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MistressAlexaS -> Submale Fantasies (1/22/2006 8:52:17 PM)

I'm always looking for new ideas for roleplay and was curious what scenes turn on sub males the most? I've done quite a few different roleplays but am always wanting to find new ones to play out with my sub.

Any to share?

~Alexa




veronicaofML -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/22/2006 9:27:04 PM)

fantasy?

i'm getting the popcorn and salt for this one...





siamsa24 -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/22/2006 9:58:40 PM)

Why not ask your sub? I'm sure that he has at least a few




AAkasha -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/22/2006 10:32:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressAlexaS

I'm always looking for new ideas for roleplay and was curious what scenes turn on sub males the most? I've done quite a few different roleplays but am always wanting to find new ones to play out with my sub.

Any to share?

~Alexa


The question is -- what are *your* fantasy roleplaying ideas? What turns you on? What do you wish you could act out while having a male submissive totally helpless?

Subs have tons of fantasies. But the thing that blows them all out of the water is the fantasy of a woman that has her OWN kinks and desires, and she draws/seduces/brings the submissive into it so he can please her. Find your inner femdom -- find out what flips your switch. Then bring him in and make him please you. He may have no idea what it is, he may have NEVER thought about it-- but if it makes you wild with lust, or fills you with femdom desire -- trust me, it will become one of his favorites.

Akasha




MistressAlexaS -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 5:01:27 AM)

Oh I have lots and we have played many of them out. I'm just always looking for fresh ideas and yes Ive asked my sub for his as well. You can never have to many creative ideas. [;)]

~Alexa




cloudboy -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 5:22:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressAlexaS

I'm always looking for new ideas for roleplay and was curious what scenes turn on sub males the most? I've done quite a few different roleplays but am always wanting to find new ones to play out with my sub.



Here are two sexy ideas, hopefully not to pedestrian.

1) Forced Bondage phone calls. You tie the sub up and have them call people at your command. Then you can split the his attention. Once my Mistress ripped my undwear off while I was taking an important call. This was distressing, distracting, and arousing. This provide the sub with a sense of invasion.

2) Kidnap and removal: Unexpectedly interrupt the sub, somewhere during his day. Blindfold and bind him, then abduct him somewhere far off, go to a hotel, strip him, hide his clothes or take them out of the room, and tell him his attire will have to be "earned" back. Long term benefit: This will make a sub feel somewhat exposed when he would otherwise feel safe, when he thinks he is on his own away from his Mistress.




maverick01uk -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 5:31:51 AM)

Oh my,
totally agree with cloudboy's second idea there.
Anything totally unexpected.
Nothing like turning up thinking you've been a good subbie lately then have everything turned on its head........ oh happy days.




veronicaofML -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 9:36:09 AM)

But the thing that blows them all out of the water is the fantasy of a woman that has her OWN kinks and desires, and she draws/seduces/brings the submissive into it so he can please her.
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it sounds good on paper...




ToServeIsToLive -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 10:31:21 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressAlexaS

I'm always looking for new ideas for roleplay and was curious what scenes turn on sub males the most? I've done quite a few different roleplays but am always wanting to find new ones to play out with my sub.

Any to share?

~Alexa


The question is -- what are *your* fantasy roleplaying ideas? What turns you on? What do you wish you could act out while having a male submissive totally helpless?

Subs have tons of fantasies. But the thing that blows them all out of the water is the fantasy of a woman that has her OWN kinks and desires, and she draws/seduces/brings the submissive into it so he can please her. Find your inner femdom -- find out what flips your switch. Then bring him in and make him please you. He may have no idea what it is, he may have NEVER thought about it-- but if it makes you wild with lust, or fills you with femdom desire -- trust me, it will become one of his favorites.

Akasha


You've hit my fantasy right on :) i don't really fantasize, and i don't want to do things my Mistress doesn't inherently desire.




BitaTruble -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 11:02:57 AM)

Some of the oldies but goodies ideas.

Deck of playing cards - assign a different weapon to each suit and the number of that suit is the number of smacks. Alternatively, assign each card itself as a different activity ::or mode of dress etc:: . A dice roll can determine how many cards are pulled. Be sure to include things like foot massages in there. :) Roleplay Pit Boss/card dealer or Casino Owner/Chippendales dancer/topless waitress for flavor if you like. You can buy a cheap roll of poker chips and throughout the week, your submissive can earn chips to 'play' with later on.

Hearing deprivation seems to be something that has gone by the way-side, but I always have a box of ear plugs in the old toy bag. There's just something delicious about feeling the wind of the whip going by, but not being able to hear it coming.

Taste bud mindfucks - having a large assortment of different flavors, ::hell, have the submissive prepare them!:: Strawberries, chocolates, grapes, onions etc. Blindfold in place, place the onion under his nose, then tell him to open his mouth.. popping in a piece of chocolate surprises the taste buds. Better yet, smelling the strawberry then popping in a piece of onion can be even better. :) Any allergies taken into consideration, of course. This one is good for a Master Chef/scullery maid roleplay.

There's just a few ideas, fairly standard, but we often forget the simple stuff with all the high tech toys out there now.

Have fun. :)

Celeste




veronicaofML -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 12:28:10 PM)


Hearing deprivation seems to be something that has gone by the way-side, but I always have a box of ear plugs in the old toy bag. There's just something delicious about feeling the wind of the whip going by, but not being able to hear it coming.
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LOL...........i'm just deaf enough already i don't hear a lot of things going on behind my back...
She can do about anything She wants,...coz i don't hear a lot of it.
the older i get, the deafer i am GOING to GET.

take care




MysticalPhoenix -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 1:02:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

fantasy?

i'm getting the popcorn and salt for this one...




offers Veronica some of my Raisinets...




veronicaofML -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 1:58:14 PM)



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quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

fantasy?

i'm getting the popcorn and salt for this one...




offers Veronica some of my Raisinets...

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can't have em but i'll letcha have some o' my m & m's...




MistressOfGa -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 2:02:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressAlexaS

I'm always looking for new ideas for roleplay and was curious what scenes turn on sub males the most? I've done quite a few different roleplays but am always wanting to find new ones to play out with my sub.

Any to share?

~Alexa


I just have to say, be careful what you wish for. I have had an on-going fantasy for years and recently was able to finally act it out. I hated it. My interpretation of my own fantasy was much better than the physical act. My submissive did it because I ordered him to do it, but he got ZERO satisfaction in it.
I wish that I could give you some ideas, but I agree with siamsa, ask your sub. But then again, I love cloudboys "kidnap" idea. Very cool and very kinky <s>




DelightMachine -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 9:40:52 PM)

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I have had an on-going fantasy for years and recently was able to finally act it out. I hated it.


That happens the other way around too, I've noticed. Some things I thought I'd hate, I found I enjoyed. Some other things I thought I'd enjoy I did enjoy, but in very different ways from what I imagined they'd be like. Going to a nude beach was great, for instance, but it wasn't the way I imagined it at all. All scening and dominance and submission is probably like this. All sex is probably like this. You don't know if you'd really like it until you try it. Keeps life interesting, don't it?




DelightMachine -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/23/2006 10:17:20 PM)

quote:

it sounds good on paper...


No, no. It's true in fact, too. But maybe it depends on the sub and on the sub's mood. I have fantasies I'd love to try, but I absolutely love being with her to act out HER fantasies. People who are more into masochism than submission probably don't have as strong feelings for that as submissives like me, but it's really a big turn-on.

One of my many fantasies, a real simple one: She's on the phone, chatting with a friend, sitting on the edge of a chair, leaning back, as I worship her vagina with my mouth and tongue, bringing her to orgasm.

Maybe most people would consider this mild stuff, but it turns me on:

-- stripping for my mistress and her friends.

-- getting a genital piercing, having my mistress mention it to one of her vanilla-but-open-minded friends when we three are sitting at the kitchen table, then having mistress suggest that I open up my pants and show it off.

-- going into a store with my mistress and having her pick out a pair of sexy, female panties for me. This one I've done.

-- cheering up one of my mistresses friends on her orders. The woman is ugly or old and ugly, but it's my mission to go on a date with her, be attentive and friendly and gently, expertly pull her out of her blues and then give her the best night of sex she's ever had.

-- being one of two attentive men with my mistress, going out on a date, the three of us, with both men obviously showing affection for the woman, drawing some notice from people around us. Both of us men are dressed exactly alike. She orders for us at the restaurant. When we dance, it's all three together on the dance floor. When we go home, she goes to bed with both of us.

-- having a real artist of photography take sexy pictures of me naked, then having the pictures framed and put on the wall of my mistress's home. When a vanila, open-minded friend comes over and comments on the picture, which may not reveal my face, having my mistress tell her that it's my naked body the guest is looking at on the wall.

-- making some modification of my body or my looks that is totally the decision of my mistress because she likes the way it looks, and having the decision made before I'm asked whether or not I like it (if I'm asked) -- whether it's a haircut, jewelry that I'm to wear, a fitness program to give me a body of just the kind she wants, or a body piercing.

-- going to a body piercing shop and having my genitals pierced in just the place and in just the way she wants it, with no consultation with me as to what my desires are. It changes my body to her satisfaction.

-- doing something well -- cooking, cleaning, making something, whatever -- having a friend of my mistress comment on how nice it is, then having my mistress offer to have me do it for the friend, and going over to the friend's house and doing it for her.

-- living as one of seven male subs with a mistress. Once each week, she takes one of us into her room and unlocks his chastity device, and may let him have an orgasm, if he's been good that week. She is capricious, though, and if she has a liking for one sub, may unlock his device twice or three times in a week ... perhaps the seven are given house ranks, so some order around others.







pupofMoGa -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/24/2006 9:10:01 AM)

When i was performing the fantacy my Mistress ordered me too, i was eager to please her. As soon as the fantasy became reality, things kept on taking turns for the worse until it came to a grinding halt. I felt like it was a complete failure in my part due to the inability to fufill the fantacy. But i felt better that my Mistress didnt enjoy it either. Some times the best places for fantasies to live is in our minds, tucked into the darkest realms. Because when some of these fantacies are experienced in reality, they can become quite terrifying and painfull. My Mistress and i both walked away from the fantasy a little torn up but it brought us closer together because of the experience.

-pup




Nuke718 -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/24/2006 2:22:40 PM)

When I sub, I like to be surprised. My playmate knows my levles of interest and experience in certain things and decides what she would like to do. Sometimes my interests and her intentions align and I am surpised by something pleasant, or painful, or dirty, or erotic, and afterwards she tells me I did well.

Nuke }:-




veronicaofML -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/24/2006 4:32:56 PM)

quote:

I have had an on-going fantasy for years and recently was able to finally act it out. I hated it.

That happens the other way around too, I've noticed. Some things I thought I'd hate, I found I enjoyed. Some other things I thought I'd enjoy I did enjoy, but in very different ways from what I imagined they'd be like. Going to a nude beach was great, for instance, but it wasn't the way I imagined it at all. All scening and dominance and submission is probably like this. All sex is probably like this. You don't know if you'd really like it until you try it. Keeps life interesting, don't it?
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i wish i knew what fantasy was.............just once.
i was not allowed to...growing up.
so i never developed it.

"I" always felt sex is too over rated. never been satisfied in my life.
it's one...of the reasons..i gave it up...in 2001.

B O R I N G !!!




Cloudz -> RE: Submale Fantasies (1/24/2006 5:44:08 PM)

Delight Machine....I find your fantasies...Mmmmmmmmmmmm, Yummmy, Delightful




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