady Pact, we're not taking that souther route this year, but I'll let you know.

Hope all are well, I'll come back and read when I have time!




ShiftedJewel -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 7:56:10 AM)

Happy birthday MM!! And Cat... remember... in like a lion and out like a lamb so you have nice weather coming sooner then we do I think! lol
 
As for us... well, we're closing on the property in a week or so. Then we'll start working towards getting the building started. Busy times coming up but a good kind of busy. We're putting together a wish book/idea book for the architect... lot's of decisions to be made. I'm soo looking forward to this summer!!
 
Hubby and twice are planning on putting yours truly on a dirt bike! Me!! The same one that ran over her own foot on a three wheeler!! Not to worry, lots of protective gear. I swear, I honestly believe that if twice could put me in a hermetically sealed bubble she would!! As it is if someone shows up with the sniffles she sends them away, won't even let them in the house! I know.... she worries over me like a mother hen. And actually I'm looking forward to the dirt bike thing. I've already been fitted for the special boots, I have the helmet, knee pads/shin protectors and elbow pads/forearm protectors. From what she tells me I can expect to take a couple of hours to "gear up" before she'll let me on the bike. lmao
 
Still haven't found my one... but I'm only kinda looking. I still believe he/she will eventually find me.
 
Jewel




CatdeMedici -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 8:11:06 AM)

please please wear a helmet, K?




SweetDommes -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 8:20:44 AM)

Happy B-day Morrigan.

Things have been their normal crazy selves around here.  The dogs are insane (two of the females are in heat, so we've had some "getting along" issues with the boys), the cats are annoying and demanding, and the regional director for the company I work for shorted me about $600 while I was doing her a dang favor (still fighting with her about that one).  I'm trying to quit cussing, which isn't going so well LOL  I also am starting over on losing weight.  I'm trying to regulate my eating and all that - I have a bad history of eating too much, then starving myself (goes with my cycles of stress and depression, which feeds into the cycle and makes it work, and well ... it's just a bad cycle to get stuck in). 

Other than that, we're just still working on finding our second boy.  We're talking to a couple of guys, and I'm kind of hoping that an officer from one of the facilities in Pendleton will get the courage to call me LOL. 




VampiresLair -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 8:31:12 AM)

Oh, its been a busy day already.
Fox and I set our date. We are getting together with a friend for our engagement photos in a few days.
I have lost 12 lbs already in my effort to fit back into my prom dress as a wedding gown.
Fox got a B in French!

Yeah, its going to be a good month!




MsFlutter -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 8:39:06 AM)

I'm present and accounted for. I heard a rumor that Spring is coming but apparently it is in line behind the 5" - 8" of snow headed this way (should have passed Cat's house by now on its way to me!)
 
 
 
 




LadyHibiscus -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 9:40:16 AM)

It's March!  This is good news, since I ask my colleagues every day, "Is it April?  How about now?"

I don't have anything glamourous to report, work is smashing me flat, as is usual this time of year.  It's not the number of hours, which are normal, it's having to have my game face on ALL day and deal with clients.  I am just not a "people" person, though I have to be out interacting for my mental health.   How do those extroverts DO it?  eeh!

Right now the snow is 90% melted, and if we were in Calgary, it would be a beautiful day!  I am waiting for springtime, I am tired of heavy coats and nasty roads.  I also want to wear my spring CLOTHES which will be ever so much nicer since I am down 15 pounds.  Is it April yet?  How about NOW??




ShiftedJewel -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 10:28:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

please please wear a helmet, K?


Oh, believe me... on a dirt bike? Yeah, I'll be wearing a helmet. Besides, if she had to wrestle me down and shove it on me she would. lol
 
Jewel




TexasMaam -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 10:36:55 AM)

I'm still 'seeing stars' from Valentine's Day! What a perfect weekend. An exemplary dinner date, exquisite yet modest gifts exchanged, and a four hour session of flogging and anal play - manthing,  I still find Myself smiling as I remember moments throughout My day!

March promises to be a difficult month due to pressures at the office for us both.

I can't wait for the weather to warm up just a bit, but I could do without the gusting wind.

I am looking forward to a long bondage and flogging session ahead.  Can't wait. 

I'm also jumping up and down in anticipation of a new paddle from SimplyMichael.  Beautiful work, Michael, I can't wait to try mine out on manthing.

Texas Maam







chezzy71 -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 9:26:44 PM)

Happy Birthday Miss Morrigan..cause celebrae and best of luck with the surgery.By the way Mistress Cat...i dreamt i was walking not the dog but the horses!!




DelilahDeb -> RE: March Roll Call (3/1/2009 11:09:23 PM)

I'm here, I'm a bit wrecked after a month of being my contractor's cheap labor, http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m12.gif but I'm within sight of selling the extra house and getting it off my budget. Had to give up the annual trip to Pantheacon but I think it'll be worth it. Dreaming of corsets and boots and skirts for after the budget girdle comes off—well, maybe one of each, and only after the car's had its brakes & tires & tune-up & detailing. Oh, and the new roof on my home and repairs to the plumbing & wiring & paint & fences—well, maybe I'll get fetish wear that I didn't make myself in my next lifetime!

Meanwhile, I'm looking forward to a two-week visit from my out of town sub, especially because he'll be attending KinkFest with me. http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m9.gif Been being spoiled routinely on the toy front by my garden sub, too—hoping to introduce the two at during the forthcoming visit, schemes of possible play sessions dance in my head. And the new fences will enable outdoor play space, once those dominoes fall…

Now all I need is a local domestic sub‚ maybe a valet-equivalent who lives out. Maybe…ah, dreams are nice and meanwhile, so is life. Tiring, frustrating, worrisome—but how else would you know it was life?

Lady Delilah Deb





LadyPact -> RE: March Roll Call (3/2/2009 7:51:47 AM)

This part first, so I won't forget.

Happy birthday, MM.  I'm a day late, but I hope you enjoyed it.  My best wishes for the surgery.

Madame4a, no worries.  I'm sure our paths will cross when the time is right.  So glad to hear things are better now. 

Texasmaam, I can completely identify with the being star struck from Valentine's Day.  In My case, dream struck was more like it.  (I have a post about it on this forum.)  I have to admit, sometimes, I'm just amazed.

As for Me, now it's March.  In reality, March is never a good month for Me.  Since I do have SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) that last stretch of winter is much like that 'darkest before the dawn' analogy.  Too many short days with not enough sunlight tend to effect Me.  Just when it seems there's light at the end of the tunnel..... BAM.  They go and start daylight savings time, which can mess Me up. 

My family is scattered again.  MisterP reminded Me this morning that there are just sixty-four days left to his deployment.  Somehow, that still seems like quite a number left to go.  The limited contact due to his circumstances isn't helping any.  That will continue, at least for a while.

Just yesterday, clip started his journey back to NV for a bit before heading to KS.  Had the Army gotten it right the first time, he'd have been there already, doing his training for his deployment.  I was grateful for the screw up that had him living here for a month.  Now that it's over, I often think of the two months it will be before he is at My feet again.  With all of the troubles with military orders, I have to admit that I have My doubts that he will be able to come 'home' before being shipped to Afghanistan.  I can hope, but I'm not confident. 

My term as Chairman of the Board of My local group ends with elections tomorrow.  What a year that's been!  I'm richer for it, but as the term closes, I'm led to think of what it will mean in the coming months to leave this place.  While there will be new adventures on the road ahead, I often think of the memories and the attachments already made.

Of course, I'm not gone yet.  Not to jinx Myself, but there is this switch I know........




MamaDomme1 -> RE: March Roll Call (3/2/2009 8:14:08 AM)

Wow!  I haven't posted much at all in the past few months but now can finally sit and do so.  It's been a whirlwind since becoming involved in the poly triad but Feb seemed to finally get us all in our own grooves and be comfy with life.

Was finally able to reconnect with friends at The Mark in Nashville after being gone for more than a year, and that's been tremendous fun.  I've been able to be healthy enough on occasion to actually do a few scenes with some fun subs again.... but afterwards, the lupus makes sure I'm down for a week.

I ended the month of Feb by taking a tumble down a muddy, wet, slope and breaking my right foot.  So, now I am immobilized and on a walker for at least 6 weeks.  Anyone that knows me in R/L knows that I am extremely independent and hate, HATE to have to rely on anyone for anything.  I'd much rather make my own damned cup of coffee and know that it is exactly how I like it, than try to explain it to someone and hope for something palatable.  Oh well, they are really busting their chaps to help me and keep me out of too much pain.  *as a side funny, when I was being examined after the fall, the doc pushed on my foot and I screamed.... he did it again a couple of times and finally I said "are you a sadist?  If you are, I just want you to know that I am NOT a masochist at all in any way!!"  He looked at me kinda funny and then my partner looked at him and told him that I had already promised to kick his balls up into his rectum and to watch out.  The doc looked back at me and said, ok-- let's get some x-rays and some drugs.  Loritab is good, life is ok.

Now for better news-- the lupus has been in a continual state of flares for more than a year now, making my life pretty difficult.  Finally (!) the docs have decided to start me on some long-term meds.  All the constant steroids has caused some pretty bad bone density depletion and other problems so now we are going to chemo drugs to try to depress the immune system enough for me to get into remission again.  If all my lab work comes back ok, I hope to start methotrexate the week of the 17th.

I've had several friends from many years ago come back into my life-- some for only brief moments, others more often, and it's been really great.

Happy March everyone!!!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: March Roll Call (3/2/2009 8:40:01 AM)

Hope you are well again SOON, MamaDomme!  I suspect that the walker is bugging you more than the lupus flares right now... 




MamaDomme1 -> RE: March Roll Call (3/2/2009 12:17:44 PM)

Thanks Lady H!  You are sooooo right!  This damned thing is really getting on my nerves and it's only day 3 of the 6 week sentence!

I gotta admit, it is rather sweet to have someone shave my legs for me because it's necessary rather than a *command*.  And he offers to jump and run constantly for me.   OK, that's getting old rather quickly too.




Twicehappy2x -> RE: March Roll Call (3/2/2009 6:15:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

please please wear a helmet, K?


Special full face super padded custom fitted motorcross helmet, carbon fiber knee and shin guards, carbon fiber elbow guards, steel reinforced dirt bike boots, goggles, special pants and jersey to protect from thorns and branches, and a full roost deflector with built in spine protection and riding gloves.
 
LMAO.........i think we have her covered from head to toe.




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