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InTonguesslave -> RE: submissives (3/6/2009 9:42:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: velvetears Maybe do a little self reflection and consider why she said no to you yep, what i was going to say. the word 'no' - as a flat and uncompromising refusal is a word many subs would find difficult to say to a D they trust and wish to please. no is a word i am really uncomfortable with using - i hate to say no to anyone, ever, its such a full on refusal. ill use other words before i ever utter the word no. but..., i have said no. a big loud NO to a couple of D's who clearly had no respect for me. examine why she said no and in there will be youre answer.

SassySarijane -> RE: submissives (3/6/2009 10:13:21 AM)
Just because someone is a submissive does not mean they submit to and obey everyone claiming to be dominant. Doesn't work that way. If a submissive says no, try asking them why they said no. If they are not your submissive, do not expect to give them orders and have them obey, not gonna happen

aftershox -> RE: submissives (3/6/2009 5:16:45 PM)
<Pulls out an envelope and reads> The answer is No. <Opens the envelope and reads the slip of paper that it contains> IA417's real question is If someone is a submissive, does that make me a Dom?

GreedyTop -> RE: submissives (3/6/2009 6:30:51 PM)
snort

kuriouswitch -> RE: submissives (3/7/2009 12:53:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IA417 So if someone is submissive when they say no what do you do??? Recently Master and i had a similar issue pop up, he said, "you need a nap" and i instantly without thinking said, "no Master" that didn't go over well needless to say. I ended up with a spanking, a lecture and still taking a nap. but i've also said no when it's been a big issue like a gang bang or something similar, and we've discussed it and sometimes we don't do it and relegate it to a fantasy we play out or i end up trying it and enjoying it very much.

Jackie4the1 -> RE: submissives (3/7/2009 2:18:01 PM)
Perhaps, seeing as they are the one speaking, you sound do the listening when they say 'no'. You gave an amazingly limited amount of information here. So that is the best advice anyone can really give you with what you've provided.

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