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InkedDsCouple -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/14/2009 9:47:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz You know... if someone presumed so much to call me an "it" in person without my express permission... I'd expect I'd get pretty jacked off. Online though, it just appears to be another dude trying to stroke his epeen. Soooo. Yes. BRAVO! slave's should be our most prized possessions and therefore worthy of the same love, admiration and care as our beloved expensive car or other such... HOWEVER... any good Dom/Domme would still recognize the reality that a slave is still HUMAN and therefore not "it"... anyone ever referred to my girl in that manner and they'd get a hard lesson in humility!

marysdream -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/14/2009 10:33:05 PM)
i agree!

WyldHrt -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/14/2009 11:35:45 PM)
quote: i do not let my cat or my motorcycle speak for me Maybe you should. Either would probably be an improvement. quote: the man needs a slave. i female slave from what i have read. so,,,,,hook him up. Yeah, we'll get right on that...uhhh... "Sir". [8\|]

masterlink65 -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/15/2009 9:39:31 AM)
in my year and a half on here, and also from other sites over many years now, i have noticed that the hetero community of this lifestyle tends to use terms more loosely than their gay counterparts. if a slave spoke for its master around my circle of friends, it would not raise eyebrows, it would turn heads, and not in a good way. the term daddy, is not equal to master. the daddy/boy scene is a role play of younger/older, an intergenerational scene. sub does not equal slave leather is for bdsm and fashion, and does not make you a slave or a master slave does not equal her. i see that alot of that here. our two worlds are alot different. i have noticed how people say wife, sub , slave all in the same sentence. i see my slaves as more than that, a multitool, to use and command as i see fit. this seems more like a costume party for most, rather than a lifestyle. temporary collar, D/s parties, partner swap. yuck i have a great responsibility to my slaves to ensure that its commitment to me is safe and complete.

DomM&SubK -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/15/2009 4:34:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 in my year and a half on here, and also from other sites over many years now, i have noticed that the hetero community of this lifestyle tends to use terms more loosely than their gay counterparts. if a slave spoke for its master around my circle of friends, it would not raise eyebrows, it would turn heads, and not in a good way. the term daddy, is not equal to master. the daddy/boy scene is a role play of younger/older, an intergenerational scene. sub does not equal slave leather is for bdsm and fashion, and does not make you a slave or a master slave does not equal her. i see that alot of that here. our two worlds are alot different. i have noticed how people say wife, sub , slave all in the same sentence. i see my slaves as more than that, a multitool, to use and command as i see fit. this seems more like a costume party for most, rather than a lifestyle. temporary collar, D/s parties, partner swap. yuck i have a great responsibility to my slaves to ensure that its commitment to me is safe and complete. I am very sorry that to you we are just wearing our getups and geting our rocks off but to me my collar is more than a play thing it is a binding thing to my master and my lover who yes at times i call daddy. So that is that have a good day K

DomM&SubK -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/15/2009 4:45:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: InkedDsCouple quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz You know... if someone presumed so much to call me an "it" in person without my express permission... I'd expect I'd get pretty jacked off. Online though, it just appears to be another dude trying to stroke his epeen. Soooo. Yes. BRAVO! slave's should be our most prized possessions and therefore worthy of the same love, admiration and care as our beloved expensive car or other such... HOWEVER... any good Dom/Domme would still recognize the reality that a slave is still HUMAN and therefore not "it"... anyone ever referred to my girl in that manner and they'd get a hard lesson in humility! If any one ever called my Lady slave and Partner an IT they had better hope that i get to them before her K can taker very good care of her self in a fight man does she have a Kick Ass Right Hook. But i will never ever alow any lady to be called an IT because our slaves are people and not just things. Master .M

masterlink65 -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/15/2009 5:32:59 PM)
i was merely mentioning the differences in the two is all. with 20+ years into this lifestyle i might know just a little about things, not everything, just a little. just for me, i do not say i am loading my truck when i drive a little car. i try to use words as they are meant to be used. and why all the fuss? if you are a sub be happy with that, not every sub is cut out to be a slave. so why even call yourself a slave? master? do you own a slave? or are you a dom or a top? be content being a dom or a top. no need to be putting on false image. i just happen to see a difference in those who role play, and those that live a lifestyle of 24/7 master/slave. a lot of difference

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/15/2009 6:07:09 PM)
"Hook him up" Hmm. Now, I've been known to just glance over the fine print, but I'm not sure where on the terms of service I agreed to be matchmaker for cumtrolling dominants? However, I'm a go to gal, I'll give it my best shot. Dear Mr Drkblonde, Do the carpets match the drapes? It might be important from a purely marketing point of view. You mention in your profile your desire for a part-time slave, is this seasonal work? Aside from your mention of making a few deposits, are there any other benefits that might entice a slave? It really is difficult to put together a workable dossier with so little to go on, and your prompt response would be appreciated. Sincerely, Matchmaker WinD

DomM&SubK -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/15/2009 8:14:01 PM)
Thank You so much for the laugh i have needed it. I myself am wondering where the man that posted this is i have yet to see him back on it.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 4:55:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 i am sure you have all noticed. in an all male household there are no wives here,,,, only master and slaves. lol - in my household there will be a "wife" and she's a he quote: the man needs a slave. i female slave from what i have read. so,,,,,hook him up. then find one for him - yes this mouthy submissive did command you. OP, if you need to find a slave and don't know where to look, then you're on the wrong site. slaves (submissives, etc etc) don't fall from the heavens and land on your lap ready to suck the almighty domly cock. it takes time, patience and a whole lot of soul searching starting with yourself. like the others have advised and asked - why do you need a slave? what are you offering this slave? why should she submit to you? what is she going to get out of this relationship? etc etc if you don't any the answers to these questions and more, then it's apparent you're not ready or responsible to have a slave.

sirsholly -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 5:13:20 AM)
quote: if a slave spoke for its master around my circle of friends, it would not raise eyebrows, it would turn heads, and not in a good way. Hon, i speak for Him all the time, and He speaks for me. Why? Because there are no delicate overinflated egos that can be damaged so easily here.

DomM&SubK -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 6:32:23 AM)
[sm=applause.gif][sm=agree.gif][sm=goodpost.gif][sm=LMAO.gif][sm=owned.gif]Thats all i have to say at this point

masterlink65 -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 7:38:13 AM)
a master that cannot keep its slave in place, is not much of a master in my eyes, sure isnt much of a dom ..maybe your egos should be checked before mine. first time i have heard of making a true statement is seen as an ego exposure, i think alot of people on here are confused as to how to use the terms of the lifestyle properly. with some experience and some guidance, hopefully this misuse of terms will cease

ModeratorEleven -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 7:53:20 AM)
Settle down, folks. XI

Lynnxz -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 7:55:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 a master that cannot keep its slave in place, is not much of a master in my eyes, sure isnt much of a dom ..maybe your egos should be checked before mine. first time i have heard of making a true statement is seen as an ego exposure, i think alot of people on here are confused as to how to use the terms of the lifestyle properly. with some experience and some guidance, hopefully this misuse of terms will cease Well pip pip. Everyone has different relationship dynamics. Hopefully with some experience, guidance, and hopefully, the removal of whatever has you so startled in your picture, you will cease to believe that everyone must follow your specific path to be twue mastery.

sirsholly -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 8:04:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 a master that cannot keep its slave in place, is not much of a master in my eyes, sure isnt much of a dom ..... i think alot of people on here are confused as to how to use the terms of the lifestyle properly. with some experience and some guidance, hopefully this misuse of terms will cease there is no book re. the real true Master/Dom way. Nor is there any real true "place" for a sub or slave. And the definition of terms is highly subjective and adaptable to each and every dynamic. Your way may work for you. Our way works for us.

GreedyTop -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 8:05:16 AM)
well, he is at least also referring to masters as 'it's'

masterlink65 -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 8:15:58 AM)
the dynamics of a relationship may be different, but the terms people misuse, have certain meanings. i am not saying everyone needs to follow my ways. do you people think i made this stuff up? this is coming from many , many years of experience and learning. where do you think this rhetoric came from? it has been passed on from my elders. its hard to listen while you are too busy talking. terms of the lifestyle being misused, has nothing to do with differences in a relationship dynamics. i am merely trying to help. you know how it looks when people use words wrong, people use big words during informal conversation, or use words wrong. do you correct the person, or laugh behind their back later? i am only trying to help.

beargonewild -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 8:23:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 a master that cannot keep its slave in place, is not much of a master in my eyes, sure isnt much of a dom ..maybe your egos should be checked before mine. first time i have heard of making a true statement is seen as an ego exposure, i think alot of people on here are confused as to how to use the terms of the lifestyle properly. with some experience and some guidance, hopefully this misuse of terms will cease That may be true if all masters were created from the same mold yet that isn't the case. You have to realize that each M/s relationship is uniquely created and lived according to how the people in that relation want it to be. Look....you can see that with the responses you are receiving to your posts, many do not agree with your concept of a master/slave dynamic. This expected because you live your dynamic how you see fit, other do the same with theirs. It would be nice if you and other would understand that there is no Book of Rules that specifically spell out how to create and live a master/slave relationship, same way there is no book that tells you how to be a master or me how to be a switch. We learn as we we go in the realm of BDSM.

masterlink65 -> RE: A couple Q's on slaves... (3/16/2009 8:38:10 AM)
i do understand others have different lifestyles. the words do not change meaning though. do you refer to your doctor as your mechanic?

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