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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:41:52 AM   
gypsygrl


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Status: offline 		While I don't know if I would define it as a kink, I do like grunt work and have done tons of stuff without fair compensation just for the feeling I get doing it, and I like working for someone.  With my ex-husband, I did a lot of stuff for him that benefitted his carreer such as indexing his first book and transcribing interviews for his dissertation, in addition to just plain working so he could focus on his studies.  I received a kind of compensation that doesn't show up on the ledgers and it enhanced my skills.

I've also taken jobs doing personal care and housecleaning that weren't fairly compensated but made me feel really good at the end of the day.  So long as I'm respected and treated well, if I have the time, I consider that sort of thing valuable in terms of keeping me emotionally healthy.  I look at it as a form of re-creation. 

Its been a long time since I've had regular employment, so I tend to find 'work-like' things to fill my time.  Sometimes I wonder, if I had a job, what I'd do for fun. :)

I do doubt if I could work 40hrs a week like the op's suggesting in a no strings attached situation even if room and board was provided.  It sounds too much like real slavery.  I would need more of a relationship.

But, no, I don't think the general idea is out of line.




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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:56:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

Well, this would certainly be an interesting kind of submission.

Myself, I'm trying to get Padriag for agree to attend seven more years of college for me, in exchange for conversations about medieval culture, while half naked.

I'll let you know how it turns out, and which one ends up being the dominant.

Why is it I never get the memo on these things!  LOL

Hmmm... how about I help you with the homework.  Only half naked???  LOL  Since when do I do anything by halves dearheart?

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:57:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sensualips

Caitlyn, if this pans out, let me know if he might be available to finally finish my Master's. I'm not much on medieval culture, but I could demonstrate the amazing Rainbow vaccum cleaning system -- also half naked.

We could be a triad. You can have the pillow.

You ladies are simply making my day here... and given the way this month has been, that is a truly welcome surprise.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 10:06:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshine333

just be wary of the ones who say they need no compensation. there was a thread about that recently. even slaves are human ... with needs. if you're not looking to have a reciprocal relationship then at least be prepared for totally dysfunctional, emotionally dead people hiding in slaves' clothing, promising you unconditional service. ;)

remember .. there's no such thing as a free lunch.
but, good luck to you.

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I agree.

I had one slave once who claimed he just wanted to do mundane tasks for me.

That didn't sit right with me so I was sure to praise his work and inspect it, provide him with liquids and the materials to do the work.

Still when he saw the other relationships I had going on he claimed I was abusing him and using him.

I do not trust anyone anymore who says they just like to do mundane things.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 10:12:58 AM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		Tammy, sounds like a case of someone who didn't have much imagination.  I suspect he was probably looking for approval and a sense of purpose, but wasn't able to envision much more than simple service (perhaps owing to low self esteem).  When he saw other examples of relationships where much more was possible he regreted his choice, became envious and bitter.  I've run into a few like that.  They can be a bit prickly to deal with and I learned long ago to take my time with anyone and explain all the possiblities to ensure they are making as informed a decision as possible.  That's something the OP should keep in mind... things my start out simple enough, but they rarely remain so.

Guess I better get to work on the list of things of possibilities I need to inform Caitlyn about.  (I admit, her comment really made my day)

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 11:58:26 AM   
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Hire a pro-domme who is a control freak accountant, I mean most bean counters are sadists so this can't be a hard combination to find.  Then set up a pro-domme porn website and charge people to watch the video feeds.  Then have this all set up on a plexiglass stage suspended over the factory floor so all the slave/workers can see it.  Then slowly rotate them through on their lunches and breaks for use and abuse.  Should work out just fine.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 12:03:29 PM   
slaveish


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In every situation / relationship / dynamic, there must be give and take. The question for you is what are you prepared to give (besides ungodly amounts of work) while you are in the process of taking?

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 1:38:39 PM   
Archer


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Status: offline 		Very few folks out there who expect absolutely nothing in retuirn for directed service.
You'll find even the most giving types want some sort of exchange.
I have in addition to my slave (who I provide most of the support for financially) I have a boi who serves me but in return I provide life guidance/ mentoring/ lifestyle learning opportunities/ Family type support/ etc...

Slaves are damned expensive to keep full time and service oriented submissives who give part time service tend to have the expectation that it will be an exchange of power for responsibility. I have o problem with folks wanting practicle service from submissives or slaves but owning/ dominating them means taking on the responsibility of providing something in the exchange.



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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 8:41:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

Okay, I've looked on Alt, here and random other place. I was wondering if anyone has ever seen a work slave fetish like factory type work, where they receive almost no compensation. I have my online business going, and I'm sitting here at the computer, and dreading having to ship out these 35 packages today. I'm serious, I really hate shipping crap, and a slave sounds cheaper to me, than hiring someone.

I know this sounds weird, but quite a few things I didn't think exist do. Like financial slaves. I just never seen one requesting something like this. But, if someone got off on doing unfair amounts of work, I'd be a great master.

Just wondering if this exists before I make a profile, and figure someone here would have seen this if it does.




Define unfair work. I do most of the chores around here now that Valyraen has a job.

But receiving no compensation? No belly rubs, no kisses, no love, no orgasms, no "I love you Kitten" moments?

Not worth it, in my opinion.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 8:45:23 PM   
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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 8:48:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

I can't think of anything I would ask a slave to do that I would not do myself.


Which, in my humble little opinion, makes you really great.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 8:50:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Which, in my humble little opinion, makes you really great.


Shhhhhhh!!!!!

Damn it. Don't screw things up for me. I may just fuk around and get a slave.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 8:55:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Which, in my humble little opinion, makes you really great.


Shhhhhhh!!!!!

Damn it. Don't screw things up for me. I may just fuk around and get a slave.


*whispers* Sorry. I'll be quiet now.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 8:57:21 PM   
FukinTroll


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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 8:57:34 PM   
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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:03:18 PM   
FukinTroll


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Good.

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:04:33 PM   
MagiksSlave


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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:07:29 PM   
FukinTroll


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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:08:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExistentialSteel

To keep all the complaints down and to keep it legal, pay her, but make her give you all the money back. It may even add an erotic element to make her give you the money back. ChainedExistence is being way too practical, but her liberal heart tends to make her be concerned for others that way.


Not a good idea.  If you pay her and demand it back, remember a little organization called the IRS?  How could she then pay the feds?

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RE: Has anyone seen this kind of slave. - 3/22/2007 9:12:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

I'll give you another cookie if you show me them boobies!

Somebody is craving boobies tonight.

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