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RiotGirl -> Communication (1/23/2006 12:19:10 PM)
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i hear alot about the importance to communicate with your other. But i have never heard about the importance of communicating with yourself. Personally, i find it of greater importance to communicate with yourself. Sometimes i find i "forget" things that i need to sit down and remind myself of what i want and where i want to go. i get all caught up in the moment. A way to refocus.
Sometimes in this lifestyle there are things we have trouble wrapping our heads around. Only because of our nature. Its not that we dont want to, but ourselves get in the way. Our own insecurities, issues, baggage or just having a hard day. We get in the way of what we really want long term. So i believe that its almost necassary to talk to ourselves, remove that block.
Say your Dom, wants you to do something you really dont want to do. Now agreed, you should talk to him and that might help abit. But i doubt it will fix how YOU feel. i doubt it will take that "block" away and sometimes we can effectively speak about what stops us. And sometimes no matter how much talking you do, you're still going to feel how you feel. which is why i say its just as important to talk to yourself. Only you can truely look inside of you and know why. You dont need others to tell you what you want or how things are. You already know this. You just need to remind yourself sometimes. You are your own best friend.
Of course, i think talking to yourself can go across so many different subjects and areas. And yes, i talk to myself all the time, i argue with myself and sometimes the "talk" spills outside of my head and its possible to see me sitting here muttering to myself.
LOL [:D]
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