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quietcontrary -> RE: I need guidance (3/7/2009 5:29:03 PM)
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Look, she is a woman first and formost. The one thing I think almost everyone here is going to agree with is that men do not understand women all the time. Now, pair that with that she is a woman you met on the internet, (I'm not saying that dosen't mean there is not a real connection there, I know there can be, but hear me out) no able to read her signs, body laungage and see the expression on her face that add to the inflections of her words. She opened you up to a new experiance here on CollarMe, that's awsome no matter what your outcome, it's a learning experiance. The best thing you can do, is stop looking to 'win' her back, to be blunt, she wasn't really all yours to start with. I'm kind of wondering if maybe she didn't turn you to the site seeing something in you that she knew could be scratched but that she wasn't able to scratch. If you do persue her, and I am almost sure you will, you're just going to have to keep the honesty going, listen intently, hear what she is saying and try to be sure it's what she means to see. Be prepared though, if you're no able to read her this early on, or she is just playing games with you, you could get into more trouble later down the road.
However it works out, best of luck, you seem like a really nice guy, hope it works out for the best!
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