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RE: A Thought - 3/12/2009 10:30:35 PM

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We are usually Love or My Love to one another. Dear when we are being sarcastic. My Lord for the right moments, but we are not formal enough to bother trying to maintain some regime of titles and unnecessary formalities.

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RE: A Thought - 3/12/2009 10:50:21 PM

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Babydoll, pet, cub, baby, Koko or Geoff. It depends on my mood or what is happening. Smartass is one I say often lol He calls me Mistress most times, but if we are joking around he calls me his little DorkChop. Actually, thinking about it, we hardly ever call each other by our given names. If I am upset or crying about something he may say "Mistress?" and if I don't respond he will then say "Karen?". There is no protocol for us, although he does call me Mistress more often than anything else.

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RE: A Thought - 3/15/2009 8:52:56 AM

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Its always Master or Sir. If we are in front of family I call Master by his name. But thats the only time. I couldn't dream of calling him anything else. He is my Master and therefore I call him just that.

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RE: A Thought - 3/15/2009 1:02:38 PM

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Here, I refer to Him as Master. To um's, coworkers and family, I refer to Him by His given name.

When we are alone, I always call Him "Sir". Unless He is in the mood to hear me call Him "Daddy", but that is usually only during some types of play.

Lol- when I was to meet His mother for the first time, He coached me for weeks on using His first name. It just felt unnatural to me.

He calls me by my name or "little girl".

There is no right or wrong way- it's what works for the ones in the relationship, so- no worries.

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RE: A Thought - 3/15/2009 1:25:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: DomM&SubK

Ok here is a thought am I the only one that never calls there Master or Sir the same name all the time? Yes he is my sir as well as my king and lord and at times my prince and at others my master as well as my big daddy. To me all of these labels mean the same thing he is mine and I am his. I also think of them as terms of endearment like when I just walk up to him call him honey.
Now I have read that there are some masters out there that tell there slave or sub what to call them and sir always told me to call him by his name till I felt ready to call him any thing else. So I did and yes the first night he was my Master but when the sex was over he was back to his name. It took me almost a year to call him Sir before I felt like it was Normal. And don’t get me started on the issues my mother had when she first heard me slipped and call him “Big Daddy” in front of her.
I got the “That is not right he is old enough to be your father” statement. And my statement back was “Mom I didn’t know how old he was when we first meet” “And when I did find out I didn’t care he never treats me like a child but an adult and I am happy so back off”.
Now she thinks it is funny she is still older than him by 9 months and it has become a family joke. So is this comon for us Subs or Slave to pick and chose as the moments hit to what we call our Sirs?

What other people call each other is their own business. In my relationship, he was ALWAYS Master. I called him by his first name once, and that was when we married.
In private, in front of the youngins, in front of both our families and friends, I never called him anything other than Master. I will admit though, I can not remember if it was something he required or just what felt the most natural for me.

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