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ORIGINAL: LadyExcrutia

I am curious about something, due to a personal experience I am having. Is it possible that even today, some cultures use corproral punishments as a tool of discipline for the development and the education of its male citizens as they grow up and that it can produce them to later on become Subs or Masochists just because they need such practices as a manner of release and a form to balance, by counterweight, their own male aggressiveness when they become professionals and then BDSM becomes not a fetish or kink, nor does its activities, but a part of their core and their mind so as to be unable to find the balance in their life if someone isn't doing it to them ?

My own experience with my husband is that in his country, females are the disciplinarians of the household. I am living the situation right now through his family and from what I have seen, a young man in this early 20's can still get a nice set of slaps from their mother, even some nice whacks with a cane or rod or some lashes from a belt if she's mad enough to let her hand fall on him, so I am wondering if it can be true that as he says, a good session with a whip is a way to blow off steam the same as if he climbed a mountain and hit on the sandbag or got a massage or such things, as I see that our relationship is more a way for each other to find balance, only his angle isn't even BDSM based, I am just the force that balances his, whether through BDSM or other venues.

Speaking as someone who knows her way around broncos and mustangs, I'd say that his personality is the same of a rodeo horse....they can trust you and obey you enough to run on a race or jump on the obstacle course, even dance to the music and the crop or spurs, but they need a nice rodeo from time to time to let it all out and also need me to crop and spur them as bad as I can to reach, and push them as close to the edge as they can be stretched out to, in order for them to get a benefit out of it, in a very odd way to release steam much like some other animals need.

What is the opinion of a sub ? I am interested in knowing.

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ORIGINAL: LadyExcrutia

I am curious about something, due to a personal experience I am having. Is it possible that even today, some cultures use corproral punishments as a tool of discipline for the development and the education of its male citizens as they grow up and that it can produce them to later on become Subs or Masochists just because they need such practices as a manner of release and a form to balance, by counterweight, their own male aggressiveness when they become professionals and then BDSM becomes not a fetish or kink, nor does its activities, but a part of their core and their mind so as to be unable to find the balance in their life if someone isn't doing it to them ?

My own experience with my husband is that in his country, females are the disciplinarians of the household. I am living the situation right now through his family and from what I have seen, a young man in this early 20's can still get a nice set of slaps from their mother, even some nice whacks with a cane or rod or some lashes from a belt if she's mad enough to let her hand fall on him, so I am wondering if it can be true that as he says, a good session with a whip is a way to blow off steam the same as if he climbed a mountain and hit on the sandbag or got a massage or such things, as I see that our relationship is more a way for each other to find balance, only his angle isn't even BDSM based, I am just the force that balances his, whether through BDSM or other venues.

Speaking as someone who knows her way around broncos and mustangs, I'd say that his personality is the same of a rodeo horse....they can trust you and obey you enough to run on a race or jump on the obstacle course, even dance to the music and the crop or spurs, but they need a nice rodeo from time to time to let it all out and also need me to crop and spur them as bad as I can to reach, and push them as close to the edge as they can be stretched out to, in order for them to get a benefit out of it, in a very odd way to release steam much like some other animals need.

What is the opinion of a sub ? I am interested in knowing.

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ORIGINAL: LadyExcrutia

I am curious about something, due to a personal experience I am having. Is it possible that even today, some cultures use corproral punishments as a tool of discipline for the development and the education of its male citizens as they grow up and that it can produce them to later on become Subs or Masochists just because they need such practices as a manner of release and a form to balance, by counterweight, their own male aggressiveness when they become professionals and then BDSM becomes not a fetish or kink, nor does its activities, but a part of their core and their mind so as to be unable to find the balance in their life if someone isn't doing it to them ?

What is the opinion of a sub ? I am interested in knowing.

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a young man in this early 20's can still get a nice set of slaps from their mother, even some nice whacks with a cane or rod or some lashes from a belt if she's mad enough to let her hand fall on him

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ORIGINAL: LadyExcrutia

Well, excuse me for breathing but I just wanted to know. It seems liek my husband's culture is based on a lot of militaristic discipline and they truly use women as disciplinarians as stern and brutal, in my opinion, as the Royal Navy officers who flogged their sailors in the 18th century.

You haven't seen a person under age show scars on his body from getting lashed at with a belt like it is a small cut from a fall on his bike. Until then, don't presume to know why someone would cook up a theory or call her daft. Or is it normal for men in your country to show you how they got lashed at when they were at high school yet, and bear scars to this day as bad as if they were cut up so abdly as to need stitches on a small spot ?

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ORIGINAL: LadyExcrutia

I am curious about something, due to a personal experience I am having. Is it possible that even today, some cultures use corproral punishments as a tool of discipline for the development and the education of its male citizens as they grow up and that it can produce them to later on become Subs or Masochists just because they need such practices as a manner of release and a form to balance, by counterweight, their own male aggressiveness when they become professionals and then BDSM becomes not a fetish or kink, nor does its activities, but a part of their core and their mind so as to be unable to find the balance in their life if someone isn't doing it to them ?

My own experience with my husband is that in his country, females are the disciplinarians of the household. I am living the situation right now through his family and from what I have seen, a young man in this early 20's can still get a nice set of slaps from their mother, even some nice whacks with a cane or rod or some lashes from a belt if she's mad enough to let her hand fall on him, so I am wondering if it can be true that as he says, a good session with a whip is a way to blow off steam the same as if he climbed a mountain and hit on the sandbag or got a massage or such things, as I see that our relationship is more a way for each other to find balance, only his angle isn't even BDSM based, I am just the force that balances his, whether through BDSM or other venues.

Speaking as someone who knows her way around broncos and mustangs, I'd say that his personality is the same of a rodeo horse....they can trust you and obey you enough to run on a race or jump on the obstacle course, even dance to the music and the crop or spurs, but they need a nice rodeo from time to time to let it all out and also need me to crop and spur them as bad as I can to reach, and push them as close to the edge as they can be stretched out to, in order for them to get a benefit out of it, in a very odd way to release steam much like some other animals need.

What is the opinion of a sub ? I am interested in knowing.