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MARIEL -> Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:14:22 AM)
Yes, the other Master, I was talking about, that I did not heard from over so long time, is talking to me now,like nothings happened! He comes up with excuses like hes studying for important examen! problem is also,I still got some feelings for him, but problem is the turkish man actually become better,and well its too early to say,but he sounds sweet,also in phone. and at least we talk good now. I dont know.. the other one thinks he owns me.. the second one thinks im under his concideration.. its a MESS! im squeezed beteween the two,and have no idea where to go next. and it is not my fault. i was so convinced it was over,because i never heard from him the other again. and im just not prepared for this. i got feelings for both. what am I going to DO! wait and see how it goes? or what?

Christinestill -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:18:50 AM)
i woujld suggest making a choice and sticking with it. i was on the recieving end of a man who couldn't make up his mind about where the "grass was greener", and it just isn't fair to everyone involved in the situation. make your mind up and commit to it after some careful thought.

DarkSteven -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:18:51 AM)
You've got one guy who is starting up again and is lying to you, and one other. They have never met you and think they own you. Drop both. Any other questions?

MARIEL -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:20:42 AM)
That is not true, the first one and have met and we had it going for over a year.

MARIEL -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:22:04 AM)
AND the other one Ive talked through all with him and there is nothing there now

MARIEL -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:23:25 AM)
and with the second,note its a difference with concideration and owning.

MARIEL -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:25:02 AM)
I really dont want to hurt any of them,but that I will have to do, and the problem is I have feelings for both. but its not my fault the first comes crawling.

Christinestill -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:26:55 AM)
take a little responsibility for yourself girl. nobody forced you into this situation and nobody but YOU will get you out of it.

brownbutterfli -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:40:57 AM)
I would suggest taking the time first to see what you really want and need in a relationship. Then go from there.

Zechriel -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:51:45 AM)
Good morning, Well I know you are not going to like what I say. Given that, I have read your profile and notice that your Master-whichever one he is-says that you are not looking for anyone yet you list looking for dominant men both on the left and on your journal. So maybe you two should get together and fix that so that you are both on the same page. Because leaving it like that is 1)confusing, 2)makes your Master look like an idiot who doesn't know or care what is going on, 3)makes you look insincere. I have also noticed a few of your other posts, and you seem to get yourself into such trouble. Maybe it is time to stand up and make decisions for yourself, before you hand those over to one person. Think about what you want and stand for THEN look for someone else. If you need to take time by yourself, then maybe you should do that rather than bouncing from man to man without resolution. Otherwise you will end up bouncing from Dom to Dom an emotional mess...and the Doms I have come across hate that. And remember something that I tell my kids and grandkids-not that I amsure they ever listen, well maybe..."Do not be afraid to be alone. You are your own best friend...and your own worst enemy." Good luck. Love, Zechriel [sm=car.gif]

MissIsis -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:51:55 AM)
The reason why it might be so hard for you to make up your mind, might just be because neither of them are right for you. You will have to figure out if that is true or not. I hope you won't be in such a hurry for something to work, that you will settle for what doesn't feel right, & dismiss your gut feelings. Pay attention to what you are feeling. There may be someone who comes along later that will be much more perfect for you.

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 5:52:33 AM)
quote: Yes, the other Master, I was talking about, that I did not heard from over so long time, is talking to me now,like nothings happened! He comes up with excuses like hes studying for important examen! How long is so long? Would you be okay with the next time he drops you for more important things? If you accept his reasons/excuses, and want him, go for it. I would personally give a new guy a chance if I were even remotely attracted to him, than going back to someone who pulled a disappearing act. M

cjan -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 6:08:05 AM)
Nevermind.

Lynnxz -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 6:10:36 AM)
The OP's profile is confusing... which are you supposed to go by? The part that says you are some dudes online slut, or the part that says you are lonely and looking? M, if you don't even know what you want, how do you expect some random people on the internet to make the correct choice for you?

DesFIP -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 6:51:22 AM)
Just because some guy comes back and assumes you're still available doesn't make it so. You choose who you want to talk to. If you don't want to talk to this guy any more, well that's when the block button is your friend.

CatdeMedici -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 7:04:59 AM)
You're an adult, take responsibility and make a decision.

GreedyTop -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 7:05:52 AM)
oh, but she has feeelings for the guy that disappeared on her.. and for the guy in Turkey...

LaTigresse -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 7:08:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL Yes, the other Master, I was talking about, that I did not heard from over so long time, is talking to me now,like nothings happened! He comes up with excuses like hes studying for important examen! problem is also,I still got some feelings for him, but problem is the turkish man actually become better,and well its too early to say,but he sounds sweet,also in phone. and at least we talk good now. I dont know.. the other one thinks he owns me.. the second one thinks im under his concideration.. its a MESS! im squeezed beteween the two,and have no idea where to go next. and it is not my fault. i was so convinced it was over,because i never heard from him the other again. and im just not prepared for this. i got feelings for both. what am I going to DO! wait and see how it goes? or what? Yes it IS your fault. You allowed this whole mess into your life. In reading the above I had a vision of someone barely legal to be on these boards. When I looked at your profile and saw that you are 37, it just makes me want to slap you upside the head. Grow up and take responsibility for your life and your shit!

VeryNastyDom -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 7:21:33 AM)
A sub is not used to making decisions, but there is one that she has to make; who will be her Master. Either you choose now and disappoint one of them, or mess about and lose them both. If you had been with your old Master for over a year and he suddenly "disappeared", that is not acceptable. I am a very busy man but I can find five minutes in a day to make a phone call or drop an e-mail to somebody I care about. The fact that he did not suggests that he found somebody more interesting to play with, she dropped him, and now he is coming back to you (but only till he finds another playmate). Regardless of what you decide about your Turkish man, I would lose the first one and not give him a second thought.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Im screwed (3/8/2009 7:24:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom A sub is not used to making decisions, What?

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