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toservez -> RE: can we have a posting board for posting known fakes in this site? (2/7/2007 1:20:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: cpl4subfem
i dont know about you guys but i would like to have a room where serious people actually looking for hook ups and friends can post the sites sns and ids of those who are fake, what i mean by fake is those who have come in here on this site, posing as someone looking for a Dom/Domme or vise versa and thru e mails and chat have played around not really being serious, they are ones looking to get off on pics and reading erotic e mails general harrasing those who are seriously looking for friends, submissives/slaves, Doms/Dommes.i dont know about you i am sick of this BS,.we need like a referal system, like if your serious you are sponsered by a sponser moderater, verfied by chatting or some other chat server, like having to have a alt chat server profile with real pics. or thru referal check with other pl, kinda like a friends network on other sites. it may be a pill to do but all in all to those who are serious abuot looking for someone it would be worth the trouble to set up.. thank you
I know these thread happen all the time but the sheer amount lately has been incredible.
May I ask who the judges to determine who is fake are? What makes you someone real and sincere compared to someone else on here?
What constitutes a fake in your eyes? Someone who emailed you a few times and then stopped? Someone who refuse to go to cam or phone when you required it? Anybody who pisses you off? Maybe we can get a license at the DMV that prove are realness.
To people who get mostly or all that are truly fake, people not prepared to progress to real time and all other people that get moaned about, first try to look inward instead of lashing outward and having the world fix your own issues.
Be more discerning with who you write and communicate with. Learn how to write a profile and message that will attract the more sincere. Learn how to be positive and take the other person’s issues into consideration when asking for verification or moving the situation forward. If you are getting mostly fakes then the odds are you are at least half the problem and the “fakes” are the only ones that want to deal with you.
I will also add this disclaimer. Most people are not looking for poly. If you are writing to basically any submissive and not respecting their profile as to if they are looking for poly, which will also add up to increasing your percentage of “fakes”. Also your profile is lame. Something fakes might not care about but the sincere do.
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